BiafranBushBoy:
Lol

At this stage of my life, I visit expensive clubs to know if I can meet like one or two rich people that will invest into my idea.

and guess what...

After I collect their number, I call them the next day.

When I make the money and visit a club with my Venza, the girls will collect my number and do all these you have written.

Life is simple if you have a plan and format.

I'll take my leave now!

SoapQueen:
[b]

LordKO:
You're simply encouraging mind games, which is for small-minded people. Personally, I see vulnerability - not neither pretence nor obsession - as the true test of worthiness. Unassumingness is the attribute of worthiness.

Lazyreporta:
Okay, so now you have gone out and collected phone numbers. The next question is: When do you call her? Most guys, predictably, when they get a number on a Friday night, they will call the girl the next day. Some will even call that night. All this tells a woman is that you are needy. It displays your insecurities in big, bold, neon letters. It tells her you are not centered, you are not confident, and that you haven’t even gone out on your first date with her yet, and you already can’t live without her.

All women have been with guys like that, and it will turn her off to the point where she is probably not going to even bother to call you back. She may even talk to you if you manage to get her on the phone, but she will never go out with you. She perceives you as being needy, and for her, that is a big turn off.

Wait to call a woman for the first date if you did not set it up when you first met her. Don’t call her the very next day. By doing this, you are already building anticipation, and setting yourself apart from all the guys that did call her right away. If I meet a woman on a weekend, like a Friday or a Saturday night, then I might wait to call her until Tuesday or Wednesday to ask her out for the following week.

You should be busy anyway. Act as if you are busy as hell, even if you are not. Act like a guy whose dance card is already pretty full.
If she does have a high level of attraction for you to start with, and you don’t call her that night or the very next day like most guys predictably do, it’s going to cause her attraction level to go up. Let’s say she gave her number out to ten guys. If nine of them called the next day to ask her out, and you didn’t, she is going to wonder: I wonder why that guy didn’t call. I know I’m beautiful. I’ve got these nine other guys calling. What’s the deal with that? You are making her wonder about you. When she’s wondering about you, it is having a positive effect on her level of attraction. Remember, it’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

You are being a mystery. You are being different. That is what all women are dying for. They are dying for a guy that is not needy, one that is not going to be jumping all over a chance to go out with them like they’re the last woman on the planet, someone that they can pitch and catch with, someone that’s strong, and someone that they can’t have their way with. This is kind of what the bad boys do. What is the draw of a Brad Pitt, or any actor that gets up on stage all the time? What is it that draws women to guys like that? Masculine energy is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, etc.

It is power. It is confidence. It is danger. It is leadership. It is mystery. It is the feeling: I don’t think I could ever get my way with that guy, and that makes me feel safe. This guy could protect me. Women want a strong, centered guy.

A good rule of thumb on when to call a woman is this: If you met her on a Friday or Saturday, call her on a Tuesday or Wednesday and set up a date for the following week. By the time you actually go out, it may have been a week and a half. If you met her on a Sunday through Thursday, call the following Monday or Tuesday, and ask her: When are you free to meet up for a drink? The goal is to leave days where she is going to be wondering about you, anticipating your call, and raising her level of attraction. This also gives her the opportunity to reach out to you first and start pursuing you. And when women start pursuing you, they’re not blowing you off, ghosting you or dumping you.


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Yewandequeen:
Yinmu

Be deceiving ur selves, nothing like timing. If u like her go for her not all these statistics and physics you all do abt relationship. If it won't work it won't no rules or logic about relationships.

That's how a male friend of mine too told me yesterday when I saw him that" he purposely drifted away hoping I would Yearn for him but his tactics didn't work" I laugh scatter I was like see you me that get plenty things in my head.

baum1:


Didn't want to engage this discuss, but your comment is interesting.

All I can say is that that male friend of yours has nothing you really need. You may debate this, but yes, that's true. You don't really need anything he has, and he learnt it in a harsh way.

I know ladies very well and I know that they have nothing to do with you when you have nothing to offer them; they need nothing from you.

As I said, you may try to debate this, but the empirical evidence is rife in real life.

johnmba:
Will read this when i want to sleep

Ahhhh

Lazy Nigeria Yoot

Lazyreporta:
Okay, so now you have gone out and collected phone numbers. The next question is: When do you call her? Most guys, predictably, when they get a number on a Friday night, they will call the girl the next day. Some will even call that night. All this tells a woman is that you are needy. It displays your insecurities in big, bold, neon letters. It tells her you are not centered, you are not confident, and that you haven’t even gone out on your first date with her yet, and you already can’t live without her.

All women have been with guys like that, and it will turn her off to the point where she is probably not going to even bother to call you back. She may even talk to you if you manage to get her on the phone, but she will never go out with you. She perceives you as being needy, and for her, that is a big turn off.

Wait to call a woman for the first date if you did not set it up when you first met her. Don’t call her the very next day. By doing this, you are already building anticipation, and setting yourself apart from all the guys that did call her right away. If I meet a woman on a weekend, like a Friday or a Saturday night, then I might wait to call her until Tuesday or Wednesday to ask her out for the following week.

You should be busy anyway. Act as if you are busy as hell, even if you are not. Act like a guy whose dance card is already pretty full.
If she does have a high level of attraction for you to start with, and you don’t call her that night or the very next day like most guys predictably do, it’s going to cause her attraction level to go up. Let’s say she gave her number out to ten guys. If nine of them called the next day to ask her out, and you didn’t, she is going to wonder: I wonder why that guy didn’t call. I know I’m beautiful. I’ve got these nine other guys calling. What’s the deal with that? You are making her wonder about you. When she’s wondering about you, it is having a positive effect on her level of attraction. Remember, it’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

You are being a mystery. You are being different. That is what all women are dying for. They are dying for a guy that is not needy, one that is not going to be jumping all over a chance to go out with them like they’re the last woman on the planet, someone that they can pitch and catch with, someone that’s strong, and someone that they can’t have their way with. This is kind of what the bad boys do. What is the draw of a Brad Pitt, or any actor that gets up on stage all the time? What is it that draws women to guys like that? Masculine energy is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, etc.

It is power. It is confidence. It is danger. It is leadership. It is mystery. It is the feeling: I don’t think I could ever get my way with that guy, and that makes me feel safe. This guy could protect me. Women want a strong, centered guy.

A good rule of thumb on when to call a woman is this: If you met her on a Friday or Saturday, call her on a Tuesday or Wednesday and set up a date for the following week. By the time you actually go out, it may have been a week and a half. If you met her on a Sunday through Thursday, call the following Monday or Tuesday, and ask her: When are you free to meet up for a drink? The goal is to leave days where she is going to be wondering about you, anticipating your call, and raising her level of attraction. This also gives her the opportunity to reach out to you first and start pursuing you. And when women start pursuing you, they’re not blowing you off, ghosting you or dumping you.


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Yewandequeen:


On the contrary he did had lots to offer but then ain't a fan of mind games

Not all ladies are after what you can offer and I know ure referring to either sex, money or material stuff, some just like you for being you. And you will see that these same set of ladies got guys that are worth more than the said dude. It sometimes doesn't have to do with what you have to offer.

baum1:


I expected your argument.

Sorry, I'm not referring to sex, money and material stuff.

I'm not one of such guys.

Interesting, I set you a trap and you got caught in it. Lol.

As I'm anonymous, let me boast small. Many of the things that some solid guys offer are not directly linked to money or all those stuff you listed. Lol. Some of us have gotten to a level that we deal with ladies with all these material things as you called..But we still have a lot to offer them. Some ladies are ambitious in a great way and will roll with anyone who will guide them. These are sometimes rich ladies, i.e. baba billionaire or millionaire. See, aunty, I've seen.

But I agree that many guys only have money and material stuff etc to offer. When such jam rich girls, there has to be something else. At least, that where few guys have an edge - because they have other non-monetary stuff and many ambitious ladies are interested in this..Or how do we explain why I've female friends and mentees who are very well off. Lol.

Thank God no one knows me, so I can boast. In real life, you won't hear me mouth this.haha

Make I waka

Dutchey:
timing or not, ladies are so funny... thats how i took a lady out d 1st day we met, i was now trying to do timing, i didn't call her for like 5days. the day i called her... me- hi, its Josh being a while she said which Josh? I was like are you for real after taking you and your friend out, you are asking which Josh?

Yewandequeen:


Lol @trap

@bolded - that was why him and I became friends but then he was catching feeling but for me I don't mix business n pleasure but he real3wanted to pursue the feelingand that's a no non for me.

Yea you're right with the second paragraph. Some dudes sure have more to offer than the material things but then there are just few of them. I for one choose my male friends based on intellectual, source for advice from and other moral values.