A Nigerian man has raised an alarm after he was harassed by a lady on Facebook for not chatting with her whenever he's online. The young man from Kwara state incurred the lady's wrath for ignoring her online despite her initiating their conversations most times.

The desperate lady from Delta state vented her anger on the innocent guy - calling him all sorts of names and raining insults on him.

The young man decided to share screenshots of their chats on Facebook.

Read what Olubukola Ozone shared on Facebook;

Really, things are happening in this world. At first, I didn't want to talk about this, but the kind of headache it has given me since it happened till now can't be explained. These messages didn't only spoil my day on Friday, it succeeded in spoiling my mood too for the whole weekend. I'm yet to recover.

Before I tell you the Friday story, some of my friends might notice I was not very active on Facebook some few weeks ago, and that's because of another soul stabbing experience from a Facebook friend who told me to help her read the book she was working on and to contribute to it by writing a few pages if possible. I told her about the things I've been going through as well as my very busy schedule that wouldn't allow me be of help in that regards. And she threw caution to the wind almost immediately and started raining abuses on me. She said I'm fake and anyone who sees me on my profile would think I'm the best guy there is. I can't even recall all the adjectives she used to qualify me. I went into emotional trauma.

Here's the story of the girl from Friday;

She sent me a request last year April, I accepted, and on the same day she chatted me up inbox. I'm someone who consciously tries to be friendly with the people in my space, including the ones I'm not familiar with yet, so I responded. Our chat was rather shot on that day because I was on a job.

The following day or there about, she chatted me up again and told me about her preps for her sister's wedding. Without asking for permission, she sent me a video of herself in the kitchen, cooking. And I gave her a thumb up (I'll post the video in the comment section). That was the last time we chatted. Sincerely speaking, I didn't even remember her name again after then.

Then suddenly on Friday (that's one whole year after our first two chats), she sent me a message accusing me of why I haven't blocked her from my space. I was confused. I asked why, but it's as if she was specially sent by the devil to spoil my day. She went all James Bond on me and started spitting fire. I had never been so lost in my life. I wondered what in the seven heavens my ancestors did to warrant such names calling. I've not been myself since that chat. And I just feel like sharing the screenshots with you guys. This is one of the many things I'm facing on this platform that is killing me.

All these things are beginning to get to me, and I solemnly pray I don't lose my mind one day. Only God knows how many other people are going through similar experiences, or worse, simply because they have 5000 friends on Facebook. If you're one of those who resort to emotional blackmail because someone couldn't do something you asked of them, or because they don't find your greenlight green enough, or just not interested in being intimate with you, please change. You have no idea how much it hurts. We're all working towards figuring out our lives and no one is a messiah in this world. Roll your boat as you wish and let me paddle my canoe in peace.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/03/nigerian-guy-cries-harassed-young-lady-facebook-photos.html

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Wetin be dis one

Is this why you're crying out? Mtcheeew

So some women can be stupidly desperate like this

Make she see as e dey be small. Lots of guys go through same fate trying to keep conversations with some girls...

Anyway, looking at the progression of the chat, I don't think the girl is that bad. There is a missing link.

She started the conversation and tried her little best to keep it. Maybe the long reply from the guy...telling her to allow nature do its job, triggered her demons. Chick ain't used to rejection/unreciprocated friendship .

Some people will be like.......

The runs girl was not happy with the "juman". Runs girls are everywhere now in Naija. I once chatted a girl online innocently to be her friend. She asked for my age and what I do for a living then she stoned my face with a question "can u perform?"
My reply was "how do u mean ma'am?"
Then she replied "are you a kid?"

Unless there is more to this that you haven't told us, I'm shocked to say the least. Some girls got no chill. You've been a good guy all along. That girl is "sounding" frustrated. Please do not add to her misery. Just ignore.

The girl chats like our Nairaland Oriaku Feminist

wow this is very interesting. Ama do this

He simply should have ignored her

She's even from delta.. Won't be shocked if she's a warri girl cos warri babes are rugged to d core and they ain't got no chills. Mister kwara guy if u want peace of mind just jejeli block dat babe on ur social media.she sounds off as a psycho.na dat one fit carry knife stab u for back and dig out ur kidneys .block her asap... This one na endtime girl.

Apina:
He simply should have ignored her

blocking would have been ideal.that's wat i also do to crazies dat enter my box on Facebook. Blocking is so bae.

this girl has got excess time at disposal.

I just have to say this,









Some of my Delta sister's are just so stupid.

Why is the guy still crying now??

Lol.......i hv forgotten what i wanted to say

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JasonScolari:
I just have to say this,








Some of my Delta sister's are just so stupid.

Don't be surprised that this same girl is keeping some other guys pending since last year April she haven't replied them not even *Hello*

AntiBrutus:
Make she see as e dey be small. Lots of guys go through same fate trying to keep conversations with some girls...

Anyway, looking at the progression of the chat, I don't think the girl is that bad. There is a missing link.

She started the conversation and tried her little best to keep it. Maybe the long reply from the guy...telling her to allow nature do its job, triggered her demons. Chick ain't used to rejection/unreciprocated friendship .

When they are at the receiving end?

The same girl might be doing same thing to some other guys...

My guy, simply block her on Facebook simple. Personally, it's not everyone that slides into my page that I accept their requests. Some people are just trouble seekers

Evablizin:



Some people will be like.......

Where's your picture baby

ok

Light gone red

She likes him...