Please guys i really want to know y men even when married would still date one or more ladies outside their matrimonial home?

Do guys find it actually impossible to stay just wit their wives or rather is there something particular they find in younger ladies out there.

My Father had an affair that i know cos i remember how we really got the lady beaten thoroughly without our dad's knowledge, men who are old enough to be my grand fathers too could go after a small girl i mean crawling just to have her in bed.

Y is this cos i keep getting d feeling that my husband could do the same too

Its like an unwritten civic responsibility not just in Nigeria but worldwide.

Why beat the girl this i can't understand, she may not have know your dad was married. You should of beaten your father. Maybe he would learn his lesson.

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I always wonder why the girl is attacked in all this, it takes two to tango.

Ebonyeyes:

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I always wonder why the girl is attacked in all this, it takes two to tango.

I could never figure it out either, there is no way in hell would i beat another girl just because my bf or husband cheated. I think thats why most guys get away with things cos there partner is more interested in beating de girl up.

You got the girl beaten? I have to admit, that is hilarious

lol, you guys beat her black and blue, nice one, but will that stop him from finding another one? no

there is actually a whole science on why men cheat, try read it up on Wikipedia,

@op, u beat her up bt ur dads d.i.c.k is stil unbeaten.

U & ya partner should register 4 d heavyweight tag team beat.nxt tyme try beatin ya oldman dat should work LOL,

xxcarolxx:

I could never figure it out either, there is no way in hell would i beat another girl just because my bf or husband cheated. I think thats why most guys get away with things cos there partner is more interested in beating de girl up.

I agree with you hun, they know this thats why the vicious cycle still continues.

Poster. . .
Go ask Tiger Woods that.

My husband no dey cheat abeg,na only me

Who kom ask? Ah u don turn male? Nawa o

There is a lot of men who dont cheat. Cant we talk about them? Both men and women cheat. I believe it has everything to do with their personality and weak character.

At certain stage in life everybody cheat. I'll cheat and blame it on mid life crisis

[size=24pt]NO!!![/size]

[size=14pt]Only married men who are dogs cheat.[/size]

not all married men cheat. we still have the decent ones out there. also, some married women cheat.
people should just be faithful in their relationships. If you truly love your spouse, I wonder what you will be looking for outside

Well some (just few) dont cheat.

But why would you want your hubby to be eating rice every day, wont he spice it up with plaintain or beans or spaghetti or salad or even vegetable, some other times for a nourishing balance diet.

kemisuga:



But why would you want your hubby to be eating rice every day, wont he spice it up with plaintain or beans or spaghetti or salad or even vegetable, some other times for a nourishing balance diet.

meaning?

NO!!!

Only married men who are dogs cheat.

Women who cheat are [size=16pt]S-L-A-P-P-E-R-S[/size]

Yes/No

its logical!
in a lifetime of a man he can produce over a thousand babies-(4 d weaklings)
for a woman she can probably make 10babies on average,
thus do the maths , every man is entltled to 1wife and 99 concubines (u can arrange in any mana).
the problem with the modern day woman (women lib) is that they are so self centered , and want to have a man all to themselves leaving the rest of the women folk out there uncared for and unloved, small wonder d world is in confusion, there so many unloved women out there who cud easily be a legitimate concubine.
women learn to share some love to your fellow women-"there is joy in sharing"

Xtain brothers I mean the real brothers don't shit with their wives!!

This is a very dump question,why do you think the Israelites ate only manner from Heaven for forty  years,We all know they did not eat any other thing,except using the manner for different meals,the same way your wife should represent all the fun,enjoyment and blessings a woman brings to a Man's world.My wife,what can I say Primus Inter Pares  (First among equals)

tEsLim:

At certain stage in life everybody cheat. I'll cheat and blame it on mid life crisis

I disagree,not all men or women cheat.

There is no need for hypocrisy here.

It needs only God's Grace to be decent.

The grace is already within you,only you do not want to use it.

snthesis:

its logical!
in a lifetime of a man he can produce over a thousand babies-(4 d weaklings)
for a woman she can probably make 10babies on average,
thus do the maths , every man is entltled to 1wife and 99 concubines (u can arrange in any mana).
the problem with the modern day woman (women lib) is that they are so self centered , and want to have a man all to themselves leaving the rest of the women folk out there uncared for and unloved, small wonder d world is in confusion, there so many unloved women out there who cud easily be a legitimate concubine.
women learn to share some love to your fellow women-"there is joy in sharing"

Guy, d kind laugh wey you give me  ehhhhhhhhhhhh, God go bless you,

Lolololololololo, Guy u rilly suck, llol

comment of the century

Seriously, the boys ( i mean grown & matured men) in the house will have to answer that question for us. I can't figure out why most men all over the globe cheat on their wives and girlfriends.

A male friend of mine once said to me that 90% of men cheat on their girlfriends & wives but how I choose to handle my man's cheating (when I find out) is what will either make or break my relationship.

I don't subscribe to beating up or fighting another woman over my man because like someone said it takes two to tango. So If i do decide to be confrontational then I'll face both my guy and the chic involved but not in a Mike Tyson way and then again I'll most likely just trash it out with my guy and not bother with the woman.

The truth is we are never really sure how we will react in a certain situation untill we actually find ourselves in that situation. I also wonder from time to time if my husband will cheat on me, they say ignorance is bliss and when it comes to our men (whether boyfriends or husbands) that saying or should I say golden rule should be taken seriously.

Guys when you do cheat on us PLEASE keep it on the down low and don't flaunt it in our faces by knocking up the other chic or taking her to public places where people know you and the story is bound to get back to us. it really does hurt.