Good day Nairalanders, I don't know whether to say that i have a medical condition or not, it's really fustrating not to live a normal life..
Ever since i was a teenager, i've never had any attraction for girls my age, there has always been this weird attraction i had for older women.. Now i'm 21, it has become even worse, i unconciously friendzone any young girl i come across and will almost immediately start flirting any time i start a convo with an older woman...
Here's the real problem, every lady that's older than i am is either already married or wants to get married soon... I'm just really tired of the whole thing....
i'm now even hearing rumours that i'm gay since cute guys that avoid relationships are almost always gay, but that's not the case. I don't just have feeling for younger women.... I don't even know what i'm planning to achieve from posting this, whether it's advice or support, or maybe i just need some kind of therapist or medical doctor to tell me something good, or is it that i need someone who goes through this struggle as i do to talk about it.. Thanks for reading.

You are normal bro.

Nothing wrong loving an older woman.

Well, I don't see anything wrong with your feelings. Though, this isn't the first time I'm hearing this Sha.

It is normal to be attracted to older women.

It is abnormal to be attracted ONLY to older women.

Maybe you're an old man trapped in a guy's body or maybe you skipped some reincarnation process in your haste to come back or maybe you're destined to eat what is meant for elders but the good news however is that nothing is wrong with you.

Tallesty1:
Maybe you're an old man trapped in a guy's body or maybe you skipped some reincarnation process in your haste to come back or maybe you're destined to eat what is meant for elders but the good news however is that nothing is wrong with you.

HungerBAD:
You are normal bro.
Nothing wrong loving an older woman.

Thanks bro

respect80:
Well, I don't see anything wrong with your feelings. Though, this isn't the first time I'm hearing this Sha.

Okay

Bluezy13:
It is normal to be attracted to older women.


It is abnormal to be attracted ONLY to older women.

So what do i do?

Tallesty1:
Maybe you're an old man trapped in a guy's body or maybe you skipped some reincarnation process in your haste to come back or maybe you're destined to eat what is meant for elders but the good news however is that nothing is wrong with you.

Clown

Tallesty1:
Maybe you're an old man trapped in a guy's body or maybe you skipped some reincarnation process in your haste to come back or maybe you're destined to eat what is meant for elders but the good news however is that nothing is wrong with you.

Me i'm as confused as hell oo

LeHMaR:
So what do i do?

So do what I do.

Are you only attracted to rich, good-looking and educated older ladies?

Or even my old aunty in Obosi , would attract you too?

pocohantas:
Are you only attracted to rich, good-looking and educated older ladies?

Or even my old aunty in Obosi , would attract you too?

yes

Bluezy13:

So do what I do.

What do you do?

pocohantas:
Are you only attracted to rich, good-looking and educated older ladies?

Or even my old aunty in Obosi , would attract you too?

I fail to see the humour in my post..

pocohantas:
Are you only attracted to rich, good-looking and educated older ladies?

Or even my old aunty in Obosi , would attract you too?

You like abs. Will you go for a bricklayer?

LeHMaR:

What do you do?

I force myself into finding something attractive sexually in every young girl I come across....ranging from the boobs, curves, etc...and I subsequently fantasize about it.
As time goes on, I become unconsciously starts finding them sexually attractive.

And then there comes feelings. It starts gradually, as I spend longer time with young girls and lesser or no time with older ones.

That is what I do.
I used present tense because I'm still doing it. I used to be in your shoes and I'm currently fighting it. It is however yielding positive results.

The advice seems promiscuous but it is the way out.

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∆ Start eating butter. ∆


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All nairaland guys falling in love wit older punas nawadays..yesterday was 23yr old boy and 40yr old lady

Kingsley1000:
All nairaland guys falling in love wit older punas nawadays..yesterday was 23yr old boy and 40yr old lady

Please share the thread link

Provided you are not gay,a paedophile or rapist, then I guess u are normal

Who dis Virgin U?

pedrilo:
Who dis Virgin U?

Bad guy na DAT one u go ask quickly

emelda86:


Bad guy na DAT one u go ask quickly

I'm thinking that's where his problem emanated from how r u bae

pedrilo:
I'm thinking that's where his problem emanated from how r u bae

I'm fine boo & you?

pedrilo:
Who dis Virgin U?

U are right, I got disvirgined at 11 by a 16 yr old girl, and I have always been attracted to older ladies. But how did u know it works that way

ralphyoung123:
U are right, I got disvirgined at 11 by a 16 yr old girl, and I have always been attracted to older ladies. But how did u know it works that way

i was 11 wen a 22 yr old abused me.

emelda86:


I'm fine boo & you?

I'm fine too. Reading an interesting story in one thread like dat. Will mention u there so u can follow up

You have mummy issues.

pedrilo:
Who dis Virgin U?

I Know that being disvirgined by an older woman was the cause, everyone seems to say this... But is there a solution?