Safiaaa:
Men are naturally supposed to be providers.

Safiaaa:
Men are naturally supposed to be providers.

Safiaaa:
Men are naturally supposed to be providers.

Man2utd:


And women are naturally meant to be what..

majekoam:


There are many nairalanders who reek of hyprocrisy.

This lady here is one of the Commanders in Chief.

Hates when generalizations that apply to her but readily does so to others..

Safiaaa:
As a man, what exactly is your role?

Safiaaa:
Men are naturally supposed to be providers.

majekoam:


Its so simple to label things...
My parents brought me up with no boundaries...
I was made to clean, to cook etc
In other words, do whatever you can to get the job done.
There are no "roles".
There are many instances where the men are nurturers and the women are providers.

If I was to say as a woman your role is to be in the kitchen, you would descend upon me.
Personally my role as a Man would be to make sure I found a mature woman who would TEAM up with me as an EQUAL to get the job done.

majekoam:


Its so simple to label things...
My parents brought me up with no boundaries...
I was made to clean, to cook etc
In other words, do whatever you can to get the job done.
There are no "roles".
There are many instances where the men are nurturers and the women are providers.

If I was to say as a woman your role is to be in the kitchen, you would descend upon me.
Personally my role as a Man would be to make sure I found a mature woman who would TEAM up with me as an EQUAL to get the job done.

Man2utd:


And women are naturally meant to be what..

FluidQueen:
They are Men, not Santa Claus. Not Your Father.

Safiaaa:
So a man who provides automatically becomes my father? Men these days are becoming so feminine, what they truly want is a woman to take care of them. That’s why women these days are so masculine, because the roles are switched. Relationships don’t last any longer and finances are the major cause. Let men be men, let’s stop trying to switch roles.

FluidQueen:
so, you really think it's a man's responsibility to feed you, clothe you, provide financially for you while you do nothing but wash his clothes and Well, be his kitchen mistress?


The roles should never be switched. Rigid gender roles is the Bane here. When women do away with the unrealistic notion that a man should always be their Meal ticket and actually get the 'ticket' themselves, only then, would the family feel balanced and happier. Such responsibility should never be on one human's shoulder. It's paralyzing.

FluidQueen:
so, you really think it's a man's responsibility to feed you, clothe you, provide financially for you while you do nothing but wash his clothes and Well, be his kitchen mistress?


The roles should never be switched. Rigid gender roles is the Bane here. When women do away with the unrealistic notion that a man should always be their Meal ticket and actually get the 'ticket' themselves, only then, would the family feel balanced and happier. Such responsibility should never be on one human's shoulder. It's paralyzing.

Khonifer:


Nobody complains when guys that have slept with anything fuckable turn around and call us olosho

It's your cross carry it and stop whining. Best go hustle so you can adequately provide ..

Pat081:
d tin pain u so much why?

Safiaaa:
Team up with you to be equal? Well as long as you don’t classify yourself as the head of the home, I have nothing against that. As long as that doesn’t alter your masculinity, I’m behind you 100%

FluidQueen:
You are a smart man. You'd birth queens.

Safiaaa:
First of all please do not downplay the role of women who happen to be housewives. Whilst I do ‘nothing but wash his clothes, be his kitchen mistress and take care of his children’.. sorry do you think that’s an easy job? To turn a house into home? You equate the financial part of a household so high to the extent where every other thing doesn’t matter. Please change that mentality.

Realistically they’ll always be some kind of movement with the roles, but generally the roles should stay in place. The man is the provider, and should carry most if not all the financial responsibility in the house. And if he’s got a problem with that then clearly he’s not capable of doing his job or he’s looking for a room mate to take the financial pressure off him not a wife.

That’s my personal opinion and men these days are just too feminine to accept that. Women are so masculine these days that they have become the man, mother, wife , gateman and everything and beyond in the house.

When you see them beyond a certain age they look so haggard due to them not understanding their position. Then he will leave you for a fresher babe after he has used you up, and provide for this babe completely.

Abeg please be smart. This is not to dispute that women can have their own money, but understanding your role in a relationship is super important.

dingbang:
Safiaa should understand that fluidqueen ain't broke and doesn't depend on men for survival...


Fluidqueen should understand that safiaa is not a feminist and believes that men should be the providers.

efesodje:


Now this is a smart woman. One after my heart

FluidQueen:
this topic has nothing to do with Feminism.

dingbang:
your reply as well as hers