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The Real Reason Why Nice Guys Finish Last And They Always Will by Lothario(m): 7:40pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
He hasn’t called you in a week, and the
longest 15 minutes of your life was spent
waiting on a text back from him. He bailed on
you twice, two Fridays ago, and you’re
thinking, perhaps, third times a charm?
He goes by the name of Derek. He’s built with
that flawless, Tatum-meets-Gosling contour
and he's undoubtingly high-in-demand. He says
all the right things.
Although your eyes should roll with every
smooth line he throws at you, you eat it up
anyway. He’s all wrong for you, but you want
him, nonetheless.
But did you notice Paul called you twice today,
and you dodged both rings? Did you realize
that your inbox fills up with enthralling text
messages from him, on a regular basis? Don’t
forget the flowers he brought you on your
second date. Yeah, that guy. Oh, that’s right;
he was never an option.
In the complex world of women, guys like Paul
don’t stand a chance. The truth is, nice guys
don’t offer women a challenge. They are
boring, agreeable and easily attained. Women
barely break a sweat with them. Men like Paul
do not offer women the chase.
They lack the hard-to-get appeal and are
always there, wrapped around a woman’s
finger. Yes, it’s true: Women want the chase,
they ache for the struggle and they thirst for
the wonder.
So men, make women cry; ignore them. Douse
them with your sadistic MOs, and you will find
them hanging onto your every word, at your
convenience. Apparently, if you’re the nice
guy, your existence won’t even appear in her
radar.
This seems to be the desire of the Gen-Y
woman, yet, we often hear them say, “I just
want a nice guy.” Sounds pretty hypocritical,
eh? Women are wired to follow complexities.
A nice guy waltzes into a woman's life and
she immediately leads him into the friend
zone, no questions asked. However, when she
stumbles upon the antithesis of that, she
relentlessly finds herself at his feet, becoming
what our dating society refers to as a “stage-
five clinger,” or simply, "crazy."
Women are full of paradoxes. They are
drowning in their own ambiguities; it’s in their
nature. Women may say one thing, yet mean
another. They have been living in a dimension
where “I’m fine,” means “nothing is fine,” and
the obvious answer is “do whatever you want
to do." They religiously use this shield of
passive aggressiveness as a defense
mechanism.
With that being said, both men and women will
continue to grow and learn about themselves
after dating different people. Yes, this means
women will outgrow the jerks. They will
exhaust themselves from men buying them
drinks at clubs and instead, pursue dreams of
settling down and buying a house.
They will long for security and a nice guy to
love them unconditionally, rather than one who
leaves them tirelessly piecing together
suspicious alibis. The lies will get old and so
will the waiting.
Unfortunately, often times we don't know
what's good for us until we've been exposed
to what's bad for us. Women need to get their
hearts broken and self-esteem perished once,
twice or maybe three times to recognize what
they deserve.
Thanks, jerks. Your emotionless charm and
excessive lying serves to help women grow
from being the naive girls they once were. You
have paved the way for nice guys to finally
get their shot. So really, it's true: Nice guys
finish last, but they do, ahem, finish.
Perhaps, behind every jerk lies an ex-girlfriend
who made him that way. The same may go for
women who have nice men eating from the
palm of their hands. We have all been a Derek
at once point in our lives. And we’ve all been
a doormat like Paul.
It’s a learning process and the partners we
meet, love and leave have all become our
teachers. At the end of the day, once you
have had your time of being the jerk, you'll
turn into the nice guy. You’ll be a keeper.
Nice guys finish last because they should
finish last. Women must first practice on a
rough draft before framing a masterpiece. 1 Like |
Re: The Real Reason Why Nice Guys Finish Last And They Always Will by ubunja(m): 8:23pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
nice guys eat leftovers. no two ways about it |
Re: The Real Reason Why Nice Guys Finish Last And They Always Will by sparklezeee: 8:34pm On Nov 22, 2017 |
good piece |
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