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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Sunofgod(m): 11:00pm On Dec 01, 2017
Wife must disclose to husband...... but not the other way around.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Ryocaj(m): 11:01pm On Dec 01, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.
D way u think shows d region u r from..

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by somadinho10: 11:02pm On Dec 01, 2017
sad angry angry
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Bills2307(m): 11:03pm On Dec 01, 2017
sollybaby:
hmmm... abeg who go dash me 20k
what is this? your opinion is needed (Right or wrong) not your begging

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by JERRYABC2(m): 11:07pm On Dec 01, 2017
I thing the should devioce
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by oganla1(m): 11:08pm On Dec 01, 2017
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NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??

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NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??

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NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??

No is not
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by olujastro: 11:12pm On Dec 01, 2017
sollybaby:
hmmm... abeg who go dash me 20k
Will you work for it?
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by jamesbridget13(f): 11:12pm On Dec 01, 2017
When two cunny people come jam, wetin you expect?


How can they plan n cut their coat accordingly?
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Drila7: 11:14pm On Dec 01, 2017
I will remove 30% off my Earnings and declare the rest grin
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Dec 01, 2017
Anyways I don't want to know how much my man earns. You can keep it as top secret, no qualms.

Just fulfil the financial responsibilities at home and when the kids starts popping out.

O tan!

At least am not asking for too much cheesy

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Tedpgrass: 11:17pm On Dec 01, 2017
wisdom is profitable to all

as much as transparency breeds trust in relationships, money troubles from a varicious spender. lazy spouse can help set in cracks quicker than you expect!!

different strokes for different folks...

u know say na gold digger u put for house...
you have become honourable commissioner of housing for all his/her family members: minister of works n transport,, na u dey buy them motor and pay them monthly allowee: spouse will wipe you out in the event of a divorce..,. get wisdom n protect u na self.....


lot of hungry ravenous wolves looking for mumu buttons to press, sometimes dressed in Gucci/ Prada!! and appearing corporate. undecided


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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Zionprincess(f): 11:20pm On Dec 01, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.
people like you that summit their income to their wife.

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by justikay(m): 11:24pm On Dec 01, 2017
Wrong
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by vicfy(m): 11:27pm On Dec 01, 2017
Salary? Yes!, Allowances? NO!.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Zionprincess(f): 11:27pm On Dec 01, 2017
Sunofgod:
Wife must disclose to husband...... but not the other way around.


you try well well.....
I am sure you need nonentity as wife.

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by themaestro08(m): 11:33pm On Dec 01, 2017
shinarlaura:
It's very wrong to hide it. Being open will enable for the futur planing of the family.
i agree
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by WinkWrld: 11:35pm On Dec 01, 2017
Some women dey cos am
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by creamylicious(f): 11:50pm On Dec 01, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.
men don't do gigolo Ehn??
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by PearlStreet(m): 11:53pm On Dec 01, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

A wife must never know what her husband earns or his source of income.
It is none of her business, her job is just to enjoy the wealth and make babies for the man, that's why they are called 'oriaku'.

But a woman's income must be known,
It's source well defined;
Before you unknowingly start eating food cooked from money gotten through prostitution.

So, the women in your family only make their money from prostitution?

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by delugajackson: 11:54pm On Dec 01, 2017
Two reasons I don't let my wife know how much I'm earning;


1. I don't have a job.

2. I don't have a wife.

I hope that answers your question.

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Preciousojoka(m): 12:00am On Dec 02, 2017
Honestly it really based on understanding.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Diso60090(m): 12:04am On Dec 02, 2017
Na you dey get up every 6h45 am 7days a week 365 days a year wey you wan know how much i dey get monthly come this woman take your time ehh
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by enemyofprogress: 12:25am On Dec 02, 2017
Dis one wey wives don dey kill abeg I go hide am well well o,I no wan die
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by Icon79(m): 12:31am On Dec 02, 2017
Wrong!



O pari
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by ademide0710: 12:47am On Dec 02, 2017
Every marriage should be built on trust,very important. I know how much my husband earns, when he got a new job he shows me his employment letter. I have my business too. I'm not interested in his money. The trust we have for each other has helped our family so far. He does his responsibility as a husband and father. Whenever his finance down, he finds it so difficult to approach me for money but I always beg him to collect from me,after so much persuasion he stills return when his financial buoyant . When we go for shopping, I make payment at times but his not always comfortable with it. He believes his the head of the family but to me we are to help and support each other. I bless the day, I met that man.

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by TemmyTee82(f): 1:02am On Dec 02, 2017
martineverest:
Totally wrong.. My wife shud know how much I earn and we will run same account..... She must know all my password and I will know hers.

This is y I like western couples... They run same account and monitor each other's spending

tongue
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by sirfee(m): 1:10am On Dec 02, 2017
NLbully:
This came to my amusement when I asked someone if he knows how much his partner is earning and to my surprise he said they don't disclose it to each other ( Can't really understand what led to the conversation )

How do you see this, do you think it is right for your partner not to know how much you earn as salary ??

It is right if you are still dating,sometimes it is good to be secretive. Some partners are gold diggers,they don't really give a fvck about you or your love.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by SupremeBeast: 1:23am On Dec 02, 2017
women of today are very greedy. many wives want it all from their husbands yet they aren't ready to offer any financial contribution in return. if you let your wife know how much you earn, it's very certain that you will be broke and most of the time you will end up borrowing.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by aspirebig: 1:43am On Dec 02, 2017
It is personal .. ..

No law demands that...some disclose while some don't but know that no two marriages are the same.. what works for "A" may not work for "B"...

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by businessempire: 1:49am On Dec 02, 2017
Lalas247:
Wrong


But me I will hide mine sha for at least the first 10 years .... been burnt before kole happen second time around !
is Lalasticlala ur boyfriend?

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Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by olawumia(m): 1:51am On Dec 02, 2017
Then what is luv if we can't open up to each other. My wife knows what I am earning ,knows my investment.
Re: Couples Hiding Their Earnings From Each Other, Right Or Wrong? by PDPGuy: 1:55am On Dec 02, 2017
I can’t see a justification for keeping your salary secret from your spouse. Both of you are supposed to be one, so a wife should know what her hubby earns, and vice versa.

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