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Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Baronesschandus(f): 10:02am On Jan 27, 2018 |
makydebbie:haha but is the truth.so better look 4 someone for yourself |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by lonelydora: 10:06am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Ayomide Ajibade has just put asunder what God joined together. She should have jejely left that house without telling the wife what transpired. How much is olosho that the man can't afford? na wa ooo |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Follygunners: 10:11am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Omudia11: Devil punish you! wor-wor fellow like you... BS! |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by mcgaius: 10:15am On Jan 27, 2018 |
The truth is before the man came to meet u in the room,the wife already knows.This is a party game your friend and the husband has been playing for yrs and that is why that door cannot be repaired.The fact that you expected your friend to sound surprised is very funny because she already knows.Your friend was just being careful because of your extreme reaction of changing room by sleeping in the kids room otherwise she would have talked you back to the game.This is my conspiracy theory. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Safiaa(f): 10:19am On Jan 27, 2018 |
The wife is even accustomed to his behaviour because she knew what happened without her even saying anything. If this is what marriage is about then I want to die single please. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by mechanics(m): 11:06am On Jan 27, 2018 |
She should stay and fight for her man, and pray for him to change. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Safiaa: It is not. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by geronimoedeh1(m): 11:38am On Jan 27, 2018 |
HeWrites: I hope the husband didn't catch her wife cheating sometime because that's the only thing that could explain his wife helplessness and the man's brazenness . Once caught my fiancee red handed..she slept with a guy she met when she visited home for Xmas within 4 days... I was so pained i decided to get back at her... I didn't mind toasting even her friends..i didn't mind if she find out... To me, she never thought about my feeling so to hell with her...She could leave if she wanted. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Paul112(m): 11:47am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Give him sleeping pills or food cooked with india hemp (igbo) before bed time, to enable him sleep althru d night wthout jumping up at odd hours to disturb ur friends. Do this for one year u will see changes |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Macgreat(m): 11:49am On Jan 27, 2018 |
wickedworld: No record of women doing many men, those who did were called Pros Yeah, Solomon is a Legend! |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by nedu2000(m): 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
makky555:maybe mothers should've done so |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Myself2(m): 12:13pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Panshow: Thats when Mr John Thomas that is situated down south takes over the function of thinking from the brain |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by blues343(m): 12:13pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Safiaa:If U Die A Single Na Ur Die Ooo |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by MissJoy29(f): 4:17pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Mynd44:Thank you |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Omudia11: 4:44pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Yaba left product. Pls engage your fellow made mad people. I don't converse with senile schizophrenics. luminouz: |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Omudia11: 4:46pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Another senile imp. You obviously lack a chromosome. Follygunners: |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by luminouz(m): 4:50pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Omudia11:See how u proved to d world dat ur not a wife material! Get ready for Shiloh 2050! |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by Omudia11: 5:30pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Get ready to return to yaba left tomorrow, idiot. luminouz: |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by luminouz(m): 6:45pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
Omudia11:E PAIN AM |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:11pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
sarafa68: You don't think she should? |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:15pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
damoore: Point of correction too... I never said every man cheat I said he cheated like "every other men out there who cheat" I didn't say he cheated like "every other men cheat" I'm fully aware that there are still good ones out there. Thanks though 1 Like |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:28pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
makydebbie: |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:29pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
makydebbie: I'm sure you're very conversant with English language. I didn't say all men cheat. I categorised him under those who do And no I'm not going to go into marriage with that kinda mentality cuz your thoughts and words what produces your outcome in life. But if peradventure it happens... I'd forgive him. But all the same God cannot give me a husband that is not my own. If he's mine he won't cheat But wait o so you mean you won't forgive you husband if he cheats? Well while I was growing up I used to have that mentality. I always thought that I'd make so much money then build my own separate house and that If we have one small quarrel or if he cheats I'd just pack my things and stay over at my place shikena! When I think about it now I just laugh at how stupid I was |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:32pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
people4rmVillag: I'll try not to. I'm only human. I hold my opinion and ideology. So do you sir I appreciate |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makydebbie(f): 9:53pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
makky555: I'm definitely conversant with the language thank you, and in case you haven't noticed, your statement comes across as ambiguous.
In your post, you've justified his reasons for cheating. And no one can justify their reasons for it. Even though, you're going to hurt the second party, it's still wrong. You said he acted like other men who cheat. Men are not supposed to cheat, same with women. You said it's in their nature to cheat, that's another myopic justification. So women who cheat should be castigated because it's not in their DNA, but it's in men's? There's no justification for it, once your husband cheats, he has broken this vow. Same with the woman, it takes more than love to forgive, and even if she forgives, forgetting is a different ball game. Once he has a strange call, you get paranoid and start thinking '"is he cheating again?" so tell me if you can enjoy your marriage always being on your toes. Not everyone can forgive. I'll agree with you that it was a stupid mentality too. To your question, it depends on the circumstances. If I get to notice (though late) that he's an unrepentant cheat like the lady's husband in this context, then I'll definitely leave. I cannot live my life a sad woman for a man who gets to 'enjoy' different ladies and he isn't going to change or is sorry about it. And it also depends on who he cheats with, it better not be a friend or someone close to me because I'll be the best wife I can be and if he's going to cheat, he should take the exit. One thing about cheating, when he cheats and you forgive easily, he can still do it again with the mentality that she'll still forgive, and would take every baggage he bring to the table because you want to be the 'ideal' wife. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 11:02pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
makydebbie: I'm not trying to justify cheating of any gender by any gender and I don't ever remember saying its in their nature to cheat. My whole point is to forgive anyway. Even if the table is turned I'd say FORGIVE. It's true not everybody can forgive that's why we all need to always pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help us heal. And with forgiveness comes trust (which is the responsibility of the partner to earn) Like you said the guy is an unrepentant cheat which I'm sure the woman is fully aware of. Why then did she agree for her friend to stay not 2 day but a week or maybe more? If she was wise she would have refused. In case you dont know women are stronger on the inside than men. Their container (physical body) is just stronger. So if as a woman you can't baby your husband's excesses then you shouldn't marry in the first place. In your reply you said you'd be the best wife you can be. What if your best is not enough? Men whose wives are exceptional still cheat. I used to know one lecturer that sleeps with girls. He's happily married with kids and all but he'll boldly tell the girl he's cheating with that she's a very beautiful damsel but she's not half his wife. This goes to show that it's not about what you do. Just pray to God that you marry a God fearing man who loves Him so much cause in loving Him he'll love you. If he's tempted to cheat and he thinks of you he might still cheating but If he's God fearing and he's tempted he thinks about God and then resists the temptation. That's why the fear of God is the inception of being wise. Have a good night dear |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 11:08pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
nedu2000: Then our society would be worse than it is. Family is the smallest society we have. We should start being positive from there |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by placeofallure(f): 12:35am On Jan 29, 2018 |
Mynd44:Word! Men Ehn! I used to wonder but I've since given up. How do you explain why a man would bring another to his matrimonial bed 2 days after the wedding? How? Then I ask, did he make a mistake with his choice of wife? Is he tired of the poor woman already? Why to the matrimonial bed? Over a decade, he still cheats with the lady and I wonder why he didn't marry her! So so for some marriages. |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by people4rmVillag: 6:40am On Jan 29, 2018 |
makky555:Can we be friends |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by makky555(f): 9:55pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
Re: Lady Narrates How Friend's Husband Tried To Seduce Her At Night by people4rmVillag: 10:43pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
makky555:Ok send me your WhatsApp number here Semajglobalsolutions@gmail.com |
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