I donno what i can do to end our (me & my gf's) contract cos it seemed we'd only contracted intimacy, though protected. I also do fear for her would-be family cos she might come asking IF the man isnt doing his 'job'. I think I need to transit into a serious relationship. I am a young grad with more-than-bleeping-with-ma-gal ambitions. your candid candid will be appreciated. pls no jokester and ranconteur here - SERIOUS.
Thanks.

Well if you desire a more serious connection you have to let the girl go because it appears that she too is only in it for the intimacy.
Start dating afresh and when you do meet another girl, get to know the girl on a personal and emotional level before you progress into physical. I advice saving sex for marriage (but I am aware people do not like to do this anymore). Establish a strong foundation and non-sexual bond outside the bedroom FIRST. This way, when the attraction develops, it will be true love not clouded by lustful desires. Hope I helped.

Girl846:

Well if you desire a more serious connection you have to let the girl go because it appears that she too is only in it for the intimacy.
Start dating afresh and when you do meet another girl, get to know the girl on a personal and emotional level before you progress into physical. I advice saving intimacy for marriage (but I am aware people do not like to do this anymore). Establish a strong foundation and non-sexual bond outside the bedroom FIRST. This way, when the attraction develops, it will be true love not clouded by lustful desires. Hope I helped.

Thanks girl846. I honestly appreciate ur contribution. It's noted. I think i will also try and change location. Thanks