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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by SyberKate(f): 6:03am On May 23, 2018
11. Tell grandma said you shouldn't have anything with them
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by 1930revival(m): 6:03am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
lol...
it's on record that I have never woo a lady to get the "No" answer, because I don't just walk up to random ladies to start a pick up line or so.

if I like a lady, all I do is form familiarity, it's takes weeks or even month, I may not even ask for your number until am sure u won't say "NO" I built all this things just cos
It depends where you reside....U jam prospective wife on the way in Lagos, and get familiar with her at the bustop,,how u wan take reach her L8a?? Na for coven ni??

I can't stop a girl on the road, never, if she nags or yell at me, I may go mad for days. I can lift a lady on the road and within me right inside my car I know if I ask of her number she will gladly give me, infact she will be expecting me to say " can I have your digit" but never, I just keep her in suspense for a long time so when I give out my normal pick up line.. the answer is "hmmmmm" and when a lady tells u this, bros u are already close to Hmmmm...

if u know u know.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by CriticMaestro: 6:07am On May 23, 2018
Op d women in my area are very arrogant, especially if you don't have money

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Viruscod3d: 6:18am On May 23, 2018
As for me i avoid all those small small girls especially the ones that live with their parents, our reasoning no dey align. I like matured and experienced ladies 26 and above. Its very easy to align with them. I dont need all these lectures, i understand matured girls very well but for the immatured ones i just do all i can to straff and dump them, when konji calls again, i do again.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by emperorblog(m): 6:21am On May 23, 2018
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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Gkemz: 6:24am On May 23, 2018
Op you just hit the hammer on the nail. Though sometimes these rules may not apply to all ladies due to one's level of exposure. Secondly, any lady who likes you can easily yield to your advances.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Fitnessman(m): 6:25am On May 23, 2018
Nice write up
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by skayT: 6:26am On May 23, 2018
DonPiiko:
Women are not worth disturbing ourselves about, just make money and watch them fall over you. If I was serious and posted on my facebook that I need a wife, my inbox will be blown up. Freedom is priceless, be sure that you are emotionally and financially stable before you start worrying your head. There is a woman for every man
You deserve an award for the best comment ever!

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by purples25(f): 6:27am On May 23, 2018
Quality20:
The one I kind of detest is to see men walking along d road pestering ladies who might not even be responding to them. Some even pick up other people's bike or car and start looking around for any lady ,calling and whistling names like suzan , zainab etc, just because they have some change in their pockets and are ready to defile and label some ladies with d word slot

Don't mind them.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by ngwababe(f): 6:30am On May 23, 2018
Jeezuzpick:
Chai!

Ladies have brain too, you know.

If you walk up to a girl first time you meet her, start toasting her and she says yes, she most likely needs money, sex or just needs a good time in any other way. You'll find out soon enough, once she starts asking for stuff.

A guy can't just pounce on a sensible girl and expect her to roll over just like that. They get attracted to guys for a lot of different reasons.

A girl has a greater chance of really falling for a guy when he has all the attributes she secretly desires (that's why they cheat on their BFs, BTW, if the BF just has money to offer and the other guy is everything they want in a guy) and they like to study a guy. That's why girls often fall for a guy without him asking her out.

I have had situations where girls confided in my friends that they liked me but didn't know what to do about it (I was quite unapproachable when I was single, I'd had my heart shattered) and even when I was told, I did nothing because I was not interested at that point.

Its better to let a girl look at who you really are and like you for it than to pester her and give her money.

If you find that girls aren't attracted to you without your trying to buy them, you need to work on yourself.
kiss
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Angelawhite(m): 6:34am On May 23, 2018
I don't know how to walk to a lady and preach to them... It's kinda embarrassing. If I like a woman, there are many ways to tell her without sounding robotic and desperate.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Nobody: 6:40am On May 23, 2018
There's a woman for every man.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Hector09(m): 6:40am On May 23, 2018
Its better for a girl to luv u before making ur intention known to her, i hate someone forcing his or herself on me

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Ramanto(m): 6:41am On May 23, 2018
Not pride, i rarely ask for girls' numbers. I rather give them mine, and ask them to call. And if she doesn't call, i know she's not into me, and i just forget about her.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by sykeng(m): 6:45am On May 23, 2018
Baba as for me I don't have that time anymore to be chasing girl up and down,at times if I even think about the hurdles I ll pass through in asking a call out. My time, money etc, I ll just let go. because if God can even make night to become day, hustlers go happy oooo, for now since we still have day and night, no time for bullshit. make the girls them pack well.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by theapeman4: 6:47am On May 23, 2018
Lazyreporta:
When you first meet a woman, one of the things she might say is: I’m not looking for a relationship. One of the reasons a woman says this is that a lot of guys come on so heavy when they meet her. They start talking about girlfriends. They start talking about dating and all this other stuff, and she starts thinking: This guy is needy. This guy has no confidence and is weak. Women come up with generic responses to these situations, because most guys will not take no for an answer. The women will reject them, because they start to feel like they will lose their freedom if they start dating them.

Another thing about women that you have to understand is that they are never going to say: I don’t like you. I am not attracted to you, and I wouldn’t go out with you if you were the last man on earth. Very few women are blunt enough to respond to a man’s advances in this way. The reason most women will not directly tell you they are not interested in you is because men have pretty much made them that way.

When a man has met a woman and is really into her, he will ask for her phone number. If she is not into him, she could say: I’m sorry, but I’m not interested. Too many times, the typical man’s response is something along the lines of: What do you mean you’re not interested? If she replies: I’m just not interested. He will often push the issue: What do you mean? Are you saying you don’t like me? At this point she is getting uncomfortable, and she tries to explain: Well, you’re just not the type of guy I would normally date. He, in turn, starts to become indignant about it: What does that mean? I’m not good enough for you? I’m not good looking enough for you?

How do you ever get anybody to go out with you if you have that kind of attitude? It’s pretty arrogant and weak, don’t you think? Every woman has met a guy that has acted that way in her life. The guys won’t take “no” for an answer, so she, indirectly, is hoping that he will get the hint and understand the “secret language” that she is speaking to him. Women are emotional beings and simply don’t want to hurt your feelings or create an awkward moment. Instead, she uses a roundabout way of saying: I’m really not interested. Women will even sometimes give you their number, because they do not want to lie to you, but they also want to avoid the typical man’s confrontational behavior. They know that later, through voice mail, they can just screen you out, and hopefully, you will get the hint and go away.

If they think you may be a real nuisance, they may even give you a wrong number. That brings another point to mind: When a woman gives you a number, don’t stand there and call it to see if it is a legitimate number. Some guys will actually do this. It is so needy and insecure. What it says to her is: I really don’t think I am good enough to take you out, and I don’t really think you are interested in me. I want to make sure, right in front of you, that you are not lying to me. Right away, you are telling her that you don’t even trust her. Just confidently text yours to her as you’re standing there so she has it, and tell her you are doing it.

At that point, you are done, even if she gave you a real number to begin with. You just lowered her attraction level, and it may have been high to start with. When you eventually do call her, you are going to find out whether she likes you or not. After all, who cares? You don’t want to waste your time and energy by going out and getting emotionally hung up on a woman that has no interest in you. You only want to spend your time with a woman that has a high attraction level, because she will make it easy to date her, and she will be a lot more fun when you do. You will not have to work so hard.

Source: Facebook
all this is jargons.


Just make money and those black apes will start running after you undecided


Women are worthless piece of shiit.

I learn this simple truth in a hard way.

A hole is were you throw a dustbin! Don't put your diick on a dustbin and expect a good result.



#thewiseape

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by babatee90(m): 6:53am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
lol...
it's on record that I have never woo a lady to get the "No" answer, because I don't just walk up to random ladies to start a pick up line or so.

if I like a lady, all I do is form familiarity, it's takes weeks or even month, I may not even ask for your number until am sure u won't say "NO" I built all this things just cos of my ego,

I can't stop a girl on the road, never, if she nags or yell at me, I may go mad for days. I can lift a lady on the road and within me right inside my car I know if I ask of her number she will gladly give me, infact she will be expecting me to say " can I have your digit" but never, I just keep her in suspense for a long time so when I give out my normal pick up line.. the answer is "hmmmmm" and when a lady tells u this, bros u are already close to Hmmmm...

if u know u know.

Hmm oshey bobo! My minister on women affairs
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by msylva2147(m): 6:53am On May 23, 2018
khalhokage:
That thing where guys call a number immediately is so stupid and cringy, I mean, if she gave you a wrong number doesn't that tell you that she's not interested, she does not want you to call her, why will you want to force yourself into someone elses life?

sometimes a lady may give you a wrong number but end up looking for you and apologising to you for giving you wrong number. I had a lady who gave me a wrong number and a wrong name at the same time but end up looking for me. She first claimed that her phone was off so I gave her my number after which I tried calling but it was not going through, so I fashy it, just for her to call and I was was like who is on the line and she now called her real name forgetting that she gave me a wrong name when I said sorry I don't remember anyone with such name and started explaining who she is and how we met. But today she can't stay for a day without hearing from me and time to time she comes around to have some fun with me.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Pat081: 6:54am On May 23, 2018
Lazyreporta:


Oga, no be money thread be this...

Everyone knows man must make money, ok?

Na romance section be this
u say ur mind n d guy do d same wc I like because is true
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Afec1000givers: 6:58am On May 23, 2018
my friend you think you know women? you are talking as if women think alike. Oga je bata ego and see how u'll start selecting until you get ur choice.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by djon78(m): 6:59am On May 23, 2018
All the time woman this, woman that

There is a woman for every man out there. Even barrow pushers have wife.

Don't be desperate. Take it easy.

God is good

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Paddy247: 7:00am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
lol...
it's on record that I have never woo a lady to get the "No" answer, because I don't just walk up to random ladies to start a pick up line or so.

if I like a lady, all I do is form familiarity, it's takes weeks or even month, I may not even ask for your number until am sure u won't say "NO" I built all this things just cos of my ego,

I can't stop a girl on the road, never, if she nags or yell at me, I may go mad for days. I can lift a lady on the road and within me right inside my car I know if I ask of her number she will gladly give me, infact she will be expecting me to say " can I have your digit" but never, I just keep her in suspense for a long time so when I give out my normal pick up line.. the answer is "hmmmmm" and when a lady tells u this, bros u are already close to Hmmmm...

if u know u know.


NICE...
And what is this ur normal pick up line?
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Leo10000(m): 7:03am On May 23, 2018
Jeezuzpick:
Chai!

Ladies have brain too, you know.

If you walk up to a girl first time you meet her, start toasting her and she says yes, she most likely needs money, sex or just needs a good time in any other way. You'll find out soon enough, once she starts asking for stuff.

A guy can't just pounce on a sensible girl and expect her to roll over just like that. They get attracted to guys for a lot of different reasons.

A girl has a greater chance of really falling for a guy when he has all the attributes she secretly desires (that's why they cheat on their BFs, BTW, if the BF just has money to offer and the other guy is everything they want in a guy) and they like to study a guy. That's why girls often fall for a guy without him asking her out.

I have had situations where girls confided in my friends that they liked me but didn't know what to do about it (I was quite unapproachable when I was single, I'd had my heart shattered) and even when I was told, I did nothing because I was not interested at that point.

Its better to let a girl look at who you really are and like you for it than to pester her and give her money.

If you find that girls aren't attracted to you without your trying to buy them, you need to work on yourself.

I love this,in fact this is my approach to to life,ladies and any new fellow i just meet,I practice this more than often and its a good thing u know,it helps shuffle away the non genuine ones but in the long run and in some occasions,not everyone we like or attracted to has enough opportunity to come close to us to even know the kind of real substance we ar made of,some u meet at just a meeting,so sometimes u need to make some first step as a guy.. so its now left for d lady or whoever u choose meeting to decide knowing u before making conclusions,while many ladies on d other hand has d mindset of any guy who approaches me wants d kitty kat even that may not b d case sometimes making all d stuff like its a do or die affair
my one cent....
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by voadewumi: 7:04am On May 23, 2018
All this kain article dey always shock me... They will give us ten commandments, avracadavra of relationship... Life is not stereotypical, the fact is that; familiarise yourself first, it may take weeks or a month, within that period u will find out if she is unto you... No two women can be totally the same.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Liqoriz: 7:06am On May 23, 2018
Jeezuzpick:
Chai!

Ladies have brain too, you know.

If you walk up to a girl first time you meet her, start toasting her and she says yes, she most likely needs money, sex or just needs a good time in any other way. You'll find out soon enough, once she starts asking for stuff.

A guy can't just pounce on a sensible girl and expect her to roll over just like that. They get attracted to guys for a lot of different reasons.

A girl has a greater chance of really falling for a guy when he has all the attributes she secretly desires (that's why they cheat on their BFs, BTW, if the BF just has money to offer and the other guy is everything they want in a guy) and they like to study a guy. That's why girls often fall for a guy without him asking her out.

I have had situations where girls confided in my friends that they liked me but didn't know what to do about it (I was quite unap
proachable when I was single, I'd had my heart shattered) and even when I was told, I did nothing because I was not interested at that point.

Its better to let a girl look at who you really are and like you for it than to pester her and give her money.

If you find that girls aren't attracted to you without your trying to buy them, you need to work on yourself.
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guy u're totally on point jare... especially dt last paragraph
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by Malawian(m): 7:07am On May 23, 2018
utenwuson:
lol...
it's on record that I have never woo a lady to get the "No" answer, because I don't just walk up to random ladies to start a pick up line or so.

if I like a lady, all I do is form familiarity, it's takes weeks or even month, I may not even ask for your number until am sure u won't say "NO" I built all this things just cos of my ego,

I can't stop a girl on the road, never, if she nags or yell at me, I may go mad for days. I can lift a lady on the road and within me right inside my car I know if I ask of her number she will gladly give me, infact she will be expecting me to say " can I have your digit" but never, I just keep her in suspense for a long time so when I give out my normal pick up line.. the answer is "hmmmmm" and when a lady tells u this, bros u are already close to Hmmmm...

if u know u know.
But Bros, I don hear hmmmm several times o. What happen?
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by nelsonebby(m): 7:09am On May 23, 2018
Davico:

I don't understand the whole write up angry
Then read slowly
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by CSTR1003: 7:13am On May 23, 2018
Early morning, na girl matter una dey discuss?

The formula to get a woman is constant.

Comfortable life, good dressing, tolerable manners and a measure of class.

That is all

I have a friend that different matured women he doesn't even know before, visit him in the office to woo him on an almost weekly basis.
He is tired of free sex.

In fact, he tells his secretary to send away any woman looking for him and cannot state any official reason for the visit.


He is the general manager of a mere petrol station.

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by lexy2014: 7:14am On May 23, 2018
Lazyreporta:
When you first meet a woman, one of the things she might say is: I’m not looking for a relationship. One of the reasons a woman says this is that a lot of guys come on so heavy when they meet her. They start talking about girlfriends. They start talking about dating and all this other stuff, and she starts thinking: This guy is needy. This guy has no confidence and is weak. Women come up with generic responses to these situations, because most guys will not take no for an answer. The women will reject them, because they start to feel like they will lose their freedom if they start dating them.

Another thing about women that you have to understand is that they are never going to say: I don’t like you. I am not attracted to you, and I wouldn’t go out with you if you were the last man on earth. Very few women are blunt enough to respond to a man’s advances in this way. The reason most women will not directly tell you they are not interested in you is because men have pretty much made them that way.

When a man has met a woman and is really into her, he will ask for her phone number. If she is not into him, she could say: I’m sorry, but I’m not interested. Too many times, the typical man’s response is something along the lines of: What do you mean you’re not interested? If she replies: I’m just not interested. He will often push the issue: What do you mean? Are you saying you don’t like me? At this point she is getting uncomfortable, and she tries to explain: Well, you’re just not the type of guy I would normally date. He, in turn, starts to become indignant about it: What does that mean? I’m not good enough for you? I’m not good looking enough for you?

How do you ever get anybody to go out with you if you have that kind of attitude? It’s pretty arrogant and weak, don’t you think? Every woman has met a guy that has acted that way in her life. The guys won’t take “no” for an answer, so she, indirectly, is hoping that he will get the hint and understand the “secret language” that she is speaking to him. Women are emotional beings and simply don’t want to hurt your feelings or create an awkward moment. Instead, she uses a roundabout way of saying: I’m really not interested. Women will even sometimes give you their number, because they do not want to lie to you, but they also want to avoid the typical man’s confrontational behavior. They know that later, through voice mail, they can just screen you out, and hopefully, you will get the hint and go away.

If they think you may be a real nuisance, they may even give you a wrong number. That brings another point to mind: When a woman gives you a number, don’t stand there and call it to see if it is a legitimate number. Some guys will actually do this. It is so needy and insecure. What it says to her is: I really don’t think I am good enough to take you out, and I don’t really think you are interested in me. I want to make sure, right in front of you, that you are not lying to me. Right away, you are telling her that you don’t even trust her. Just confidently text yours to her as you’re standing there so she has it, and tell her you are doing it.

At that point, you are done, even if she gave you a real number to begin with. You just lowered her attraction level, and it may have been high to start with. When you eventually do call her, you are going to find out whether she likes you or not. After all, who cares? You don’t want to waste your time and energy by going out and getting emotionally hung up on a woman that has no interest in you. You only want to spend your time with a woman that has a high attraction level, because she will make it easy to date her, and she will be a lot more fun when you do. You will not have to work so hard.

Source: Facebook
all this grammar cos of woman

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by anselm791(m): 7:28am On May 23, 2018
Davico:
I don't understand the whole write up angry
handling rejection.
Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by EmmyDJourno: 7:29am On May 23, 2018
Look confident, sound successful not loud, and cut all the BS short and ask for the number once, promising to talk better at a hangout later at any place of her choice

If she refuses, just get down to a conversation, enjoy yourself and walk away

She would want you, and if there's a chance you see her again she would open up more

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Re: The Many Shades Of "No" by BdorianGray(m): 7:42am On May 23, 2018
Well, no matter the shade or color of the NO! I no mind. No, fit dey crush Ego for beginning but na to keep on.. No, can't kill. Move on to the next.

Well, its become easier for me cos I dey first meet and collect number for spirit realm then confirm am for 3D world.. grin That one dey sure pass..

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