dingbang:
Ruthdan.iels

Hello...

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

RuthDaniels:
Hello...

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

Chommieblaq:



Girlfriend you are wise.

Tenifayo23:

I cant just view this ur comment without quoting. U 2 Make sense

Thank you

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

sekem:
OP pls go and read this book titled FOOLS DIE by Mario Puzo

funstufz:
Oga, you get the e-books/pdf copy make you post.

Thanks

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

MrCuteking:


The way she normally use my pix on her wall and facebook, she once told me to promise not to break her heart. I did. Its still fresh, breaking her heart so early is a herculean task for me right now.

MissRaine69:
You need some sort of deliverance from whom exactly I am conflicted.
Nothing will come out of this so why are you stuck in stagnant waters? I understand the need for sex but you don’t then invests emotionally! Come on get a grip and end this circus. I actually feel pity
Pity because you are actually allowing yourself to be used and you know that’s the case.

MrCuteking:


I don’t understand.

MrCuteking:
I got a lucrative job last year and decided to go online to look for a female friend. We chatted on facebook and got to know each other better. When we had lunch together she ordered for fried rice and chicken but I didn't bother because she told me it was her best food. We continued and became used to each other. When push comes to shove, I made my intention known to her. We started dating and since then, I've been struggling to save money because its been based on satisfying her needs. We discuss daily on phone and we spend more than 2hrs with my airtime. She told me about her dark past and she even lost count of the number of guys she had slept with. Many atimes , she compares me with her ex, telling me that she doesn't like to ask for money but her ex will just send her money for her upkeep. Last month I bought her a dress of 4k but she rejected it and said "You don't know my taste". When ever she comes to my place I do give her atleast 5k but she never gets satisfied with the transport fare and yet we both stay in Lagos. Nothing is ever enough for her. She only got a new job this month but has not yet been paid. I've been thinking and looking at her pix, wondering what she has ever done to make me happy...Beyond sex, she hasn't offered me anything. I love her but I don't really know why. What should I do?

roarik:
she's just there for d money,believe me..u ain't d only one she's dating....look for ur help mate bro

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

RuthDaniels:
Good question!

Demand! When you make little demands, give her responsibilities, make her take part in decision making of what happens in your life and your relationship.
Act broke, give her a chance to provide or struggle for you two at times. A sane woman will feel needed, challenged and will want to prove how useful she is.

You must know though, not all women are sane. Some are just with you to get what you can offer.

pcguru1:


Thanks dear, this is just genius I will apply this henceforth. Its always my concern knowing who is there to be with you because they want to.

I hope it works

CodeTemplar:
Stop yarning trash pal. She is what she is and no man made any girl whatever she is the way you are painting it.

Whatever rocks your sinking boat honey

RuthDaniels:
Whatever rocks your sinking boat honey