chenzen:
u reply threads like a b! tch... lol

lol. I didn't u understood as a clown.

AstroG:
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Forget All these things your Blabbing abt
There is A Man in my Hood,he is past 40,upon all the pressures from everywhere to marry,he is yet to marry,but still very very happy. And another amazing fact is that he is Lawyer (SAN for that matter)

Not Everyone gives into pressures from people to go and marry
Like me,I don plan am say na two Babymamas I go get,no time to waste on these Nigerian Girls Op Aforementioned

Do you know that man you just mentioned is impotent or not?

revontuli:


Scandinavian countries! The internet
I think women who have a serious hobby/interest should also qualify. They will spend time on their art/craft/hobby and give you space.

That's going to be hard. White women don't do anything for me. Allow me to tell you something, and it is totally off the tangent, but...

Okay, so yesterday, I went out clubbing. You know how clubbing is: one gets to see the most beautiful men and women in town; yesterday was not an exception. Because I'd had some alcohol, my perception of beauty was heightened. Sometime around midnight, a group of about 11 people arrived, 6 women and 5 guys. The guys, save for one, were Nigerians who had married white women --all the women were white-- in Europe. They spoke Russian all through.

Naturally, I had to check out the women. Their colour, along with the generous colours of the club, dazzled and shone. They had nice skin, but it only glowed a weak golden hue when the lights bounced on it. Curves were lacking, their movements were awkward to me, the bulk of their derriere hung like the neck of a sleeping child on his mother's back. They had no vitality, no elan, no energy. I didn't feel any sparks, instead, I wondered how they coped with not being in a black skin.

Black skin is a wonderful gift when you think about it. It doesn't crack, it defies categorization, there are a thousand hues of black when lights bounce on black skin, it shimmers and flatters the light.

Mehn. Black all the way.

White skin, is nice, but to be honest, I didn't feel any charge when I looked at those white girls; but, looking at the black beauties? Whoa!! electricity, chemistry, the rousing of my loins, the quickening of my heart. Black: It is the colour that my memories are written in. I find solace in my memories, I find solace and happiness in my black women.

But, do they make me mad? At times? Yes? Yes, definitely. Thinking about it now, I remember the words of a wise man who said: "women are a necessary evil in the lives of men." He didn't say that with malice in mind, it was rather said in a sincere recapitulation of years of experience in the ways of women. He might have been married to a good wife or a bad wife; he might have been a life-long bachelor... all of those don't matter, he just knew that women were, you know, not a little right in the head.

jaxxy:



I'm not scared at all just want the right person irrespective of her flaws and I wont toy with that. Babymamas are for guys looking for the easy way out or not ready to settle down.

apt!

So sometimes it happens

goat22:


In concurrence of the affirmative oblong cathedral, but the uttar pradesh communal intapugulatary sanitation fermentation is tantamount to the hooka assembly, honorarium indeed, nevertheless great sadiq.

Are you communicating at all?

KOPT33:


That's going to be hard. White women don't do anything for me. Allow me to tell you something, and it is totally off the tangent, but...

Okay, so yesterday, I went out clubbing. You know how clubbing is: one gets to see the most beautiful men and women in town; yesterday was not an exception. Because I'd had some alcohol, my perception of beauty was heightened. Sometime around midnight, a group of about 11 people arrived, 6 women and 5 guys. The guys, save for one, were Nigerians who had married white women --all the women were white-- in Europe. They spoke Russian all through.

Naturally, I had to check out the women. Their colour, along with the generous colours of the club, dazzled and shone. They had nice skin, but it only glowed a weak golden hue when the lights bounced on it. Curves were lacking, their movements were awkward to me, the bulk of their derriere hung like the neck of a sleeping child on his mother's back. They had no vitality, no elan, no energy. I didn't feel any sparks, instead, I wondered how they coped with not being in a black skin.

Black skin is a wonderful gift when you think about it. It doesn't crack, it defies categorization, there are a thousand hues of black when lights bounce on black skin, it shimmers and flatters the light.

Mehn. Black all the way.

White skin, is nice, but to be honest, I didn't feel any charge when I looked at those white girls; but, looking at the black beauties? Whoa!! electricity, chemistry, the rousing of my loins, the quickening of my heart. Black: It is the colour that my memories are written in. I find solace in my memories, I find solace and happiness in my black women.

But, do they make me mad? At times? Yes? Yes, definitely. Thinking about it now, I remember the words of a wise man who said: "women are a necessary evil in the lives of men." He didn't say that with malice in mind, it was rather said in a sincere recapitulation of years of experience in the ways of women. He might have been married to a good wife or a bad wife; he might have been a life-long bachelor... all of those don't matter, he just knew that women were, you know, not a little right in the head.

I totally understand since only very tall, blue-eyed Nordic men do it for me - no other kind. I can completely relate to what you say about elctricity and chemistry aspect.
Maybe find a Nigerian lady educated abroad and has some kind of hobbies and habit of hanging out with her own friends? Or African-American? I think the clinginess is to do with culture, it seems to be a huge problem with the Middle Eastern women too, Except for the very westernized ones who learned the concept of personal space.

folake4u:




LMAO, your post is funny though.

OK, to every general rule there's always an exception. Yes girls are materialistic and selfish but there's a proviso here, it doesn't pertain to Nigerian girls alone. There are still girls in this part of the planet that are humble and not easily moved by money(yes ,they really exist). We all should stop hating on Nigerian women and that stereotype that Nigerian girls are this and that should stop. Search and you'd find some girls that are cool headed, it's just that you're not looking at the right direction.
Personally I believe that a person's character be it boy or girl can be traced to one's family values or some sort. There are some families that imbibe discipline and so someone that comes from such a family (even if he /she is poor) will stick to that values and hold tenaciously to it. Like I said, it all narrows down to home training.


Secondly, it is not an established fact that Nigerian girls who've attained the age of 25years or above are or have been "oloshos " whether corporate or industrial at a certain point in their life. Look around you dude, do I need to remind you of the akara seller in your street that is 25yrs or that fine bread seller whose smile is charming and everyone one wants to go "close "to her but yet she stands her ground and would not succumb because she believes she's worth more than that or that extremely beautiful and brilliant girl in your class or at your workplace who seems to be moving ahead of all her colleagues because she's aiming for the top? We all should stop this general notion that Nigerian girls above 25years are "second hand clothes "or chattels. Fine, there are still some mumu girls that fool around but I don't think it's any of your business because in this life, no one owes you anything or any explanation except if such person borrows your stuff .
There are successful women out there who climbed the ladder of success through hard work and determination. I think you should change the people you hang with though .



This is my one pence though. .

This is one of the posts that makes me think this FOLAKE is 4ME

engrelvis:
there is no good woman whether here or abroad.just b mature ,smart, loving n honest in handling dem.women can b nasty n bad ass when offended.is nt their fault.is how dey wired. what people who v nt travel dnt understand is law favour women more dan men abroad.u will c our men beating n causing our women bodily harm over here.try it over there n God forbid u meet a badass woman u will regret d day u were born.all dis commanding n master relationship our men practice over here.d day yr white lady wife get tired she will say u should get d Bleep out of her house.na dem get house.all d rubbish our men do to our girls here dey can't try it there.because their law protect d women wella.

very true

revontuli:


I totally understand since only very tall, blue-eyed Nordic men do it for me - no other kind. I can completely relate to what you say about electricity and chemistry aspect.
Maybe find a Nigerian lady educated abroad and has some kind of hobbies and habit of hanging out with her own friends? Or African-American? I think the clinginess is to do with culture, it seems to be a huge problem with the Middle Eastern women too, Except for the very westernized ones who learned the concept of personal space.

Wow, I am intrigued by this. If I may ask, where did you grow up? No wonder you're trying to recruit me into your ranks. There awesome Nigerian women out there for a person like me, especially Igbo women. I am a tribal person, so...

My ideal marriage is the type of marriage that will not demand much emotions from me. It would be like an 'I am here, you're there, but we are happy kind of thing.'

ellapius:
you are awkward and a clean definition of frustration wannabe and sure u are still I secondary school.. .see what pornography has done to you? U can't make complete sense without The word f*ck in It. Shey u want to trade words fool. ,ode u have money online cos that's where u live. See this abusive he-goat that can't feed himself claiming rich aaaaaaah Na wa ooooo see mumu. Where u come from sef. Masturbator. Wake up to reality and stop doing poo. .gambler like u. Am sure u spend ur day watching manu and Baca face what ur mates re doing. Bing bing Oya bring out ur maddness

insult Don finish for your mouth baa , you are now using pornography as if I told you I watch porn.. but girl joke apart your English is very bad,. My aunt's housemaid might even type better than you .. Awon werey just disgracing yourself online, i can't even imaging such a person like you in real life..am not even your age mate let me tell you so I don't need to brag to your immature head about how financially buoyant I am.. I will keep eating my money okay, keep depending on people jobless idiot... Please if you don't have anything better to say to me this evening go and sleep, your insult is very stale this time

Mcy56:

I comment my reserve.

Ehn you say what? where's the gala & coke I sent you to buy?

KOPT33:


Wow, I am intrigued by this. If I may ask, where did you grow up? No wonder you're trying to recruit me into your ranks. There awesome Nigerian women out there for a person like me, especially Igbo women. I am a tribal person, so...

My ideal marriage is the type of marriage that will not demand much emotions from me. It would be like an 'I am here, you're there, but we are happy kind of thing.'

Not trying to recruit you, just saying not all women are like those you see, there are also black women in other cultures (like African-American, Jamaican-British) that are nothing like those women you have dated and respect separate time/personal space concepts

revontuli:


Not trying to recruit you, just saying not all women are like those you see, there are also black women in other cultures (like African-American, Jamaican-British) that are nothing like those women you have dated and respect separate time/personal space concepts

Hmmm, I get you now. It surely wouldn't be asking for too much if I say that I want a Nigerian woman who understands those concepts, would it?

Hybridz:

This is one of the posts that makes me think this FOLAKE is 4ME

I will tell my daddy for you

KOPT33:


Hmmm, I get you now. It surely wouldn't be asking for too much if I say that I want a Nigerian woman who understands those concepts, would it?

There are Nigerian ladies educated abroad, also the feminists who won't cling on men like that since they are independent-minded.
If not, then maybe a campaign to educate the young ladies about the importance of keeping personal time and space in relationships and being emotionally independent?

revontuli:


There are Nigerian ladies educated abroad, also the feminists who won't cling on men like that since they are independent-minded.
If not, then maybe a campaign to educate the young ladies about the importance of keeping personal time and space in relationships and being emotionally independent?

I didn't even know I was talking to an oyinbo... I just looked at your profile!

A person could be educated abroad and still be clingy. I think it really boils down to the individual.

franklingud:

True love is in play here bro. Am working but the pay is too small.

na wa ohh..... U said true love Re u dating a Nigerian??

mikejj:
. have not seen the right woman in Nigeria tho..but don't worry my prewedding photos will come out before 2030..and am not bothered sha if person like lefulefu is still single who am i?kiki and can a good of general queen tell her to leave my shiny forehead alone plzzzz

Why will I leave the head when it serves as a mirror to me when I'm trying to get my makeup done not too soon that head belongs to me

LegitGirl:



Very correct @bolded. I don't know why men have decided to lie to themselves that they can get married anytime they wish. An average girl has more than one man trying to win her affections.

Better still,an average clean girl has a minimum of 5 guys trying to get down with her

folake4u:




I will tell my daddy for you

please do,you have my blessings

Tochyodiks:
insult Don finish for your mouth baa , you are now using pornography as if I told you I watch porn.. but girl joke apart your English is very bad,. My aunt's housemaid might even type better than you .. Awon werey just disgracing yourself online, i can't even imaging such a person like you in real life..am not even your age mate let me tell you so I don't need to brag to your immature head about how financially buoyant I am.. I will keep eating my money okay, keep depending on people jobless idiot... Please if you don't have anything better to say to me this evening go and sleep, your insult is very stale this time

lol.......masturbator, gay, pervert, fool ,sting ranting he goat.. .ur awards are endless.. .u are so poor u can't even afford oloshi, u are so poor u still squatting ur aunt. HahaAhahA tell me sir which Nigerian girl will want to date a homeless fool like u that can't even house himself shame on u.. .hahaaa ur aunty must be feeding u fat ni. That is why u stay online 247. Ewu. ..u Re here counting lines with a lady idiot lie you. ..no wonder u are this frustrated depression won't kill you.

Hybridz:

please do,you have my blessings

O ti ya werey gan!

ellapius:
lol.......masturbator, gay, pervert, fool ,sting ranting he goat.. .ur awards are endless.. .u are so poor u can't even afford oloshi, u are so poor u still squatting ur aunt. HahaAhahA tell me sir which Nigerian girl will want to date a homeless fool like u that can't even house himself shame on u.. .hahaaa ur aunty must be feeding u fat ni. That is why u stay online 247. Ewu. ..u Re here counting lines with a lady idiot lie you. ..no wonder u are this frustrated depression won't kill you.

olosho.. Insult don finish for your mouth this evening, I believe you are standing by the roadside waiting for customer, typing on niaraland just to kill time.. Enjoy your ewedu

folake4u:




O ti ya werey gan!

I do not like the emboldened being used for any reason pls. Not least from the FOLAKE dad is gonna send back to me


Watsup?

pimpo:
The world is over populated so men are contributing their 2 cents to population control by avoiding marriage.

.....but having several baby mamas right?

Hybridz:

I do not like the emboldened being used for any reason pls. Not least from the FOLAKE dad is gonna send back to me


Watsup?

Ok.

I'm cool, you?

KOPT33:


I didn't even know I was talking to an oyinbo... I just looked at your profile!

A person could be educated abroad and still be clingy. I think it really boils down to the individual.

There are clingy women even in Scandinavia, but it's a rarity and those are mentally ill types with serious problems.
Somali trolls thought I was an angry West African pretending to be oyinbo, I defended Nigerians against them real good

folake4u:



Ok.

I'm cool, you?

I'm kicking and raring to pick on you in another thread until then,ma yuppie.

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

It is not only men who are scared of getting married. Women are too. Marriage is not easy and besides not everyone wants to be married. I know I don't.

Hybridz:

I'm kicking and raring to pick on you in another thread until then,ma yuppie.

Huh,i don't get?

Tochyodiks:
olosho.. Insult don finish for your mouth this evening, I believe you are standing by the roadside waiting for customer, typing on niaraland just to kill time.. Enjoy your ewedu

he is so quick to respond hahaaa I may be making u feel alive again.. U re actually practicing one of ur hobbies fighting with a lady and feeling like a he goat. Anuofia. Chest beating abusive bastard..shame on u. Auntie Pikin.. Go on go and eat. Ur dad will be proud to hear u masturbate and watch porn.