ConcernedNL:


If you gave him the flat, simply expel him. otherwise there is no way to go about it, or simply comfront him about it, be calm about the whole stuff, try to ensure one of your guys are around incase it wants to get rough.

Tell him dude, i know you are asking my lady out, we dont do that here, you are my guy and i thought you were more than that. Let it stop.


Then you keep your eyes open
Plan on sending him packing
Never ever trust him
Dont hesitate to deal with him if he persist, dont go extreme o, a little whooping is not out of place for such.


Such men have low self esteem, small minded leeches. USA will soo wear off his body since he wont regard himself

No need to confront him. Just send him out packing. End of Story.

If he asks, Just say my family is coming over & they need a place to stay.

lazygal:




But it's very disrespectful for you to ask your flamt mate chick out haba! Guy code dey na.. That means if they were married he can approach her also ...that was disloyal and he needs to at least know the kinda person he is living with

most guys are missing there brain so this things do happen but for a woman to even give her number to the guy and even continue with the chart, she is far worse than an idiot.


this are the kind of women that they can open yansh for Africa

JeffreyJamez:
Funny how everyone is quick to jump and blame the gf for giving her number to her Boyfriend's friend. Is it her fault the friend is asking her out? To me, the fact she showed the bf is enough reason to believe she has nothing to hide. If she wanted to cheat,trust me, she would and Op here wouldn't even find out. I think what OP should do is just tell his "roommate" to back off his GF. That is if he has serious plans about his relationship with is GF.

This shows ur still a learner is this department.
Like someone said here,showing op the chat is like feeding a fowl well before killing it.If she doesn't want the guy or if she's not already daydreaming of bleeping the guy,she should've stopped him from the first approach.

DIKEnaWAR:



She will just go and fvck the flatmate immediately. For her to give him her number shows she is interested in the guy. Showing her boyfriend their chats is just trying to feed a chicken well before slaughtering it. Women a just one kind of people and will keep giving you signs that the house is cracking (albeit subtly) before bringing it down on your head in one fell swoop. What am I saying, she is just trying to satisfy her conscience that she tried to resist the bagger while he asked her out. Her excuse when it happens: "but I told you then and you don't seem to care. I was showing you chats and all. You became distant and he was there for me" Lies!

My advise to the bro is to start looking for a fresh babe and begin to fvck the one he has wild. Do all the crazy things you imagined with a babe and never done with her. We all have that blackboard that we practiced on and wiped clean afterwards.

You are in a relationship with a coded hoe(worst type of women) but like a yorrrrubbaa boy that you are, you won't have sense once it concerns woman.

You are wicked oh. Bad guy.

Why would your gf give him her number in the first place??

theapeman:
most guys are missing there brain so this things do happen but for a woman to even give her number to the guy and even continue with the chart, she is far worse than an idiot.


this are the kind of women we that they can open yansh for Africa

She actually should not have given her number and I can bet the opwasnt pleased about it

I no get why dis op dey write epistle.....na party sure pass.

Forget your friend and concentrate on discouraging your girlfriend from that nigga before he succeed her, shey you get?

Marshalxv:


This shows ur still a learner is this department.
Like someone said here,showing op the chat is like feeding a fowl well before killing it.If she doesn't want the guy or if she's not already daydreaming of bleeping the guy,she should've stopped him from the first approach.

You people are just extremely insecure lol.

Most of the comments here, absolute trash,
The kind of Sexism and misogyny shown in these comments is just pathetic.

Girls that give out their phone numbers to guys while in a relationship should be a turn off to RESPONSIBLE MEN.

Most girls won't try that with their Guy's friend because some girls will see it as a big TEST to be avoided.
She should block his number rather than Showing you their chats .
When a girl is serious in a relationship, she does not play this kind of Joke.
THOSE GIRLS THAT REFUSE TO GIVE OUT THEIR PHONE NUMBERS WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF YOU ARE DANGOTE, I DO RESPECT THEM A LOT.

Caseless:
why did you give him her number?
tell your babe to block him.


Or install whatsapp spy on babe's phone to track her chats with other guys.

What's this one saying?

frenzyduchess:
Why will she give him her number without your consent?,some guys still ask married women with a shinning ring on their finger out not to talk of gf, I am not surprised

You're joking right?

dis one na woman wrapper. You one 4k ur follow guy up becos of ur girlfriend , bros make i asked you de girl na ur wife? U don pay her bride price.

ubunja:
if your friend is from America then say goodbye to your GF.
u cant win
even if he is broke
the fact that he is from that far while u never even left your city is enough for her.plus she is hopping to hitch a ride to the states with him shud things get better and he thinks of returning.
start talking to other gals.it will soften the coming blow.

If na me, I go use my Bae collect him money tire.... Na office him go be.

Back then in Uni, my classmates liked my girl, everyone told him she is my gal, guy no gree, he came to tell me, I was like if u like her ask her out.

Dude sente to talk to her, gave me tips, I went o. Bae laughed and was like u dey craze?

Dude sent Bae SMS for lunch, Bae said I must join, I joined. At crunches, Bae wanted to make order n said we will go together, dude agreed. We went, Bae got me chicken, snail, rice, life alive, got meat for dude n took what she wanted.

Dude didn't complain. Bae also got take away for us. When we are leaving, Bae insisted I will take her home as na me she trust, dude agreed brought cab fare, we went home n laughed.

One day, dude walked up to me say I fooled him. I said no, u wanted to show Bae say I no get class, because na yam n fio fio or beans n roasted plantain I dey carry her go chop. So na him u wan show say u get money.

Friends agreed with me, n reminded him he was warned.

I forgot he got Bae a phone those days of open n close, Bae gave to me as she no poor like me.

Me I just dey middle dey enjoy, dude dey tip me to talk to Bae, Bae dey collect n give me... Until she got feed up n invited both of us n told dude we are together



If I were u, office alert loading

shatap dere!!!

cruchenutii:


No need to confront him. Just send him out packing. End of Story.

If he asks, Just say my family is coming over & they need a place to stay.

True, but what if he has paid a two year rent?

That guy go chop am oo.......That American guy go chop am oo.

For him to get her number, he go chop am

No be say she go totally Quit u ooo.......

Na so one South sudan guy com scatter my Elder sista relationship with her Bf that year oo

Well, well, well. If she still gat brains uill nw, just remind her wat to do (she's not interested and if he insist he can threaten him with the fact that he's sexually harassing her and as Yankee boy he nws the implications), but if not scatter the whole tin and embarrass them both especially the tin u call friend. because to me a girl is a girl but a guy who you call friend, hitting on your bae? Wen he nws the owner? Common . I don't care how big he is, he's going Tru d window because one day he will toast my wife if am not smart enough. The commotion alone will determine its continuity. A beg no gree oo. Mobilise Ur loyal friends make una spoil him fine boy if him show muscle as long as him no be jean Claude van-dammevan-damme uill succeed

lazygal:




She actually should not have given her number and I can bet the opwasnt pleased about it

somethings can be easily be avoided but no! with our selfish motive and dangerous curiosity we ended up making a big and silly mistake!

in her fish mind she thought if the guy came from the state he will definitely got some cash which the guy is probably using her mindset to lore her.



hard Truth! most guy who came back from the state are danm broke

from experience I will tell you that you can't blow there unless back here.

So she gave him her number n even started chatting with him....she's worse than d devil. Sorry but don't consider her as yr girlfriend. She has messed u up, that your flatmate is something else. BE CAREFUL before she starts taking money from u n transfering it to him.

pahen1991:
dis one na woman wrapper. You one 4k ur follow guy up becos of ur girlfriend , bros make i asked you de girl na ur wife? U don pay her bride price.

Stupid little kid.

TheCabal:
This situation has nothing to do with you.

Your not in charge of her life, the sooner you understand that the easier you sleep at night.

Dude, your not married. She's just and I repeat "just" your girlfriend.

...and it's just his turn.

lilmax:
this one dey think like mumu

do you just see a girl for the first time and wife her? are you thinking straight?

so since he's not in charge, she should do crap with any guy that comes into her life even as she's dating?

get your head checked, very important

U are 1 of the numerous olodos on nairaland..so he shud fight for girl that is not his wife..olodo

it took her two days to tell u he was trying to get her number which she had already given him? you read their chat, what abt phone calls? you gf loves d attention she is getting from him, she is showing wat she wants u to see n not all there is to see. as for d bastard ,just tell him to move out

agongajoseph:
Stupid little kid.

foolish old man

call the guy as mature person in the present of ur babe, tell ur babe to delete his number and block him in his presence that shows you are the boss. go ahead and show mercy to the guy by informing him that you would have messed him up but you just want to forgive him but won't forget. Go ahead and tell him he is under surveillance.

Omo please play maturity here, some women could be deceptive what you need to do is to call your friend to order , or better still resent those charts he has been sending to the gal to him, watch his reactions, you make be judging him wrongly wallahi

JeffreyJamez:


You people are just extremely insecure lol.

That's because girls have given guys many reasons to be insecure.

on several occasions I've seen girls tell their boyfriend of a toaster and ends up bleeping the toaster. Shine ur eyes bro

The green light is coming from your girlfriend. So many people have advised you to make her jealous. Don't do that or you are giving her to him on a plate. Talk to the guy instead and let both of you make her realize her stupid games.