Pusyiter:
I may not have scientific fact at my finger tips but I have visual facts.
Looking around in this era, we see more of handsome boys being born and grown to be men but for the girls we see less pretty but short ones who help themselves with make ups and heels.
PLEASE, I am not a male chauvinist but it is just an observation.
For instance, in BB Naija, we have more handsome boys and the girls are only trying (less pretty).
In beauty pageantry nowadays, you see girls that are only trying but when compared with the times of the Biancas, Sabrina Umeh, Binta, Regina Aiska etc, it is totally a different ball game.
In nairaland, we see more handsome boys bold to display their handsomeness on their DPs but the girls hide their beauty by using funny pictures as profile pixs. Maybe, they feel inferior beauty wise.
The point is, where are the pretty girls?

sirBLUNT:
the beautiful one's are not yet born and the ugly one's don't want to die

izaray:
Weldone sir!

Belafonte:
Women are becoming less feminine by the hour. Feminity makes women beautiful, but they're trying so hard to be men. Sad!

Pusyiter:
I may not have scientific fact at my finger tips but I have visual facts.
Looking around in this era, we see more of handsome boys being born and grown to be men but for the girls we see less pretty but short ones who help themselves with make ups and heels.
PLEASE, I am not a male chauvinist but it is just an observation.
For instance, in BB Naija, we have more handsome boys and the girls are only trying (less pretty).
In beauty pageantry nowadays, you see girls that are only trying but when compared with the times of the Biancas, Sabrina Umeh, Binta, Regina Aiska etc, it is totally a different ball game.
In nairaland, we see more handsome boys bold to display their handsomeness on their DPs but the girls hide their beauty by using funny pictures as profile pixs. Maybe, they feel inferior beauty wise.
The point is, where are the pretty girls?

Belafonte:
Women are becoming less feminine by the hour. Feminity makes women beautiful, but they're trying so hard to be men. Sad!

Alexialin:

Belafonte! That's not true.
Percentage of women trying to be like men are not more than women, who prefers to be feminine and woman like in nature.
For me, I want to be a woman anyday time, have been a man for so many years due to responsibilities I couldn't run away or hide from and am tired already
Have struggled like a man long enough, even God and heavens sef knows.

So don't even say alot of women want to be like men. Not me sha

Dimples129:
I need an ugly man with sexy money

Now these effeminate men wanna drag looks with us instead of getting a job.

Belafonte:


But that's the thing. So many women are struggling and hustling like men. They want to prove that they can do better than men, but that's not really true. The world over, the social experimenting that is feminism is yielding bewildering reports of how women haven't still been able to match up to the ideal male standard. Even with all the help and quota women receive, and this keeps increasing, women still haven't been able to be men. Some are giving up, some have succeeded and have found that they don't really wnat what they thought they wanted and fought so hard to achieve.

Of course, for some, they have no choice in the matter. Like you said, you have had to d I'm sure there are many women like that but what really is the percentage of this subset?

Pusyiter:
I may not have scientific fact at my finger tips but I have visual facts.
Looking around in this era, we see more of handsome boys being born and grown to be men but for the girls we see less pretty but short ones who help themselves with make ups and heels.
PLEASE, I am not a male chauvinist but it is just an observation.
For instance, in BB Naija, we have more handsome boys and the girls are only trying (less pretty).
In beauty pageantry nowadays, you see girls that are only trying but when compared with the times of the Biancas, Sabrina Umeh, Binta, Regina Aiska etc, it is totally a different ball game.
In nairaland, we see more handsome boys bold to display their handsomeness on their DPs but the girls hide their beauty by using funny pictures as profile pixs. Maybe, they feel inferior beauty wise.
The point is, where are the pretty girls?

alexialin:













They will become tired after a while.
I had to fit in those shoes, because parents were late and I was left with a younger brother who was a student of unilag. His feeding, school fees, his transport fare, cos I didnt want him to stay in the hostel, he himself prefers going from home to school, we were inseparable , his upkeep, clothing, our own feeding, my tfare, rents for both where we live and where I work, my clothing, miscellaneous bills, security bills both house and my office. Mehn it was one hell of a huge financial load which I. Must carry.
I can't run away from it.
But on his 4th year in school, he had stroke and died after 3years of spending so much on his therapy. The more I spend and he's given therapy and drugs, after some few months he will relapse back to square one. It's like the doctors, pastors combined were not even doing anything. After 3years he still died in his sleep.

So have gone through alot of responsibilities for years, I even began to feel like a man
No time for relationships, or romance then. Everything was just choking me and the last thing I needed was a boyfriend depending on me I go just die! Kukuma kill me
Lol

So. I kept. Off romance and relationship for 6years. Mehn I don see o, for this life.
But God knows why.

It's just 2years back, am getting myself back and beginning to feel like a woman.
Mehn life is tough! Have paid enough dues. It's time to relax and breathe again.


So am not ready to be a man o!

I dodge am pass, abeg!
No way!

Belafonte:


Wow, Alex, this is gangster. You just dropped the bomb on me without warning. So sorry to hear about your brother. At least, we can be comforted with the thought that he's in a better place away from the suffering of this world. I've come across your posts over the years here on nl and nobody would guess you were going through such humongous tests. You passed with better than flying colours. Kudos.

Per your sisters, though; most are getting tired. Some have made all the money and while they enjoy the fruits of their labour are increasingly frustrated with the fact they cannot get a man or, at least, the kind of man they desire. Many are asking where all the good men have gone, answer is pushed away by their attitude over the years. I visit a female dominated blog from time to time and most rich women are frustrated with the fact that they attract more gigolos than eligible bachelors. Some have tried these gold-diggers out and only have sad tales to tell. You can try to rewire nature but it won't work.

Again, your story his just wow.

Mind a PM?

alexialin:









My dear, I smile when ladies, guys look at me and they give me this admiring look like am so lucky in life. I just smile and I say to. Myself if only they know my story. It was a rough bumpy ride getting to where I am today. It wasn't luck but hard work and resilience and the thirst to survive and succeed.
You can say I went through many tests and those tests nearly made me gave up in life cos it became too much for me to bear. Family turned their backs on my brother. Everyone had one excuse to give, and kept their distance watching. I felt betrayed by all. When it was time to bury, they all crawled out from their holes to bury him, I didn't even spend a dime to bury. Thats when family now have money to bury. Can u imagine? Waiting for him to die And I realized when one is doing well, everyone wants to be your friend but when one is down, everyone backs off and disappears. Anyways it's part of learning the dynamics of humans and life.
The experience made me strong, wise, self independent and it made me appreciate life more.
But this year o, is a year of joy and great smiles for me. It's already showing.

As per my sisters, there are still some good men out there. They shouldn't settle for fuckbois or gigolos. They shouldn't. And they should try come down from their high horses, then the right guy and the kind of man they desire will come.
With the right attitude, having the ideal man to settle down with is not hard.
For me, I no longer have issues meeting my ideal man. Of course gigolos will always try their luck but as a lady who knows what she wants, u tell them no! Am taken. Simple. Then be friendly, Humble to everyone u meet in life. One never can tell. That's the secret.




Yeah you can PM. me

Lemme see the real Belafonte with pics.

sirBLUNT:
the beautiful one's are not yet born and the ugly one's don't want to die

Ishilove:
Belafonte and Alexialin, get a room and stop spraying romantic fumes everywhere. Mscheeeeew

ubunja:


pricelesssssssssssss.i just died!!!!

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everytime you see men becoming more beautiful than the women just know women are taking over the dating game. its basic biology.i've a post i drafted on it but havent posted it coz its too long and i thought it might be too complicated to put across. but you are right its happening.
its the reason why in nature the males are more gorgeous than the females (lion, peacok etc) and why male birds are more colourful and sing sweeter than the female birds its coz in nature Males Display, Women Choose.so over time males become hot to suit the tastes of the females via evolution and via males with a particular desired set of traits given procreation chances while undesirable males die childless -its Natural Selection.
now in Humans due to the Patriarchy, Women Display and Men Choose.because men forcibly took over the dating game.meaning only the desired females with the desired looks got married and procreated most; leading to more and more beautiful women as evolution worked and as the hot women made babies that looked like themselves.Patriarchy made women poor so they only married for survival.something out of tune with Nature coz in nature the Females provide for their offspring, and so choose what they see as the ultimate best sperm donor.and in nature Beauty is the strongest sign of Fitness.coz beauty means colourful and attractive TO PREDATORS -----> which on a male is like a bragging saying "look i can afford to be spotted KMs away by a predator, and im not afraid, im tough and can take risks!!i've met danger many times but im still here.SO IM FIT STRONG AND HEALTHY.and its true.
enter Feminism.women become independent.and procreation goes back to the Animal Kingdom model.remember Abortion goes hand in hand with Women's Empowerment.coz women empowered dont seek the best Sponsor but the best Sperm Donor.[like female animals]. and Men are forced to Display (their hotness) and Women finally become Choosers.and the trend is this : IN TIMES OF FEMALE OPPRESSION WOMEN MARRY UGLY MEN TO EAT.BUT IN TIMES OF FEMALE EMPOWERMENT WOMEN MARRY HOT GUYS FOR HOT BABIES..and women know beauty when they see it.meaning the hot guys(even if broke) get the pvssy.bringing forth beautiful sons.while the few ugly guys that chance to impregnant get their babies secretly aborted.coz abortion to empowered women is nothing but pruning the human tree and giving only the best of the best a chance...
women flock to a hot player who is getting every other woman pregnant so that they can also get pregnant by him so that whatever X-Factor that man has in pulling women will be reproduced in their own sons.
this is the best gift mothers give to their sons in a fully women-driven society.and over time it makes men more beautiful than women --just as in nature male animals are more beautiful than female animals.the chooser gets uglier while the chosen gets prettier.
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if you all want to see wonders do this : Permit every woman to only make babies with only the guys she finds irresistable.and the next generation of women also choose only the most attractive men to make babies with.and repeat that process for 100 yrs and i swear to you the men you'll see by year 100, will be 10X more attractive than Kim Kadarshian.
its biology at its most efficient.

Ishilove:
Belafonte and Alexialin, get a room and stop spraying romantic fumes everywhere. Mscheeeeew

MensCabal:


Nice assertion, I like the way you think out of the box and that is why your articles always appear on menscabal.com, but I won't copy your articles anymore even though I give you the credit.. Love the way you write

Bidobado:


Women aren't stupid Bro... If they displayed their pics, 4 dudes might start fighting over whose girl it is... You understand??

Belafonte:
Women are becoming less feminine by the hour. Feminity makes women beautiful, but they're trying so hard to be men. Sad!

alexialin:












Belafonte! That's not true.
Percentage of women trying to be like men are not more than women, who prefers to be feminine and woman like in nature.
For me, I want to be a woman anyday time, have been a man for so many years due to responsibilities I couldn't run away or hide from and am tired already
Have struggled like a man long enough, even God and heavens sef knows.

So don't even say alot of women want to be like men. Not me sha