It is well but most times we don't get everything we want.
Good reason why I'm still searching.

She has great qualities any man would want but u don't like her height and shaved head.

Your murmuring about her height shows u don't love her one bit because if u love her, u would accept it and understand it's not something she can change. It wouldn't be something for u to complain about at all. She shouldn't be with a superficial guy like u anyway.

Since she's wifey material, there's someone out there who's going to love her like she deserves. U are not this person. Let her go.

Jogunomi1:


I want a tall woman but she's short. I like my woman to have plenty hair but she shaves her head.

You better get clay and mould the woman you like.

Why didn't you marry the sexy one you have on your list.
Guy you are lucky you should be ready to take responsibility for what ever decisions you want to make right now either sexy one but not wife material and semi sexy ine with wife material.
Your time start now.

Bro do not settle for less. If she doesn't meet up, don't settle. We don't want a situation where you would complain after marrying her. Move your ministry to the next site abeg.

Why does she shave her head sef? That's odd to me.

muhammed50:
Are you normal?? Some many guys are seeking for this opportunity. For a girl to woo you, do you know what it means?

Not cool with me. Woo me as how? I still dey high school?

Fun back then but not cool now

That is life bro, you can't have complete woman if you Are looking for that then you on your way to destruction.

This guy sounds confused sha. The lord is your strength

Jogunomi1:
She has almost everything I want in a woman, but I don't find her sexy. Those I find sexy don't have what she has. She thinks I'm shy and probably don't know how to woo her. So, she has started sending me coded messages. Why is life unfair like this?

You want big b00bs and b00ts.

What opened Adams eyes killed Abacha.


Take her to the gym, they will train her to any figure you want.


Last bullet: You cannot have all you desire. No body out there is perfect including you.


Love conquers all things.

Jogunomi1:


I want a tall woman but she's short. I like my woman to have plenty hair but she shaves her head.

Guy if short women handle you ehn! You will change this your perception about tbem. Short ladies are really down to earth

Jogunomi1:


I want a tall woman but she's short. I like my woman to have plenty hair but she shaves her head.

I think the hair can be sorted out. But the height tho, how short is she really? does she struggle to see the top of a bar table or is it that you are very tall and the height difference makes kissing her standing impossible?

Safiaaa:
lol these are things you can get over. Or is she supposed to change her height for you?

Can't a guy have preference anymore some ladies can't date short men and that's their deal breaker.

Jogunomi1:
She has almost everything I want in a woman, but I don't find her sexy. Those I find sexy don't have what she has. She thinks I'm shy and probably don't know how to woo her. So, she has started sending me coded messages. Why is life unfair like this?

Guy, I'm looking for someone to woo me . If you don't like, please, do not discard.

Jogunomi1:


This life no fair at all. Na jejely I for wife her if not for the sexual attraction that is not there.

Unfortunately, the sexual attraction is really important.

MissRaine69:

Life is fair it’s you that has chosen to have a blinkered view of what’s on offer. You are opting for what you what rather than what you need and this is the reason snag men end up being burnt. Thinking for the moment and not the future never bore any fruit.

d physical is as important as d character 4 guys. If he isnt attracted 2 her, he isn't attracted 2 her. Any attempt 4 him 2 get involved with d lady, will only lead 2 disappointment & heart break 4d lady

Jogunomi1:
She has almost everything I want in a woman, but I don't find her sexy. Those I find sexy don't have what she has. She thinks I'm shy and probably don't know how to woo her. So, she has started sending me coded messages. Why is life unfair like this?

She is in your friend zone...kapish!!!..don't hurt her but don't lead her on also...Someone once said 'there is no greater coward than a man who awakens love within a woman but with no intentions to love her in return'...I know your mom didn't raise a coward...so be a man and behave!!...A man must always be in charge of his emotions..

lexy2014:
d physical is as important as d character 4 guys. If he isnt attracted 2 her, he isn't attracted 2 her. Any attempt 4 him 2 get involved with d lady, will only lead 2 disappointment & heart break 4d lady

You can overcome the physical once you get past the superficial

aflyingbird:
She has great qualities any man would want but u don't like her height and shaved head.

Your murmuring about her height shows u don't even love her one bit because if u love her, u would accept it and understand it's not something she can change. It wouldn't be something for u to complain about at all. She shouldn't be with a superficial guy like u anyway.

Since she's wifey material, there's someone out there who's going to love her like she deserves. U are not this person. Let her go.

d guy never said he loved d girl, did he? he just has his preference that's all. being "superficial" will b 2 accept what he doesn't want, glossing over it and acting like all is well yet his heart is somewhere else. Do u no what pain he will cause d lady by doing that?

just install all the things she is destitute of in her and start using her. do not shot her off while installing.

MissRaine69:

You can overcome the physical once you get past the superficial

he isn't attracted 2 her. there's no amount of overcoming that can change that. Its advice like d above that lead 2 all sorts of unhappy r/ships

lexy2014:
d guy never said he loved d girl, did he? he just has his preference that's all. being "superficial" will b 2 accept what he doesn't want, glossing over it and acting like all is well yet his heart is somewhere else. Do u no what pain he will cause d lady by doing that?

That's not what "superficial" means. Pull up a dictionary and read again, abeg.

Why are you afraid, are you not a man? If she asks you out, tell her "no", simple.

aflyingbird:


That's not what superficial means. Pull up a dictionary and read again, abeg.

what does it mean and in what context did u use d word?

lexy2014:
he isn't attracted 2 her. there's no amount of overcoming that can change that. Its advice like d above that lead 2 all sorts of unhappy r/ships

Are you him? The OP?

MissRaine69:

Are you him? The OP?

no am not him. Are u d lady, d one d OP is talking about?

lexy2014:
no am not him. Are u d lady, d one d OP is talking about?

Yes

MissRaine69:

Yes

thats good. if u were she u didn't need asking me if I was d OP

lexy2014:
thats good. if u were she u didn't need asking me if I was d OP

You are awfully defensive for a cause that’s not yours

MissRaine69:

You are awfully defensive for a cause that’s not yours

that makes 2 of us