Biglittlelois:
you want her to give you her phone number just like that?
So because she is in the village she should be easy to get right? and then y'all would yapp rubbish saying women are easy whorès bla bla bla,
Why are you scared to go to her house?

cronsberg:
what is it in a phone number? Its a freaking number for god sake.its so i can contact you not bang you. Secondly, which girl takes a guy home on first toasting, without communicating, dating, knowing each other. Going to her father house signify i want to marry her. How do i decide to marry her without first getting her number, then dating, then courting etc? As to the hard to get nonsense, its just her number am asking for and to "ask her out", why will a girl play hard to get with that? You women have problem o, you want a man to approach you, yet make it impposible for him to toast you? What is that eh? I refuse to play that game jor, will move on to a more reasonable and mature lady who knows what she is doing

Prognose:
Is it by force for her to accept you? Is it by force to give you number?

Its guilty conscience that is worrying you. Small obstacle the girl put for you to chase her you're opening thread to cry. Move on dude, village girl or not, you don't deserve her!

Biglittlelois:
I dont get, so you want her to listen to you when she is on an errand, even if she's not lying, you want her to give you her phone number just like that?

So because she is in the village she should be easy to get right? and then y'all would yapp rubbish saying women are easy whorès bla bla bla,

Why are you scared to go to her house?
dont you think she's smart in case anything happens her family would know who you are cos obviously you want to smash and run!!!

Now tell me, do you think you deserve her

Biglittlelois:
I dont get, so you want her to listen to you when she is on an errand, even if she's not lying, you want her to give you her phone number just like that?

So because she is in the village she should be easy to get right? and then y'all would yapp rubbish saying women are easy whorès bla bla bla,

Why are you scared to go to her house?
dont you think she's smart in case anything happens her family would know who you are cos obviously you want to smash and run!!!

Now tell me, do you think you deserve her

Biglittlelois:



So many things are in giving out number, like she's not ready to talk to you, how is that hard to get?, why cant you use that opportuniy to know her house so that when next you go there she'll see you're serious,

Mr man knowing her house or family doesnt mean you must marry her jeez, what a mentality!!! more like security or so they should know who she is with so what's there!!

cronsberg:
mtsheeew, get out jor. I dont chase women, if she wants to be chased then let her chase herself. I never said its by force, but why lie? Why foam? Just be honest dammit. Just say u aint interested. I was just using this example to show how women are there own worst enemies. They all want a guy to show interest, a guy shows interest and they start to foam ungettable beauty queens. Even average looking or ugly girls o. Its almost like they want you to beg for their time. I be child? lol

Prognose:


You just sound pained, nothing more!

Haba, you asked to speak to her, she refused, you insisted she tried to ward you off, you persisted she finally said you should come to her house and finally you backed off.

You want her to spell I'M NOT INTERESTED before you get the hint?

She no like you Jo, stop being bitter about it and move on! Thats what being a man is about! Plenty of other village girls out there, if you don't want to go the extra mile for this one , leave her and chase someone else. Other Men will continue with her from where u stopped!

cronsberg:
Arrant nonsense, why talk in hints? Why not talk straight? And who said she refused and i persisted? Also did i sound bitter to you? So complaining of how unstraightforward women are is being bitter? If not interested, say you not interested simple. Anyway, if talk don too much e go be like say pesin don drink, so ihave since start dating a mature babe that knows exactly what she wants

els0nm0rali:
She has invited you to her home. Why are you afraid unless your intentions aren't pure towards her.

cronsberg:
How does your intention towards a girl become pure without first dating her? To see whether she herself is pure? And you certainly dont start dating a girl in her father house, or do you do that? To my knowldge going to see her home and thus seeing her people comes last after you must have dated for a while. Cuz going to her home signifies you intend marriage, which you can't decide on that until you dated her long enough. You see the conondrum? She wanted to put the cart before the horse, in other words she wants to hook me straight into marriage talk without first dating and getting to know her better. So i ran fast from that confusing scenario

OneCorner:
Go dia house. If she no gree, beat am for her papa house.
No time to check time

OneCorner:
Go dia house. If she no gree, beat am for her papa house.
No time to check time

cronsberg:
what is it in a phone number? Its a freaking number for god sake.its so i can contact you not bang you. Secondly, which girl takes a guy home on first toasting, without communicating, dating, knowing each other. Going to her father house signify i want to marry her. How do i decide to marry her without first getting her number, then dating, then courting etc? As to the hard to get nonsense, its just her number am asking for and to "ask her out", why will a girl play hard to get with that? You women have problem o, you want a man to approach you, yet make it impposible for him to toast you? What is that eh? I refuse to play that game jor, will move on to a more reasonable and mature lady who knows what she is doing

cronsberg:
. Mind you this is in a small town o, not even city. So the idea of taking a girl out doesnt apply cuz where do you even take a girl out in a village?

Biglittlelois:
I dont get, so you want her to listen to you when she is on an errand, even if she's not lying, you want her to give you her phone number just like that?

So because she is in the village she should be easy to get right? and then y'all would yapp rubbish saying women are easy whorès bla bla bla,

Why are you scared to go to her house?
dont you think she's smart in case anything happens her family would know who you are cos obviously you want to smash and run!!!

Now tell me, do you think you deserve her

Ridbaay:



A friend of mine tutors at the Primary section of an Educational establishment (high sch). He hv a good intention abt one of recent ex students of the high sch abt marriage whom coincidentally her mother is also a staff of d Secondary school.


1. Should the brother go forth to the mother and divulge his thoughts to seek her blessings?


2. As a S/westerner brother is it morally sound to approach the mum? To avoid any kind insults.

Thks for airing ur views