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Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Achorise: 1:29pm On Jul 05, 2018
Gay sex is not easy, fighting gay thought is not easy. most gays are born that way.its like a giant in a man's body.
But my problems with most of them is that there's no attempt to come out.
I fear sin.
I love freedom.
If you are gay, pls fight it, you can be free.
It may take time, but it will surely take time.
I have heled many come out.
You too can come out.
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Hakeem12(m): 1:38pm On Jul 05, 2018
themodernman:


So you think your attraction for the opposite sex was learnt right?

Do you know what instincts mean at all? They're inborn traits in the genetic makeup that forms our behaviour. So no, not every behaviour is learnt. Heck crave for sex isn't even a "behaviour", it's a darn instinct.

Stop reasoning with your phallus dude.

Thank God I'm a doctor.
congrats
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by owomida1: 2:00pm On Jul 05, 2018
themodernman:


It can never make any sense to you cos you have no sense in the first place.

You that are straight, how useful have you been to even the fellow straight people around you?

Calling someone Olofo while you're as useless as an empty condom pack....

Wow. So another ass digger just quoted me. I see how empty your head must be. If it's u that will serve as deterrent to ur fellow homo, I don't mind.

I weep for your parents coz they have failed over you. If your father had married a man like u are doing, would there be an animal like u at all? Bloody dumbhead
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 05, 2018
His a man that have a pure spirit, I wouldn't condemn him because "gayism, stealing, lying, judging another man and the rest"... All fall under the same judgement,we can only be perfect by what Christ Jesus had already done for unbelievers and believers alike. God blesses, he gives rain and Sun to the wicked and righteous, God does not say, your a wicked man, I'll cast you out of my blessings no, no, no... Mr Felix kalu although his what he his, is following the principles of goodly living that has a reward by God, that's why he feels fulfilled and happy about himself, and we shouldn't worry God is a God of patience and strategy when it's time to call Mr Felix kalu from what he his, he would call him, and he'll change.
If you follow Gods principles of Love, wicked or righteous man alike you'll be blessed, his a fair God.
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Achorise: 2:38pm On Jul 05, 2018
OlufemiWhit:
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Brother their own sexuality is geared towards same sex, the sight of a nude girl means nothing to them, the sight of a nude fellow boy like them immediately turns them on.
You see, some of them cry, becos they are fighting something stronger than them.
can you get hard on on the sight of your sister, never!
If you do, it becomes abnormal, you need help.
so with gays.
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Leonbonapart(m): 2:53pm On Jul 05, 2018
AnonyNymous:

Except this isn't a behavior. Its a sexuality. Can you command your sexual organs not to become aroused at the sight of a nak*d woman?
yes... I used to masturbate and watch porn. God delivered me and set me free. Today I can sweat to you, even if thousands of women are naked before me, I body won't move an inch. Spirit of God make things right. Dude is pocessed
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Sarang(f): 4:40pm On Jul 05, 2018
Leonbonapart:
yes... I used to masturbate and watch porn. God delivered me and set me free. Today I can sweat to you, even if thousands of women are naked before me, I body won't move an inch. Spirit of God make things right. Dude is pocessed

Okogherimela..
Leave one woman with him now.. and come and carry your holes drilled to the maximuim cheesy

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Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Curiouspet: 4:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
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Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Handsomecole(m): 6:05pm On Jul 05, 2018
Man bleeping man ?? The fact is there is absolutely no way this Gay stuff can make sense. All the stuff he wrote is absolutely nothing but rubbish. It does not make any sense at all. How can a man have a sexual urge to a fellow man?? It's nonsense and evil. The fact is gays will never be accepted into the society never for me they should be put to death once proven guilty.
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by ableguy(m): 6:57pm On Jul 05, 2018
Sarang:


Okogherimela..
Leave one woman with him now.. and come and carry your holes drilled to the maximuim cheesy
This gey don spoil finish grin
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Sarang(f): 7:04pm On Jul 05, 2018
ableguy:

This gey don spoil finish grin

grin grin

Able ooooo abeg lee me cool
Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by ENGRAGHA2: 10:41am On Jul 06, 2018
This is why I am not interested in politics cos i will humbly ask ur kind to make themselves known.... boom!!!! I will then ensure ur extinction....rubbish
Drinokrane:
Openly Gay Nigerian man, Felix Kalu who has relocated to the US, shared a post on his Facebook page detailing how he fought Homophobia before leaving the shores of Nigeria.

Read below;
"How I resist homophobia.

I am 27 years old. I am young and powerful.

Every war comes after a threat. The day my society threatened me they asked for a war. I will fight them to their knees. The more they resist me, the more I will persist.

I currently have someone in my life that makes me feel like a treasure. This person loves me very much. This person worships me. This person can melt mountains for me. We hope to get married some day.

Everyone should be given the opportunity to feel the way I feel right now.

A gay boy told me that his family thinks he is the one behind all the problems they are encountering. I have heard many of such stories where a family discovers a member was gay and concludes that God was punishing the entire family because of his homosexuality. In this boy’s case he was not just put out of the house, but all his clothes were burned. At that point can you imagine what life meant for him?

That boy lived with me till he learned a skill and my last kobo was used to open a shop for him. I believe the only way we young people can protect ourselves is when we are empowered. Sometimes I have had to take them and keep them in my house. A boy came to me with full blown AIDS and left as a barber who owned a barbing salon and an undergraduate of the open university. I feel proud of myself.

I said I am not going to have any biological child because of this. There was one day I left the house early in the morning to give my last 3k to a boy that was going for this dancing competition, his family did not support him because he danced like a girl.

After I gave him that money I came back to the house to one pack of Indomie noodle that I hoped to eat that morning, I didn’t know there was no gas, I chewed the indomie like that with water, but when he won that competition I felt a satisfaction that no food can give.

I didn't buy new clothes for 3 years because I had boys going to school, boys who called me father even though some of them were older than me.

This is how I resist.
-Felix kalu."


https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/openly-gay-nigerian-man-writes-on-how-he-fought-against-homophobia-in-nigeria.html

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Re: Felix Kalu, Gay Nigerian Man: 'How I Fought Against Homophobia In Nigeria' by Bitterleafsoup: 12:15pm On Dec 30, 2018
anyimontana:
See as person b like gay..

guy men dey use gay as a reason to seek asylum in u.s and Canada..
That is the latest.

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