amiibaby:
Very very on point

Pesuzok:
Why do people think that there is a recipe to a good marriage

amiibaby:
Very very on point

queenfav:
Oga tell them!!! Some men don't rest when they know their wife is rich! That's where they share sone children's school fees for her to be paying or ask her to contribute half of the rent. My former boss once said "God forbid that I will be calculating my wife's money that's for her to buy stuff she wants, without asking me always for everything. A woman should assist her man, but it's a man's duty to feed his wife and care for their kids!That's why i love most Igbo men(yea, bae is one). They have pride and they work hard to care for their wives and children. God forbid that a real igbo man will stay at home relying on his wife's money! That's how it should be.

NewsWorthy247:
Sharing his thought on Instagram, Nigerian man Wale Jana, told fellow men to leave their wives’ money because no woman prayed for a man she will be splitting bills with.

He further disclosed that when a man leaves such, he will further earn his respect in the home.

Here’s what he wrote;
"What Every Man Should Know:
1. Leave your wife’s money alone: No woman prayed for a husband she will be sharing bills with, every woman prays for a rich husband. If you truly want to enjoy your marriage and earn the respect of your wife, leave her money alone. I understand that if both of you are working you can put money together for rent, school fees and all but you must never make it a lifestyle. If you take money from her make sure you give back more than you collected.

Try this: whenever you need money, sow money to your wife and watch what God will do.

2. Practice what you preach: You cannot have a pot belly and tell your wife to be a size 8, you cannot stay at home on sundays and ask her to be a prayer warrior. You cannot expect her to submit and respect you when you are not a provider and working hard to give her the best.

3. Never stop dating your wife: you have to stay hot for your wife, let her be proud to say “that’s my man” one deadly mistake you can make is to think that nobody is trying to seduce your wife because you are married to her. You must give her attention, take her out, spoil her, don’t stop doing the little things that brought you together in the first place. If you treat her bad or make her feel like she’s nothing, she will find attention elsewhere, you must safeguard your wife against yoruba demons, hausa demons and all sorts of demons.

May you receive common sense in Jesus name.

You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.

#JesusDidIt #ThankYouJesus"

http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/your-wifes-money-alone-nigerian-man.html

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Wallade:


Your man is indulging you, this will keep you misguided so it will be difficult for you to understand him when he eventually needs your resources. You will see, those days that he will need your money will come.

Sikay19:
This is nothing but bitter truth that some lazy guys would try to run away from.. You can't eat your cake and still have it. you can't be sharing bills with your wife and still claim head of a family. The African system is very patriarchal that subjects men as givers while women as the recipients.

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

the shiit he wrote is probably aimed at all them ungrateful and lazy good for nothing women out there, looking for a rich man to take care of their deluded needs.
if a woman earns money and she doesnt think it is RIGHT for her to contribute to the family well being, then she should be dropped like a bad rash. a husband shouldnt even ask his wife to chip in, she should do it because thats the RIGHT thing to do.

Wallade:

Your man is indulging you, this will keep you misguided so it will be difficult for you to understand him when he eventually needs your resources. You will see, those days that he will need your money will come.

However, no one is advocating that the husband should sit at home and have his wife work for money or generate money to sustain the home. The both of them have collective responsibilities to generate the resources, including money, to sustain and improve the home or marriage.

Wallade:


So, should we continue to live with that deceit in bold letters even when you have the will but less or no ability. Have you observed that the Nigerian labor market is more favorably disposed to employing the women than men of late.
The majority of the men are left to create jobs for themselves and coop with the pressure in the market and bills of the business and home, I think the men need help from their wives especially since she works and generate income.

Stop this mentality of: his money is our money while her money is her money. It never helped our forefathers, it made them demanding and overbearing on their women. We need to change that orientation and start seeing marriage as a team work and joint investment. #SaveTheMarriedMan

uk10:
Then the wife should do all the cooking and cleaning since I am the one taking care if the family without assistance

Ayesa:
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Depending on the purchasing power of the husband, a man as rich as Dangote can fund all the family expences without blinking an eye same cannot be said of an average income earners

mavinc4u:


Bro, if you don't want it the African way, just stick to western style where you and your wife should share all the house chores including cooking and taking care of the children because that is how it is done where women are meant to contribute financially. Everything is shared equally.

streamsofjoy:


There isn't. But there are principles that apply to all Becos we have the same thing in common- we' human.

Wallade:


Ever wondered why Dangote was divorced from marriage twice, I wonder too but I have some reason to think it could also be the annoying expectation of women like you that Dangote can fund all the expenses without blinking an eye.

Even if I am Bill Gates, my wife should be employed and make valuable contribution, including finances, to a sustainable home or family, she will be part of the decision process in the home and add value to the home.

mavinc4u:


I hope you also assist her in the kitchen. Some Nigeria men sha. When it comes to house chores, the woman should do her work alone like an African woman but when it comes to taking care of the house financially, the woman should contribute like a western lady. They hardly stick to one, always swerving to favour themselves.

GloriaNinja:
HE IS STATING THE FACT THAT THOUGH... A MAN SHOULD BE THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE... NOT THE TAIL.

pocohantas:
I don't know why I do not support this.
What then is she using her money to do?
This is how financial irresponsibility starts. Everyone should be useful in the family...financially, domestically, spiritually...etc.

MrBrownJay1:


dont insult us men with such BS.... what you wrote above shows us all your level of low self esteem. see how you wrote that a woman's job is in the kitchen... poor soul, shame on you! but then again, what you suggest the wife use her money on?! Brazilian hair?! Gucci bags?! build her own mansion in secret?!?! ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

btw: in Nigeria where everyone has a maid, you wanna tell me that MADAM who earns a salary will cook and clean after work while the housegirl watches telenovelas, abi?!?!? BWAAAAAAH! i suggest you keep quiet if you have nothing valuable to bring to this issue.