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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by KingMicky3286: 12:41am On Apr 18, 2018 |
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by IamD18: 12:43am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Shugavee: I never said such. I said Nature has placed it for women's body to depreciate as they gets older, hence their desperation for marriage, because they know no man will want to marry a woman who's her body isn't intact and fresh. What do I mean? This is one of the reasons why women prioritize marriage in their lives, yet they'll blame the society for the pressure when they are the ones seeing marriage as their top achievement. I didn't say a woman biologically needs marriage, I tried letting out the reasons why we should erase this mindset of putting blames on the society for women's desperation for marriage. Shugavee: @Embolden, That's what i'v been wanting to get cleared on, but you are yet to explain that. Can anyone help tell how the society pressurize women to marriage. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 12:44am On Apr 18, 2018 |
atakamus:hmmmmmm u are really trying oo. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by PDPGuy: 12:54am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Some men are scared because they aren't certain whether their wives would cheat on them with a richer dude. Others have a genuine fear of losing a substantial part of their assets, in the event of a divorce. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by revontuli(f): 12:55am On Apr 18, 2018 |
KOPT33: This sounds like early 20's age group. You were dating the clingy, immature women. Someone with high education and professional career shouldn't act like that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Tjohnnay: 12:55am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString: Seconded |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by obowunmi(m): 1:10am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Most MEN are RAPISTS. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by nkay2020: 1:26am On Apr 18, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: Trust me, women are getting scared too 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 1:27am On Apr 18, 2018 |
revontuli: She was 29 and a few years older. Had been a lawyer for three years before we started dating. Try again. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by revontuli(f): 1:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
KOPT33: Holy hell, that's bad. Real bad. Maybe she was mentally ill? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by goat22: 1:33am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: In concurrence of the affirmative oblong cathedral, but the uttar pradesh communal intapugulatary sanitation fermentation is tantamount to the hooka assembly, honorarium indeed, nevertheless great sadiq. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 1:36am On Apr 18, 2018 |
revontuli: Nope, she was a woman in her natural element. How could you even say she was mentally ill!!! |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 1:38am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Evince:the Ex factor...always a problem in marriage. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by revontuli(f): 1:43am On Apr 18, 2018 |
KOPT33: That's not natural at all. That's childish and abnormal behavior. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by zinaunreal(m): 1:45am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Women are hungry , not ready to work so therefore they are looking for a man to devour 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by goat22: 1:46am On Apr 18, 2018 |
folake4u: Honor oh great priestess, the goat society bows to thee in adoration. You have been chosen as the priestess of sacrifice. Therefore you are mandated and authorised to drink the blood of two red sokoto goats. We hail thee oh great priestess of Justice. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by zinaunreal(m): 1:50am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: A man can never be 38 and single. If he is, he must have very genuine reasons and its mostly because of the present jezebels available With the condition women give concerning marriage and weddings, all my mates can never be married No pressure on men to marry, women are more desperate, it gets worse for you ladies yearly Good wives are hard to find, most women now are lady, dirty and extremely materialistic |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 1:51am On Apr 18, 2018 |
revontuli: Most women are like that to varying degrees. I have dated enough people so I can tell. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by talk2percy(m): 2:01am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Because marriages are speedily becoming guy's worst nightmares! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by bezimo(m): 2:15am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString: Bros.What a savage and blunt release.lol I won't disagree with your submission because they are very valid based on my experience. However...I would like you to know that there are a few exceptions..say 15-20% of our girls are not really like that..but for majority..It's true. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by bezimo(m): 2:23am On Apr 18, 2018 |
CSTR1003: They even leave together as couples..so why getting married... |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ImaIma1(f): 2:59am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString: How many did you actually date before this your conclusion? Is it from the little number you saw friends or family experiences that you have come to this conclusion? Are there Nigerian women that have remained married and are faithful? Do you have any family or friends who have been married to good Nigerian women? Lastly, are your sisters,female cousins,mum part of this your conclusion? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AreaFada2: 3:04am On Apr 18, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: The magic word 9ja women want to hear is marriage. Mention marriage to a girl with an investor (boyfriend) of 5 years and she will follow you. Just show her a comfortable apartment, a nice car, and put your bank statement with even just 1m in a place she will definitely see it and she's yours. Even if the investor has spent 1 million on her, without ever mentioning marriage she will leave him. The number of girls that suddenly marry, just because a guy suddenly popped up to marry them is alarming. The church is partly playing a role in this. Girls are encouraged to marry not minding if they are ready for it, have the right guy or have the right motive. Many girls have married complete strangers. Because that was the only one who showed up with the magic word. I have lost count of how many sm media friends doing slay queens a few years back who are now in bad marriages. Most of them suddenly announced engagement or marriage with much fanfare on sm. When you ask why they never mentioned they had a serious bf you hear things like "my brother e just happen o, we just met earlier this year o, my uncle abroad introduced us o, etc. Our women want to dump all their wahala on a man's head and they feel the best commitment is marriage. Even most working class girls. But marriage does not suddenly make anyone responsible these days. It comes from within. Never mind what many ladies try to argue here online. They are only being defensive. MOST aspire to marrying a well off guy. The sooner the better. We know this from real life. QED. 15 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ImaIma1(f): 3:14am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Grayjoy: As in!!! It makes them sound very unintelligent and unenlightened. Using their shallow choice of girlfriends or the girls in their "yard" or area to judge us all. Very small minded thinking 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by donkilluminati(m): 3:22am On Apr 18, 2018 |
I deliberately had a baby mama at 24, now i'm 30, and a free agent. plus my son is doing great and growing strong. it feels good this way, I might even end up not getting committed to any lady. it disgust me how marriage is been conducted in Nigeria with all the unnecessary expenditure as if the marriage will be happiness all through.. and also how the girls behaves on their wedding day as if they just won a government lottery. now i'm free and can nack any international pxssy i like without being questioned by anyone coz i aint married. the benefits are enormous fellas. marriage is overrated/old skool. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 3:52am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: As much as you are entitled to your opinion which I respect ...I must say that this is nothing more than myth . It's called " lonely old man " . I'm going to use this to talk to as many men as possible who are willing to listen . The gist of this is simple if you do not get married or choose to not get married on time you will be lonely . Sadly it's ironic that a good percent of elderly married are lonely despite being married . Why do you think a lot of men seek the company of young women . In my opinion this is no more than scare tactic conjured up by the society to pressure men into this concept of marriage . When the truth is that for men the older you are the more sexual market place value you have. This fact . As far as you know who you are and place priority on your goals and work on yourself ...the fruits of your labor will surely come . There are many misleading truths going on in society that young men are believing to their detriment . I've said it before and I will say it again .. . The only reason to get married is for legal convenience and to legitimize your children . Other than it is not worth it. I won't go into red pill vs blue pill and how this has lead to much endured disaster for naive men today . And if you insist on getting married ...honestly it's all good . However I insist that change your beta mindset and master the skills needed to survive in a relationship with a woman . As always I don't hate women . I love y'all . God created love ...we humans just misbehave with it . 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by guttentag(m): 3:57am On Apr 18, 2018 |
for me the reason why i ain't married yet, no Job to support family lifestyle Still hustling for a better future if God allows |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Eshence: 4:02am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Nigeria men are getting lazy dats y!! if our fore parents didn't get married on time will dey have u at there age? its so sad DAT a man of 45 is just thinking about marriage at dis time, at wat age will his first child be? lol the earlier the beta. u guys should beta get ur ass up and hustle hard .a man is to marry a woman not d other way round |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 4:05am On Apr 18, 2018 |
One more thing I see a lot of men here believe that foreign women are different from Nigerian women . This erroneous belief is akin to thinking that call of duty is different from Black ops . I just couldn't resist . Only gamers will understand . Go figure . But I digress . I'm not going to talk much so as not to derail this thread or digress from the subject matter. But gentlemen Google this " AWALT " ...I won't tell you what it means but I pray this starts you on a journey of discovery . I'm just tired of seeing young boys programmed into being apps ( men ) that have no idea of what is going on in society when it comes to interpersonal relationships . No one asks why ? You just do ...do ...and say " I do " . 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 4:17am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: There is nothing like a "good wife"...I rather subscribe to the phrase "manageable wife" 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by theDEVILisHERE: 4:23am On Apr 18, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: 1. Money 2. Current character of ladies |
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