Sorry to say your sis and her friend are ladies of loose moral values. From your narrative they live a reckless life. I will advice you stay away from them if you love yourself.

I was patient enough to read all, maybe because I once experienced such.


But the thing is this.

For the fact that ur so called sister told u that she usually spend enough money for any guy she likes , simply means that u are not and have not and will not be the only guy in her life apart from her husband.

The only thing I realized is that she is the type that use young men as rags and dumps them when she is done. For that singular act. She is just a flirt and doesn't lack any love and attention.

Flee.

Be the boss. She will always respect u anytime she gets her sense back to normal

The story sounds credible. Married women these days tend to do things like this.
But @OP, what you should focus on is YOUR LIFE.
You are the only one that knows the whole story, but I wouldn't mess with a woman whose husband is "a core Muslim".

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lampard01:
Funny how all of a sudden you just got married with kids
They are all lies...

..and her sister got married few months later with kids

[quote author=nickxtra post=65193614]This woman wouldn't let me be.

I met a very beautiful lady in my sister's shop (a bar), with her sparkling looking Mercedes Benz parked outside. She is my sister friend. Please note that this my "sister" is just from the same community where i come from and not a blood sister.

My sister introduced this lady to me as her friend and did same to the woman and told her that am her brother she already told her about.

Both of them were drinking beer and and the lady was smoking cigarette as well. I tried advising her, particularly against the smoking, but she started telling me what got her into it, including loneliness and how her husband maltreats her and does not show her any love. She went down memory lane how she met her husband in a relative birthday party at one Hostel in Ujoellen, Ekpoma- she was a student at Ambrose Ali University, while hubby was then a student in UNIBEN. They ran into each other again some years later, dated and eventually got married, a marriage that has produced two children, both who were born in the U.S.

I was surprised when this woman started telling me that she has heard so much about me- that my sister told her am nice and good looking and that actually I appear nice and good. I thanked her for her compliment and I begged her to stop smoking cigarette and even tried to destroy the ones she kept on the table, which she did not resist, but did not destroy them.

After about an hour, I told them I would be leaving, but she begged me to sit down, that she wanted to tell me something. I sat down, with my ears wide opened. This woman said and I quote her "I lack love and companion. I need your companion, not for money, because my husband is very rich, but he is a core Muslim, does not live a social life and at times, we may be in the house for weeks without seeing eye to eye, not to talk of touching me"

Continuing, "We can spend time together, drive me around for outings and be in your arms. This I lack from my husband. Your sister said you are nice. Pls be nice to me"

My heart jumped, I played along, not to tell her NO to her face in order not to compound her already dazed mood. I told her I will think about it. She gave me her phone number, shook and tickle my hand and asked me to call her to meet with her the following day.

Infact, my sister used our native language to let me know that she spends money for any guy she loves and that she can do anything I request from her (maybe in a way of pushing into the relationship). That the woman is already in love with me.

I left there that night with lots of thoughts ringing in my head: "A married woman? no, no, no. I can't date a married woman, no matter what. Pretty lady and in money, yes, but still in her husband's house. I would have jumped at the offer of was a single mother, etc

Finally, the following day, I did not call her, instead since then, I kept dodging and avoiding to meet with her, especially anytime I sight her vehicle in my sister's shop. I even told my sister that I cannot date a married woman.

Waiting for me to call her which i never did, my sister gave her my number, she called severally and i never picked her calls until she called me with an unknown number one day, which I picked and she started telling me how disappointed she was about my action, bla bla. Since then we did not see or talk.

My sister got married a few months later, bore a child and having marital issues, centred on flimsy things between her and her Delta based hubby.

Just last week, on a outing with a friend in a recreational garden, I ran into the woman and my sister with one young guy - a medical Doctor who once dated my sister, sitting with them. The woman, as usual was smoking and drinking and the Doctor and my sister were buzzing, in fact that being the first day I saw my sister smoking. She gave flimsy reason for smoking and her scolded and advise her accordingly.

We greeted, the woman answering my greetings grudgingly. My sister asked us to join them on their table and because there were enough seats there, I settled on the table with my two other friends.

Lo and behold, my sister told me that the woman "still dey vex for me".

I now asked about the doctor and she that since was married and cannot date the Doctor again, she arranged the woman for the Doctor and connived with the woman to concealed the woman's marital status from the Doctor. That the Doctor saw the woman's picture in her phone and he then begged her to arrange the woman for him, hence their outing that evening.

Infact, it was an eyesore when it got dark, my sister drawing my attention to the smooching and other nasty stuffs going on between the woman and the doctor, both who were seated tight to each other. I earlier noticed the Doctor not comfortable the way the woman was focusing on me every time and not attending to him well.

I told my friend we should change table while one of my friends that we went to the garden together settled the whole bill that the entire table incured and we left the place.This also made the Doctor got troubled, maybe thinking that we on a mission to snatch her 'girl friend'.

The following day, the said woman call my line and said if I was angry that he was with the Doctor. I replied her that why must her be angry, after all am not her hubby nor her boy friend. She started pleading again, " So you have not made up your mind for me? I still need your companionship. I have feelings for you..."

I finally told her that she is a beautiful woman and that I like her person, but she is somebody's wife and that I cannot date her. She has kept calling me at times with strange numbers and also sending my sister to me.

I refused to 'fall' for this woman. I fear God and i know the spiritual implications of dating a married woman. I am also married with kids. So everytime i imagine if she was my wife dating another man (God forbid).

I have stopped going to my sister's shop, who as even changed her line of business. She has a boutiq now, instead of the bar.

Please, is there any other means to deal with this woman, for her to leave me alone?[/quote my advise for you if you can plan with your sister that you will see your sister told you she can will do everything for you.but let your mind be after her money and if she ask foe sex tell her you are not ready.when she know you are after her money she will let you be.use your head niga.opportunity come but once

nickxtra:
This woman wouldn't let me be.

I met a very beautiful lady in my sister's shop (a bar), with her sparkling looking Mercedes Benz parked outside. She is my sister friend. Please note that this my "sister" is just from the same community where i come from and not a blood sister.

My sister introduced this lady to me as her friend and did same to the woman and told her that am her brother she already told her about.

Both of them were drinking beer and and the lady was smoking cigarette as well. I tried advising her, particularly against the smoking, but she started telling me what got her into it, including loneliness and how her husband maltreats her and does not show her any love. She went down memory lane how she met her husband in a relative birthday party at one Hostel in Ujoellen, Ekpoma- she was a student at Ambrose Ali University, while hubby was then a student in UNIBEN. They ran into each other again some years later, dated and eventually got married, a marriage that has produced two children, both who were born in the U.S.

I was surprised when this woman started telling me that she has heard so much about me- that my sister told her am nice and good looking and that actually I appear nice and good. I thanked her for her compliment and I begged her to stop smoking cigarette and even tried to destroy the ones she kept on the table, which she did not resist, but did not destroy them.

After about an hour, I told them I would be leaving, but she begged me to sit down, that she wanted to tell me something. I sat down, with my ears wide opened. This woman said and I quote her "I lack love and companion. I need your companion, not for money, because my husband is very rich, but he is a core Muslim, does not live a social life and at times, we may be in the house for weeks without seeing eye to eye, not to talk of touching me"

Continuing, "We can spend time together, drive me around for outings and be in your arms. This I lack from my husband. Your sister said you are nice. Pls be nice to me"

My heart jumped, I played along, not to tell her NO to her face in order not to compound her already dazed mood. I told her I will think about it. She gave me her phone number, shook and tickle my hand and asked me to call her to meet with her the following day.

Infact, my sister used our native language to let me know that she spends money for any guy she loves and that she can do anything I request from her (maybe in a way of pushing into the relationship). That the woman is already in love with me.

I left there that night with lots of thoughts ringing in my head: "A married woman? no, no, no. I can't date a married woman, no matter what. Pretty lady and in money, yes, but still in her husband's house. I would have jumped at the offer of was a single mother, etc

Finally, the following day, I did not call her, instead since then, I kept dodging and avoiding to meet with her, especially anytime I sight her vehicle in my sister's shop. I even told my sister that I cannot date a married woman.

Waiting for me to call her which i never did, my sister gave her my number, she called severally and i never picked her calls until she called me with an unknown number one day, which I picked and she started telling me how disappointed she was about my action, bla bla. Since then we did not see or talk.

My sister got married a few months later, bore a child and having marital issues, centred on flimsy things between her and her Delta based hubby.

Just last week, on a outing with a friend in a recreational garden, I ran into the woman and my sister with one young guy - a medical Doctor who once dated my sister, sitting with them. The woman, as usual was smoking and drinking and the Doctor and my sister were buzzing, in fact that being the first day I saw my sister smoking. She gave flimsy reason for smoking and her scolded and advise her accordingly.

We greeted, the woman answering my greetings grudgingly. My sister asked us to join them on their table and because there were enough seats there, I settled on the table with my two other friends.

Lo and behold, my sister told me that the woman "still dey vex for me".

I now asked about the doctor and she that since was married and cannot date the Doctor again, she arranged the woman for the Doctor and connived with the woman to concealed the woman's marital status from the Doctor. That the Doctor saw the woman's picture in her phone and he then begged her to arrange the woman for him, hence their outing that evening.

Infact, it was an eyesore when it got dark, my sister drawing my attention to the smooching and other nasty stuffs going on between the woman and the doctor, both who were seated tight to each other. I earlier noticed the Doctor not comfortable the way the woman was focusing on me every time and not attending to him well.

I told my friend we should change table while one of my friends that we went to the garden together settled the whole bill that the entire table incured and we left the place.This also made the Doctor got troubled, maybe thinking that we on a mission to snatch her 'girl friend'.

The following day, the said woman call my line and said if I was angry that he was with the Doctor. I replied her that why must her be angry, after all am not her hubby nor her boy friend. She started pleading again, " So you have not made up your mind for me? I still need your companionship. I have feelings for you..."

I finally told her that she is a beautiful woman and that I like her person, but she is somebody's wife and that I cannot date her. She has kept calling me at times with strange numbers and also sending my sister to me.

I refused to 'fall' for this woman. I fear God and i know the spiritual implications of dating a married woman. I am also married with kids. So everytime i imagine if she was my wife dating another man (God forbid).

I have stopped going to my sister's shop, who as even changed her line of business. She has a boutiq now, instead of the bar.

Please, is there any other means to deal with this woman, for her to leave me alone?

my advise for you if you can plan with your sister that you will see your sister told you she can will do everything for you.but let your mind be after her money and if she ask foe sex tell her you are not ready.when she know you are after her money she will let you be.use your head niga.opportunity come but once

If you want to make her awesome then you must try blue pills from our store buy blue pills online and then she will start following you. man

my sister this, my sister that.... yadda yadda yadda! appears you seek some kinda moral justification to proceed with what you have already condemned in your heart...
your sister is mad!
the lady is mad!!
Ogbeni be careful or the madness will cling to u!

lefulefu:
Reading through ur story i can conclude that your sister is a runz girl or ex runz girl and dat her married friend is also a runzgirl or ex runzgirl. Most runzgirls end up marrying cult men or men of rugged means. If u tired of ur life involve yourself with her but if u love life run from dat lady as fast as u can.nothing good comes frm involving urself with a lady of the street...except maybe u urself dey rugged.

I don run o

Oyindidi:
Your sister ways no pure at all

I have come to realize that

Olalan:
Sorry to say your sis and her friend are ladies of loose moral values. From your narrative they live a reckless life. I will advice you stay away from them if you love yourself.

Exactly what am doing now. thanks

chigoizie7:
I was patient enough to read all, maybe because I once experienced such.


But the thing is this.

For the fact that ur so called sister told u that she usually spend enough money for any guy she likes , simply means that u are not and have not and will not be the only guy in her life apart from her husband.

The only thing I realized is that she is the type that use young men as rags and dumps them when she is done. For that singular act. She is just a flirt and doesn't lack any love and attention.

Flee.

Be the boss. She will always respect u anytime she gets her sense back to normal

You nailed it. thanks