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Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa:the honest truth is that, men are naturally wired to be more sexually inclined than women, just d way d women folks love money more than the male folks. Have u ever considered why we have different crimes in d world just to get money? Most of these culprits just wan2 more than enough pussy at their disposal so they get wat d owners of the pussy can't resist which is money at all cost. It is nature even 4rm bible days, talk abt samson, solomon dat got plenty women just because of his wealth and fame etc. So it goes on and on, men love sex women love money. It's nature bt self control matters alot. 1 Like |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:No it cannot be reversed in the Nigerian society It has been reversed to an extent in most advanced societies though, as we have now seen ladies openly ask men out and seen ladies propose to men, although there is still remnant of that mentality. In Nigeria, it is highly unlikely. Makes one wonder why Africa women are advocating for equal rights Not my headache tho |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:22pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa: Lol, we have such men Permit me to say that we have many of them that can hardly be manipulated sexually . I personally do not think "Sex" can be a man's weak or spot point, if it was, why then do men dump ladies for another lady when that same lady can give them sex which you claimed to be the weak point of man Again I ask ma'am, if more men start having this very control you scribbled of, what would be the fate of women who gets what they want with pussy how do you think they intend getting what they want. But wait, do you mean men don't offer sex? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Grayjoy:yeah I agree100%. It’s a never ending cycle. You are what you attract. You can’t get angry at women that offer only their pussy when that’s all you value. Value more and you shall receive more. My personal opinion anyway. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:28pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Grayjoy: You have a clear and good point brO! I perfectly understood you. But, you said a woman's body is delicate, scared and should be preserved for someone she loves, don't you think women aswell deserves a man who preserves his body |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa: Iba!
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Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by makydebbie(f): 9:34pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
But why are most of you all not really answering the question? "Can we say men offer nothing except sex? " is the question and everyone is emotional. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:Explain the bolded again. That question doesn’t make sense to me. Now if women couldn’t use sex as a manipulative tool then their options would be limited. But let’s not forget that men are visual beings. Sometimes you don’t have to have sex with them to get what you. If you look very attractive, nice body, you can get what you want. I’ve personally received money randomly, got things for free and had free rides from just being ‘attractive’ to a man. In this life we all take advantage of what we can, that’s just life. Men are on the receiving end most times with sex,because they hunt, initiate and crave it more than women. That’s just the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
makydebbie: The both emboldened negates each other. Madam, answer the question and leave why criticizing? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: @bolded, are you still describing a women? or an object? lol |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:39pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Perfect! You made a point concerning how less women tend to demand or ask for sex due to African societal view or tag, it's either they are tagged cheap or less dignitary conscious. You are right. Concerning the fvckboi offering sex, it's minor, it can supersede the rate in which women hoard and offer sex when they want. If we are to agree that men demand, not offer. Are aswell suppose to agree to the motion that Women have no right over sexual satisfactory complaint , since they offer what was demanded of them |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by makydebbie(f): 9:39pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Grayjoy:Your points are very on point. I learnt something here this night. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:41pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
makydebbie: Lol... One of the questions I asked which is yet to be answered. So I ask ma'am, can we say such? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Admin401:Lol, by that I meant how to get the best from his woman. I will modify to avoid ambiguity |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
makydebbie:I actually answered the question. I thought he meant "why do men always claim ladies only offer sex." I simply said he asked the question in a wrong way, that women hoard sex and make it an offer as against men just claiming women offer sex for no reason. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:45pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
greiboy: @Bolded, I'm preparing a thread for that soon I think it can only be reversed with a high contribution of men. The question should be. How many men tends to resist sexual manipulation by ladies, hence prompting women to ask for it. How possible is that in Africa ? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
makydebbie:U wan2 make me to start feeling myself abi? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:very impossible African men love sex diee, esp naija ones. Gosh it’s actually shameful Lool. Do you know statistically men who prioritise sex too high tend to be less successful in life? Do your research. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:52pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa: @My bolded. I meant, since weak point is seen as the spot by which you can be manipulated or convinced, if we are to agree with you that sex is the weak point of most men. Why then do men dump ladies?, despite the fact that their assumed weak point is "Sex", how about ladies capitalizing and attempting their weak point which is "Sex" to avoid being dumped. Your last line is true, men hunt and crave for it, hence giving women higher edge over them in sex. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
@donstan18 It's dump not dumb. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by makydebbie(f): 9:54pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
greiboy:Do men offer only sex? If yes, state your reason. I don't know but I'm not seeing a straightforward answer. donstan18:I think that happens with friends with benefits, where both parties want sexual satisfaction only. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 9:56pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Gungnir:Thanks man |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:Now you are deviating! The emboldened is another topic entirely, I tried to explain the Genesis of the offering cliche. Does that mean things are still the same they were back then? Women have no right over sexual satisfactory complaint? Well maybe in the 18's... Yes! but in this very century... Hell no. Hold that believe, and watch how quick you and your dick will be replaced! |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18: It's nothing. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
RuthDaniels: Either offer sex or make sex, this is only peculiar to sex outside marriage. When you are married, you make love and don't offer sex. Making love is mutualistic hence the reason for the uniqueness of its contextual and literal meaning. in my mother's tongue, they called it "Ibalopo" which is the art of making love. However, sex outside wedlock could be regarded as anything, according to why and what people indulging in it are getting from it. Ladies offer sex same as men, for the financial reason, pleasure and other personal beliefs. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:Sexual manipulation works both ways my brother. Women are less likely to be manipulated though because it takes something special to manipulate them. In addition, any man handsome or good enough to manipulate women emotionally is already preoccupied with many ladies, so it it is highly unlikely. Men on the other hand, take less effort to be manipulate because most men were denied the privileges in the first place. Take for example, in the Nazi concentration camp in the Second world war in Germany. when many Jews were freed by the allied forces and given bread. They valued it so much to the extent that some were hiding it and ready to die, thinking the allied forces were German forces. Same principles can be applied to sex It goes back to hoarding of sex bro, it isn't a cycle it is a deliberate plot by most ladies. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:That is where we go back to what d society installed in our mentality. Every lady deserves a man dat preserves his body but what d society made us believe is dat, that preserved male is nt important like d preserved female. Let's take 4 example, a guy keeps sleeping with a lady and a certain neighbourhood lets say work place or school in dis context is aware of it, d lady is assumed to be a slut and could even be publicly addressed with dat tag by both male and female but what do we call d guy? We applaud him. It's sumtin dat has been passed down to us but in fairness, with normal reasoning and equity in consideration, what is good 4 d goose is good 4 d gander. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by donstan18: 10:01pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Safiaaa: Lol. I will find you annoying if I start misinterpreting this comment Now tell, who are we to blame nature on that? |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by kazyhm(m): 10:01pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
women aspires us to great things and prevents us from achieving it "mike tyson" |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
donstan18:That’s because the hunt and crave for sex is a temporary want. It’s like when you’re craving a bottle of Fanta, you’ll do anything to drink it. Once you drink it, the crave automatically disappear and you see it as less valuable. When the men have achieved their goal which is sex they move on to the next. Men are not emotional so they have sex without attaching emotions. Sex can get you materialistic things from a man (when he’s at the craving stage) , but it can’t make a man love you or stay with you. That’s surpassing the temporary stage. Hope that makes sense. |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Neyoor:You have said it all. I agree with you |
Re: Do Men Offer Sex? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Yes, a man can offer 'just sex'. There are so many women using men as sex objects. The major differences are, the male ego won't allow him agree he is the one being used. Then, a woman will most likely not come out to brag of how she is using a guy for sex. It's not the average female thing to talk about such...plus in our society, she'll still end up getting shamed. Here, a woman is the only one that depreciates via sex. Never a man . 1 Like 1 Share |
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