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10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Oluwaphemmie(m): 9:44pm On Apr 25, 2018
10 ways to get him to propose to you - without appearing desperate

1. Hang out with married friends
Get him to keep company with his married friends. Spending time with a married couple - especially those within his age bracket - can make him lose whatever fears or worries he harbors about marriage. Hopefully, this will inspire him to make a long-term commitment to you.

2. Make him aware that you have options
Without being too direct, make him understand that there are other options available to you. That is, you're still very much "in the market". Sometimes, consciously flirt with other men in his presence. Tread softly though - so that you don't create insecurities in him.

3. Become indispensable
Discover ways to make him feel he can't live the rest of his life without you. Present yourself as a complete package: His confidante, his best friend, his cook, his adviser, his sex partner, etc. Make every moment you spend with him fun.

4. Don't scare him with a fairytale wedding plans
The financial burden that comes with marriage ceremonies is chiefly the reason why most men delay the decision to advance their relationship with their women.
Hinting him that you expect a diamond-studded wedding ring, or that you plan to have your wedding reception at the grandest venue in town - could be a huge disservice to your hope of settling down with him soon.

5. Pull back, sometimes
Sometimes, you might need to stay away. Let him feel your absence in order for him to cherish your presence. Accord him some space. Men, typically, need space in order to think up a decision.

6. Get his mom involved
Endear yourself to his mum. Let her do the heavy lifting for you.

7. Make him see you as an asset
Share your dreams and pursuits with him. Set goals. Take initiatives. Let him see that you're an asset - and not a liability.

8. Improve your outlook
Never quit the habit of maintaining an attractive appearance. Never allow the outlook that got his attention to decline. Instead, keep upgrading.

9. Have a sincere conversation with him
Talk to him about your future, and how you envision it with him in it. Don't dwell too long on it. Avoid emphasis on specific dates. And don't present it as an ultimatum.

10. Make him feel adequate
Some men delay the decision to propose to their girlfriends due to a feeling of inadequacies. Make him feel comfortable. Express how you desire nothing more from him. Make him feel cool with himself.
Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Headlesschicken(m): 10:08pm On Apr 25, 2018
undecided Just to get married?sounds too desperate,just be yuhself....

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Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Oluwaphemmie(m): 10:16pm On Apr 25, 2018
Headlesschicken:
undecided Just to get married?sounds too desperate,just be yuhself....

That's it!
lesson to all Female Folks out there.
Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Nobody: 10:17pm On Apr 25, 2018
Hehehehehehe all dis won't work. Jst gv him money and see him propose to u sharply. Many ppl want to get married bt are afraid of having a family because of finance
Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Nobody: 1:36am On Apr 26, 2018
Even when you involve his Ancestor, Some go still ''Hit and Run''
Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Blackfire(m): 9:45am On Apr 26, 2018
Checking the list if my current lady is applying this moves....
Re: 10 Ways To Get Him To Propose To You - Without Appearing DESPERATE! by Kingsunnyaleke: 10:39am On Apr 26, 2018
Lady's u people have seeing it all it is now left for u

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