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My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving / My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Tommy34: 1:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Oyindidi: I know I shouldn't feel like a black sheep because of I didn't get admitted, there's more to life than the university. I feel like I haven't found my purpose in life |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by MARKone(m): 1:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
You better go and tell them the truth. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by demulepaul: 1:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
PRODIGAL SON, You see your life now
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Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by nosagold(m): 1:58pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: I understand what you're going through bro, but the advice I have is this, tell the truth. Go and explain everything to your mother first, then she will soften your dad's heart. Yes it will be tough, yes it will be heartbreaking but it is necessary. Living a lie becomes unbearable in the long run. As for admission, place Jesus first and study as hard as you can. There are diamonds buried within you. Just believe! 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
I'll advice u to follow ur heart, leave home... Go to school.. Start doing yahoo yahoo... Get the money, fuckkk some uni girls till you fade... Party until u off. Save some of the proceeds from yahoo After 4years just get your parents new rides each then pay for a certificate in your school and follow the set going for nysc. That's what u should do. Sense will surely not kill me. If u want to thank me for this advice... Pls tell me so I'll send my account number. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by mighty2: 1:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
mokrizi:as old as you are, you don't think before speaking 2 Likes |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by dedonsamue: 1:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FRY IF YOU SAY OR COMMIT ANOTHER LIE YOU ARE DOOMED SAY THE TRUTH AND FREE YOURSELF |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Mutemenot(m): 1:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
some lies dey backfire die. just lie again to cover up n move ahead since ur dad ll disown u if u say the truth |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by CNNN: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
You will end up been a cultist if you decide to live within the school premises when you are not a student. Idle hands are the devil's workshop 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
YOU BETTER GO JOIN BOKO HARAM INSIDE SAMBISA FOREST |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Saheed9:Lose. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by mimicue(f): 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Simple , tell the truth and there’s no more burden . The thing is they can’t kill you , they will only talk talk , scream, insult you that’s all they can do . Tell your parents you want to go to noun university at least with that one u don’t need admission, try and look for small hustle to do to be supporting your self while in the school cos u don’t need to be there all the time . Even if it’s learning a trade, doing internship in companies and getting paid little money . 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by nelsonebby(m): 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
TarOrfeek:So you watch porn abi? |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by damoskiy(m): 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Go home,tell your parents the truth... When telling them be sure you have an alternative in case they disown you. Work on gaining admission next year by all legitimate means. Once you get admitted send the details to them.... |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by hepzibahpraise(f): 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
They already know and just waiting for you to approach them. It is better to learn a skill, apply for part-time course and stop wasting your time bro. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by DIYhackers: 2:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Your part is to just say the truth |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by miqos02(m): 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
rottencorpse:you will disown a child for lying ? Na wa oh |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: number one...u hv slept with a lot of ladies and ur fate and luck has been locked in futa djallon......only God can intervene..... You don't need any advice..... make decision as a man and find your path. finally Close your doors, commit ur problems to God, cast ur worries, failures, fears and defeat at his feet and I assure you he will direct your path. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by stonemasonn: 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
You make poor decisions, that’s your problem. You need to start hanging around school geeks. Confide in your mother, beg her to help you find your way and you should learn to be obedient too. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by FemiEddy(m): 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
MCFRESH:Stoner Spotted! |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nuelmatic: 2:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
First things first, DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE. no matter how bad it gets. Tell them the truth, no matter whose ox is gored. Whatever comes out of it, Chart your own legitimate course and not that expected by your parent Make up your mind to be successful Wishing you the best in advance Tommy34: |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Bluezy13(m): 2:03pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tell your mum everything that happened.
Tell her you need the way forward. I hope you didn't pretend to be in school for too long. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Seyibayo(m): 2:04pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34:Hi brother, you are harming yourself...this is Nigeria everyone is under pressure...any good thing takes time .. don't leave home cause you will become a prey to various societal vices..peace out. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by blackaxe78: 2:05pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Just open up Your dad saying he will disown you is just word of mouth. He loves you more than no one else His pains and bitterness are born out of love Just open up as it is 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by oshaosha2014(m): 2:06pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Go back home and face your parents about what's going on with you. No be today fathers don dey disown. He only said that to make you behave, but this situation is way over, go back home and face the music. Trust me, you'll be fine eventually. And you'll be able to chart the right course for your life. If that school is still hungrying you to go at least go learn a vocation somewhere while schooling. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Analysiscorner: 2:07pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Be honest with them. If you are too scared to talk to your father, then go through your mum. The cycle of lies will destroy you. Therefore, break the cycle and be free. You can equally talk to someone your father respects first. Then, that person would know how to speak to your parents. 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Mozenge1: 2:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Don't give up on your dreams Man. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by otokx(m): 2:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
We have seen worse than these. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by zexo07101994: 2:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
DONT MISS OUT ON THIS!!!
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Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by deleo16(m): 2:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Take a day off go to quiet place with pen and plain book write a 10 years plan that will include a skill like I. T skill or decoration e. t. c to learn then go back home and tell your mom discuss with them about your plan whereas after the skill aquisation get a job then apply for a part time course while working I tell u this would best by the time u are graduating enough work experience for You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_kIajrJUMc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adLe7Ti4RwU |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by apprentist(m): 2:09pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Bro, all these tings you are saying is just tales o. More time spent and you getting older. First, you need to figure yourself out and know what you are good at. And then go for it no matter what people (even your parents) say. Because at the end, they'd leave you to to face your life. We were all liabilities to our parents at some point. Some break out early, many leave at their late 30s. 1. Figure out what you find easy or fun to do. That one thing that you can spend day to dawn repeating without loosing interest. Mine is Teaching. 2. Get involved in doing those (or that) thing even if its for free or stipend pay. 3. Do you need certificate to do this thing? Ask around if need be. because in the end, that skill or expertise would be your saving grace when certificates fail you. 4. And yes, you must open up to your parents. They have to know you for who you really are and not what you are trying to portray to them. 5. Live life, make mistakes, correct and learn from them but try surviving no matter what. And try not to grow old on your butt. Ensure each day leaves you as a better person. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by davidodiba(m): 2:09pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Go an tell em the truth.they won't kill you. |
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