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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by jmichael259(m): 8:51pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
My dear, i am almost same so dont worry. YOU ARE NOT GAY. DONT EVER THINK OF IT! Walking into a public house for easy sex or just seeing a naked girl anyhow makes the whole thing seem worthless, dirty infact utterly disgusting but when there is suspense, plotting, better cuddling and caressing sets the mood and no negative reasoning. Won't even know when the action happened. It is all about your mind. You are thinking the matter too much or something is stressing you. E.g. Education, Financial stress, low self esteem. You have a strong and intelligent mind. You dont just need sex but love making with someone mature who belongs to you e.g wife 1) forget about the issue entirely, 2)get a better social standing that is, make more money and/or finish your education, 3)widen your social circle like involve in more church and/or academic programmes where you interact with more people. 4)Don't look for a fine girl but someone that your heart admires. 5)LEARN ABOUT MATURE PILLOW TALK, pre-intimacy AND ROMANTIC DATES. 1 Like |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Troubledmind: Many life problem have thrown u into a mild depression n its progressing...... Visit a doctor, its quite fixable. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Brytesp(m): 9:32pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Get a sex doll |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Chimasco95(m): 9:39pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Focus on how to make money first. when u make ur money, gals will be excess, na U go dey choose..... |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by introvertme: 10:16pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
ghst: This is the exact thing I wanted to tell him. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:48pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Very useless topic. Shey me wey girls no find me sexually attractive am ok. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by sinola(m): 11:06pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
mhisbliss:check whether u have either mouth odour or body odour....girls can be funny sometimes |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Solz7(m): 12:01am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Ur case is very nornal. Its simply depression/frustration...evrybody (both male and female) has/will experience dis at one point in their lives. Alot of ppl might deny this just to save face, especially ppl making fun of u on this page. But its a fact!. Just engage in something u enjoy doing ( mine are reading novels, watching a movie, internet surfing, etc), think of funny situations and funny ppl (eg that funny highschool or college teacher/lecturer, funny classmates, funny ppl in ur street/neighbourhood, etc), sleep well, eat a lot of fruits, listen to music (trying pacing around while listening, as its good for the heart), reduce ur sugar intake (dis is difficult for me too, but im achieving some success in doing so :-) ), and also reduce ur oil and caffein intake, especially in the evenings (as excessive amounts can trigger anxiety, which leads to sleeplees nights and depression follows). All these suggestions im giving may sound funny. But trust me dey help, and diet also plays an important role too in such issues, but unfortunately alot of ppl (especially Nigerians) are ignorant of this fact. And most importantly like some1 said previously, focus on more important issues which could be future career, studies, learning a skill etc. Pls u are very normal, nothing is wrong with u, dont mind ppl making jest of ur situation. For more tips on hw to overcome ur problem, Google will also come in handy...you'll observe a lot of ppl online have similar if not worse issues, And professional solutions will be online as well. Its well bro... cheer up and be happy. Life is too short for unnecessary worries. Things will surely fall in place. Its only a matter of time...Goodluck... :-) 1 Like |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by 1234onyekwe: 12:26am On Jan 22, 2018 |
kolawoleibukun:Mehn! this is the best write up so far,kola can I chat u up privately if u wouldn't mind. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by dasparrow: 4:30am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Troubledmind: You are gay. It is gay men that are not sexually or emotionally attracted to females. However, because you live in a homophobic country like Nigeria where acting on your gay tendencies could land you in jail for 14 years while rapists and paedophiles walk free, you have no choice but to suppress your gay tendencies. You already know what the problem is. You are just bringing it to Nairaland to fulfill all righteousness. Find a way to migrate because sexual orientation is not something you can change. It is inborn. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by godofuck231: 6:18am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Troubledmind: Guy that's a psycho problem, it called a turn off, I developed something similar on my return to Nigeria, your brain is protecting you from the rubbish Nigerian women so to men, baby daddy and stupid sex approach for money. What would make u return to normal is if you go into a relationship based on reasoning, if you get one lady that's appealing to u psychologically you will be ok |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 7:20am On Jan 22, 2018 |
mhisbliss:Beautiful response. I am impressed. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Maxvasia(m): 7:24am On Jan 22, 2018 |
mhisbliss:i am sorryyou have still not made any point up till now |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Maxvasia(m): 7:28am On Jan 22, 2018 |
mhisbliss:but why is it that when someone exposes the pointlessness in your apparently brilliant submissions, many of you ladies use the same card: "maybe you should read and comprehend"? Is this stereotypy? Just curious |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by adahgold(m): 7:41am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Maybe you are gay. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Mblem(m): 9:03am On Jan 22, 2018 |
following..... sorry bro |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by redsun(m): 8:18pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Too much indomie,maybe. Such food can completely kill your libido and sense of focus. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by kolawoleibukun: 4:47pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
1234onyekwe:yeah feel free. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by kolawoleibukun: 4:54pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
JastSiryin:thanks |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 9:10am On Jan 25, 2018 |
I thought I was crazy never knew there were others like me..dumbed all my girlfriends to solve this shit but it ain't going nowhere. Now, I am just waiting for that Girl that will hit me in the right spots. |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by porros70: 1:13pm On Feb 15, 2018 |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Yankee442: 2:57pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Troubledmind: GAYISM LOADING... 98.999999% |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Crash9518(m): 5:58pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
dasparrow:he might not be gay but asexual so mofo stfu |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Crash9518(m): 6:02pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
jaychubi:ode he wouldn't get married |
Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Standardkid240: 7:28pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by Niell(m): 3:30am On Jun 28, 2020 |
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Re: I Never Get Sexually Aroused Or Attracted To Girls Anymore, Am I Okay? by charlsecy(m): 7:26am On Jun 28, 2020 |
@Troubledmind Since you have morning erection, I believe you're OK. Your problem might be psychological due to numerous rejections. |
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