xy:

Pls, Iam really in love with my closest friend sister and i have good intentions for her, the lady in question also likes me however, i don't know how my friend will see it. But the guy knows iam a good guy. What are your views, do i go forward or withdraw? pls your good suggestions will be greatly welcome.

xy:

Pls, Iam really in love with my closest friend sister and i have good intentions for her, the lady in question also likes me however, i don't know how my friend will see it. But the guy knows iam a good guy. What are your views, do i go forward or withdraw? pls your good suggestions will be greatly welcome.

Nenum:

@POSTER- What do you want form her, do u wanna Date her, have intimacy with her or marry her.
i think you have to decide from the onset what you want with her on the long run.

i had 2 of my very close Friend's go after my sister when she was younger, as i told them then,
that if they just wanna use her because they say she set then, dey don't value mi friendship.

fine the girl fine, but i think sacrificing whatever you feel for your close friend's sister for his friendship, is not a bad idea (rem that in the 1st place you started having dis "feelings" because of your friendship with her brother)

My brother your freaky feeling for the chick is not worth breaking a friendhip (look at it as making a sacrifice for your friend)

~Sauron~ link=topic=451051.msg6087318#msg6087318 date=1274723312:

U have to go forward - U have come this far to express your self to NLers.
There's no going back.
Come baq to us in a fortnight and tell us wetin your eyes see.

xy:

I truely Love the girl and really will never think of doing her bad because of my friendship with her brother. The brother is like my twin, we are very close. I ve also used style to ask him if his friend wants to date and marry his sister, will he allow it and he said as far his friend is anice guy,that he will certainly accept. Meanwhile, i know the girl and i like each other, and he knows iam a nice guy, should i open up and tell my guy? I never pray to loose his friendship either, i don't know how he will feel about it;his closest friend asking his sister out though the sister has graduated and a big girl too

xy:

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I truely Love the girl and really will never think of doing her bad because of my friendship with her brother. The brother is like my twin, we are very close. I ve also used style to ask him if his friend wants to date and marry his sister, will he allow it and he said as far his friend is anice guy,that he will certainly accept. Meanwhile, i know the girl and i like each other, and he knows iam a nice guy, should i open up and tell my guy? I never pray to loose his friendship either, i don't know how he will feel about it;his closest friend asking his sister out though the sister has graduated and a big girl too

Faher:

It's not a good move. It's a lose-lose situation because relationship problems are a must.

So whether you break up later or you get married, you'll always have a problem with your friend because of his sister.

I have a friend with beautiful sisters but I decided to search far and wide to date other girls than allow my friendship end.

Besides, you can always love someone else besides his sister, abi?