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cooooooks:
You invite a girl for the first time and the first thing you tell her is I love you?

Una dey mad o.

may be you are the mad one here , he said she's his colleague in office which means they are together almost everyday and you are here talking rubbish.


your type makes seeking advice on nairaland tedious

vybzkartel:
I am quite new at this workplace
First day at work, I gave my number to a guy colleague and I took his, she was around and was like "ei, me too get me some of the number oo" but I pretended I didn't hear. Later on, she was moody to me. She never greeted me. Once she was together with a guy colleague so I called out the guy's name and greeted, and it outraged her, she left and whined by the fact that I didn't greet her. We became foes. I took the initiative to be cool with her.

One time whilst I was cool with her, she requested I buy her panty, though it was on a light note and there were other colleagues there. I began chatting her on social media and she was responding. She said I could call and chat her anytime. I invited her for a hangout and she came to my surprise. I told her I loved her, and she said if only I had come a little earlier, and that she is seeing someone.

Afterwards, she still entertains my every call and chat. However I decided to withdraw a bit and she got back to her old moody style. I decided to be cool again and last week, she saw this armband on my hand and she says I should buy one for her. Do you think this girl could be interested in me? What do I do? Should I buy her the armband?

You are a very foolish guy. Later on you’d say ladies are forming hard to get. Why won’t they? She gave you the green light but you refused to follow. She is still into you but only playing hard to get due to your earlier reticence

OCTAVO:

Longest time.

Yes o.

Khd95:
ur oga should sack,cos u are very childish


mtcheeeeew,better people dey wey no get work,u get work and u are here wondering if a female colleague loves u or not

you are wicked ooooo
But you are kinda right sha

She's with another guy.
Take your work more seriously, simple!

from experience she likes you. the only problem she does not know how serious you are going to be if she leave the other guy and follow you. remember you are still new in the organization just calm down assure her of your feelings and you will be smiling to the bank.

Theoan:


You have already started buying things and yet you can't read the handwriting on the wall. Every girl has 3 guys in the her life. The one she loves, the one who spends and the one who bleeps well. My guy you are looking like the side boo who spends.

Better give yourself some respect and start acting like you are a man. Don't let a woman control you and never tell a woman you love her until after she tells you 10 times. She is now manipulating you and you are confused just the way she wants you to be.

I advice you to find another girl.

@bolded,

Very wrong.

cooooooks:
You invite a girl for the first time and the first thing you tell her is I love you?

Una dey mad o.

you no follow?

agohmamuda:
Leme tell you the truth, you are in a very delicate situation in her life right now. Your actions will determine where u fall in her life. One right move and u will be smashing her on a regular. But one false move, you will Friend zone your self. Calculate ur every move bro. cheers.

What is wrong with the average Nairalander and sex?? Can't you guys talk about long term relationships with positive outcomes? It doesn't have to revolve around sex.

She's acting ninaism.

I read ur to n fros wit dis gal n am jst smiling like sum1 on drugs... All i can say is she's gud...
U r insidiously being manipulated!...@vybzkartel..
Oga Harddon come epp dis guy abeg...

She is seeing someone but still picking your calls.

If a lady really wants you but don't want to sound cheap, she uses such lines. That someone could be her brother or her pastor. The fact is, she is damn lonely and wants you to push a little harder.
Why won't she? She showed you green lights but you ignored so now, she'll start her own rounds of ignoring.


BTW, be careful, she could be saying the truth.

How do I mean? Some ladies are pretty confused. They don't want you and they want you.
So I think you shouldn't be in a hurry to get emotional.
See as a friend. Play with her. Talk to her like your younger sister. Tease her and flee.

These, draw out any ounce of emotion in her for you, if any exist at all.

ABOVE ALL, DON'T BE FRIENDZONED!

baba... you're the one thinking rubbish... she just wanna be ur friend

B4 I got married those were the kind of poocee I smash on a regular

whores every where

MDsambo:
Dude it's 5:16 in the Fvcking morning.

No JOB. Buhari economy

1StopRudeness:
Oga,forget the babe....

thats woman for u...even if they don't wanna date u..they still want u to be all over them. The attention u are giving them is like a drug they get high on

u sabi. No mind dem and I dislike those set of girls.

u don't deserve the name vybZ kartel

omooba969:


@bolded,

Very wrong.

he is right.. Even if not 3 but two is very certain!

oshe11:
You are on your way to that Zone....

I mean the most dreaded zone, Yeah! FRIEND-ZONE!!!

Why is the Friend-Zone dreadful, must you fvck every girl who wants to be your friend?

What's wrong with having girls as friends.

All dis 9ja guys sef. SMH

Holuwaseun187:
U r a very jobless person go and get busy

He just said he's new at a work place (Job) and yet you still call him jobless. Did you read the post at all? Pls be less foolish with your comments so we all can read and learn from you.

omooba969:


Why is the Friend-Zone dreadful, must you fvck every girl who wants to be your friend?

All dis 9ja guys sef. SMH

Lol....


You do not understand the concept of friendzoning


Mind You, I have more female friends than male and I have turned down sexual advances from more girls compared to the girls I have had sex with



But like I said, YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT OF FRIEND ZONING

oshe11:
Lol....


You do not understand the concept of friendzoning


Mind You, I have more female friends than male and I have turned down sexual advances from more girls compared to the girls I have had sex with



But like I said, YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT OF FRIEND ZONING

Can you kindly expatiate on the concept of Friend Zoning. I think I'm missing something here.

jibs4lv:
may be you are the mad one here , he said she's his colleague in office which means they are together almost everyday and you are here talking rubbish.


your type makes seeking advice on nairaland tedious

Na you and your ilk dey devalue the word "love".

omooba969:


Can you kindly expatiate on the concept of Friend Zoning. I think I'm missing something here.

Dude wants more, she knows but doesnt wanna and still keeping him for other gains.....


Just a summary

We have other versions though.....

Just find one article read

vybzkartel:
I am quite new at this workplace
First day at work, I gave my number to a guy colleague and I took his, she was around and was like "ei, me too get me some of the number oo" but I pretended I didn't hear. Later on, she was moody to me. She never greeted me. Once she was together with a guy colleague so I called out the guy's name and greeted, and it outraged her, she left and whined by the fact that I didn't greet her. We became foes. I took the initiative to be cool with her.

One time whilst I was cool with her, she requested I buy her panty, though it was on a light note and there were other colleagues there. I began chatting her on social media and she was responding. She said I could call and chat her anytime. I invited her for a hangout and she came to my surprise. I told her I loved her, and she said if only I had come a little earlier, and that she is seeing someone.

Afterwards, she still entertains my every call and chat. However I decided to withdraw a bit and she got back to her old moody style. I decided to be cool again and last week, she saw this armband on my hand and she says I should buy one for her. Do you think this girl could be interested in me? What do I do? Should I buy her the armband?

She's interested in u bt don't buy the armband

And why wud u just meet a gal and tell her u love her??

@OP, must everyone be your friend in your place of work? If she's moody then ignore her. Face your work and how you can better your life.
See the nonsense you typed early in the morning.
Now go back, read what you typed again and answer this: If someone ask for my advice on this issue, what will it be?

lazy question. Must she ask you out before you know she is into you.

dnt use the word LOVE too early for nigerian girls oh. I learnt the hard way.
they see it as a meal ticket.
u will continue to pay dearly for using that statement a lil too early and carelessly.

1StopRudeness:
Oga,forget the babe....

thats woman for u...even if they don't wanna date u..they still want u to be all over them. The attention u are giving them is like a drug they get high on

You've just exposed something. So how do you know the one that is into you?

I'm a igbo guy i really want a serious relationship with a decent Yoruba girl, that will lead to marriage, no games pls, that's my desire. Pls contact if u are interested to know me. 08138394183