khiaa:


Yeah, maybe that's it, you are just a mamas boy and you need time to grow up.

If putting my mother FIRST makes me a Mama's boy, then I, Tonye is a PROUD MAMA'S BOY. I shall remain Mama's boy till death...

At least I am not "Wife's wrapper".

iamJ:
wife first, your mother has ur father, she has enjoyed your father and has lived her life as someone priority, don't allow her to make ur wife frustrated, ur wife is the mother of your home, beta be devoted to her


An old man told me this, if your wife should prioritize her father over u, how will u feel? Make una dey get sense, na 2018 be this

You must have observed that 95% of male respondents disagree with you? This shows how we view this subject and tells of our consensus.

Good luck to you with your philosophy of putting your wife ahead of your mother...

As for me and most men (95% men), our mothers come FIRST!!!

In fact, our wives MUST be loyal to our mothers, they must show greater loyalty to our mothers than they show us, while we'll love and care for them.

khiaa:


I'm talking about mentally grown/matured.

thats exactly what am talking about too.

TonyeBarcanista:

If putting my mother FIRST makes me a Mama's boy, then I, Tonye is a PROUD MAMA'S BOY. I shall remain Mama's boy till death...

At least I am not "Wife's wrapper".

Hopefully, you mature with age.

Cuteamigo1:
thats exactly what am talking about too.

Don't worry, with time/age you'll mature, hopefully.

khiaa:

Don't worry, with time/age you'll mature, hopefully.

wish you the same.

khiaa:


Hopefully, you mature with age.

If maturity will make my loyalty to my mom less than my wife, then I choose NEVER to be matured for life.

TonyeBarcanista:

If maturity will make my loyalty to my mom less than my wife, then I choose NEVER to be matured for life.

The topic isn't about loyalty but ownership. By the way, with that attitude, never get married just spend the rest of your life with your mommy, your daddy's woman not yours.

The mom and wife nothing serious about this Na

khiaa:


The topic isn't about loyalty but ownership. By the way, with that attitude, never get married just spend the rest of your life with your mommy, your daddy's woman not yours.

My Mother is my Daddy's woman and MY MOTHER (not woman). I am her son for life and she owns me...

I value family and will marry but the philosophy will be duly understood by my wife even before marriage. If she isn't in tune, "then she should park one side"

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My Mother is my Daddy's woman and MY MOTHER (not woman). I am her son for life and she owns me...

I value family and will marry but the philosophy will be duly understood by my wife even before marriage. [b]If she isn't in tune, "then she should [/b[b]]park one side"[/[/b]quote]

So is ok with you if your wife has that same attitude about her father and disregards everything you say in lieu of what her father says? As far as the bolded like I said, don't get married because you will never understand the concept of marriage, in marriage your spouse comes first. Remember your vows, FORSAKING ALL OTHERS!!!!