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Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:32am On Jan 19, 2018 |
I have a friend who has been in a relationship with this guy for close to three years. Recently, the guy protects his phone like his life depends on it and his behavior got my friend worried. She then took his phone when he was in the bathroom and went through his text messages and whatsapp messages only to see disturbing text messages and chats between her man and another girl. My friend knows the girl even though they haven’t really met. There were so many love messages between my friend’s man and the girl. My friend was heart broken and she confronted her man who admitted that he was seeing the girl but they have already broken up and he only cheated because he was confused. My friend forgave him and continued the relationship. The thing now is that she doesn’t trust him anymore and she keeps going through his phone and from the messages on his phone, it seems her man is still seeing the girl. She doesn’t know if she should confront her man again or harass the girl. She really loves her man and doesn’t wanna lose him. I advised her to just chill and not talk to the girl but I’m beginning to think that wasn’t a very good advice. What do you guys advice? Should she fight for her man or just pretend like he is not cheating on her? |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by vengedre(m): 9:34am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Yes!!! She should even buy ammunitions 3 Likes |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Nobody: 9:34am On Jan 19, 2018 |
She should put more effort, tell her to keep the pressure on her bf otherwise husband snatcher would stop at nothing. She should call the girl and tell her she going to kill her with juju if she no leave her man. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:37am On Jan 19, 2018 |
... Ammunitions?? Ewo. vengedre: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:39am On Jan 19, 2018 |
How? She's trying her best na? Will she now kill herself for the guy?? fuckerstard: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by sweetetlove(f): 9:39am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Its always a friend's story 3 Likes |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:40am On Jan 19, 2018 |
I like this. fuckerstard: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:41am On Jan 19, 2018 |
... Meaning gini? sweetetlove: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by thorpido(m): 9:41am On Jan 19, 2018 |
It's you Op,isn't it? You still want to remain with a cheat? |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex: She need to let him know she aware they are still dating, and she wants it to end. Literally she has to fight for her man sha |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Olalan(m): 9:43am On Jan 19, 2018 |
I just don't subscribe to the idea of fighting for love, if the man truly loves and respect her he would not continue with the relationship with the other girl after been caught. Except she wants to play second fiddle she should face the reality of the guy no longer loving her. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by marvin902(m): 9:44am On Jan 19, 2018 |
if the relationship is worth fighting for.. she should buh wisdom should be applied in doing so... |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by sweetetlove(f): 9:44am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex:meaning I like your story |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:44am On Jan 19, 2018 |
My friend says she loves the guy. That's the problem. thorpido: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:47am On Jan 19, 2018 |
That's what I thought too but it's hard for her. She Don dey cry since. Olalan: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by thorpido(m): 9:47am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex:Dey dia dey deceive yasef. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 9:49am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Wahs dis one now? thorpido: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by habsydiamond(m): 9:53am On Jan 19, 2018 |
it's clear that the guy did not love her....a relationship without trust is just like a building without a solid foundation...which usually collapse at the end....she should move on..... 1 Like |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:55am On Jan 19, 2018 |
From what I read that relationship has no future,If you don't trust a guy then why be with him.He is not worth fighting for she should leave him alone. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by marvin902(m): 9:56am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex: love is kinda stupid sometimes.. buh sometimes its best we face reality and not be blinded by it.. if shes sure the guy is still in a relationship with the another girl i advice her to leave.. dont be a relationship where your not valued is poisonous.. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Blackhawk01: 9:57am On Jan 19, 2018 |
She should get her man a sex doll. Everything wee be fine afterwards.
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Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by marvin902(m): 9:59am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Blackhawk01: will you keep kwayet |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Nobody: 10:05am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex: Tell her to master her emotions and thoughts. Relationships don't go smoothly the entire lifespan of most relationships. This is an excuse to harbor grudge, if she has sense, she will let it go, otherwise she can bail and start a new search ( But what's the guaranty the next one won't do the same? Love comes with risks, tell her this. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by mikejj(m): 10:06am On Jan 19, 2018 |
this is what i will do if i am that your friend...i wil call the girl and my guy without letting both of them know,then the three of us will meet at a place..then i wil ask my man if he loves the girl? and ask the girl if she loves ur my guy?...finally i wil ask my boo if he loves me?and tel him he has to end it with one of us right now..and if it turns out to be me.then i wil move on with my life....tell your friend if she continue like this....the guy she claim she loves is preventing other men from coming into her life.we are created to enjoy life... |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Daniel2289(m): 10:07am On Jan 19, 2018 |
sweetetlove:I tire ooh. |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 19, 2018 |
we know its u. Dunno y some gals no just get sense. if a guy cheats on u dumb his ass, if u cheat on him will he not dump u too. shallow weak fish brained gals everywhere |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by purityval(m): 10:12am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Any love that causes you to always cry and question your sanity is not worth it...... Your friend should get her emotions together and move the F on |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by DerahAlex(f): 10:12am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Nice. Zykod: |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Blackhawk01: 10:14am On Jan 19, 2018 |
marvin902: Is everything okay with you, sir? |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 19, 2018 |
DerahAlex: Words of wisdom, stay in it, and fight to defend your territory, whatever is left unchallenged is easily taken away, it's time to use the terminology " my man ",n the principle to protect her interests |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by mhisbliss(f): 10:25am On Jan 19, 2018 |
no man is worth fighting a fellow lady for especially a cheating man, if he valued you he wouldn't mess around with a lady in the first place in other words he wouldn't fight for you 1 Like |
Re: Is Fighting For The Man You Love Worth It? by marvin902(m): 10:26am On Jan 19, 2018 |
Blackhawk01: yeap advice the chick oga not telling to buy sex doll haba |
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