The marriage is barely 3yrs with a child. I notice each time he has change in his pocket or just jam any contract, that's when he keeps late at night, ignore me, nag at any small mistake during this time I makes series of Unnecessary apologies. But each time this dude is broke, he became extremely fully home base husband, very supportive, discuss his plans with me and highly respectful not that during this periods am the one providing needs at home ooo, he's still the one doing this just a little broke. But this is the time I actually enjoyed my husband the most.
Pls what should I do, is this normal for most men ?


Advice needed for a young Couple

;Dmy sister prayer is the key n with the right prayer point he ll change for good .

thesettingz:
The marriage is barely 3yrs with a child. I notice each time he has change in his pocket or just jam any contract, that's when he keeps late at night, ignore me, nag at any small mistake during this time I makes series of Unnecessary apologies. But each time this dude is broke, he became extremely fully home base husband, very supportive, discuss his plans with me and highly respectful not that during this periods am the one providing needs at home ooo, he's still the one doing this just a little broke. But this is the time I actually enjoyed my husband the most.
Pls what should I do, is this normal for most men ?


Advice needed for a young Couple

Sad the say, but with money in his pocket comes the ability to hunt and be more adventurous....

He keeps late nights because with the funds, comes the ability to spread his wings.....

Work out ways with him when funds are available to positively invest the funds home front, then he would not have the extra to spend on the outside front.......

Do I need say any more?

When he has money, he is spending it with his side chick, reason for keeping late night, when he is broke, he remembers his wife.


Simple logic should tell you that.

Are you now praying for your husband to always be broke?

It's normal. u 'll do the same if u were in his shoe the way u behave and spend when u have money and when u dnt have are they the same?.

Mynd44 day don break oh

thesettingz:
The marriage is barely 3yrs with a child. I notice each time he has change in his pocket or just jam any contract, that's when he keeps late at night, ignore me, nag at any small mistake during this time I makes series of Unnecessary apologies. But each time this dude is broke, he became extremely fully home base husband, very supportive, discuss his plans with me and highly respectful not that during this periods am the one providing needs at home ooo, he's still the one doing this just a little broke. But this is the time I actually enjoyed my husband the most.
Pls what should I do, is this normal for most men ?


Advice needed for a young Couple

he spend late night scouting for next paycheck
You want to enjoy husband or you want poverty

Pray he forever remains broke den

you have too many insecurities
if you were my wife i would be divorcing you.go work on your issues.

This is how gold diggers & cold women are created
Ask Jay-Z's ex, whom he left for Beyoncé when he became a star.

Some men don't appreciate the person that stuck with them & adored them even when they were broke.

If I were her, I'd get very uncomfortable in this relationship. Because he could easily replace her when he makes it big. Also, the hot & cold behaviour is damaging. I'd go mad.

sis, this marriage is gonna be tough, tighten your belt.

fallacy of false cause

This is the mistake most men make that pushes their women to go to tie their destiny down in those white garment churches.
Op improve yourself physically. Make his interest your interest.e.g, Does he support a sports team? Buy the team's jersey and watch with him.
Does he like to chill in cool spots? Encourage him to create a wine shelf at home...you can even create a cool spot for your family if your compound is spacious.e.t.c (I trust you know the things he likes)
N.B-He may not even be cheating, but feels he can have more fun outside.
Just make your home a fun place to be at all times and you will see changes!

As My Friend Will Say..."Onye Ji Ego Ka Amu Na Eke" Meaning Man Wey Get Money For Pocket Na Eim Dey Get Erection.

Am Not Saying Your Hubby Is Cheating The Point Is People Tend To Behave Differently When They They Are Broke Or Otherwise.

I hear but....

Sorry madam but i think your husband is one stupid azzhole.

Dem full everywhere. Na dem type dey humble pass bcuz dey are broke jzt let dem get small shikini change . Lobatan. Na dat tym dem go remember say one club dey ikorodu.

Look, don't try to please him... He won't change. I swear.

Fvck him up anytym he mess up with u and if his dull brain refuse to reset .. Abeg u, accept d fact that he doesn't deserve you.

Rigel95:
This is the mistake most men make that pushes their women to go to tie their destiny down in those white garment churches.
Op improve yourself physically. Make his interest your interest.e.g, Does he support a sports team? Buy the team's jersey and watch with him.
Does he like to chill in cool spots? Encourage him to create a wine shelf at home...you can even create a cool spot for your family if your compound is spacious.e.t.c (I trust you know the things he likes)
N.B-He may not even be cheating, but feels he can have more fun outside.
Just make your home a fun place to be at all times and you will see changes!

your sense too much come dey pour for ground...ua wise..

my causin stoped drinking outside after the wife heard my advice when she was ranting,.the guy stoped drinking outside (cos the wife made small cellar and they have wines). his friends even comes over to watch soccer with them.

anytime he is out late everybody already knows its work,.infact its even hard for him to step out the balcony if he didnt go to work (niga will be at home grilling chicken for suya )

After wedding,be his better half not just a wife

Brokenness brings the Husband in Him
When he's broke he is Humble

The Brokenness is the difference
The difference is the Brokenness!

Xmen149:


your sense too much come dey pour for ground...ua wise..

my causin stoped drinking outside after the wife heard my advice when she was ranting,.the guy stoped drinking outside (cos the wife made small cellar and they have wines). his friends even comes over to watch soccer with them.

anytime he is out late everybody already knows its work,.infact its even hard for him to step out the balcony if he didnt go to work (niga will be at home grilling chicken for suya )

After wedding,be his better half not just a wife

Thanks. you hit the nail on the head... be his better half, not just the wife.

when they have money they become proud ,but when they are broke they appear loyal. majority are like that ,follow him diligently.

To ascertain the humility of a man wait until he has money and power.

[quote author=thesettingz post=64766357]The marriage is barely 3yrs with a child. I notice each time he has change in his pocket or just jam any contract, that's when he keeps late at night, ignore me, nag at any small mistake during this time I makes series of Unnecessary apologies. But each time this dude is broke, he became extremely fully home base husband, very supportive, discuss his plans with me and highly respectful not that during this periods am the one providing needs at home ooo, he's still the one doing this just a little broke. But this is the time I actually enjoyed my husband the most.
Pls what should I do, is this normal for most men ?


He had this character in him, when u were dating him. Guess u did not noticed it. Some of us don't know our other side or real self until we have money. Money changes perception or mentality of some humans.

What makes some marriages last forever, is the ability for couple to know their weakness and manage it to their best capabilities. If that is his only flaw/weakness good u now know. No one is perfect.