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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Haykay2014(m): 4:25am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Hi I need your help to get out of this emotional trauma I found myself.......I’m in love with a lady and later found out that she was sleeping with two other guys,I vex and told her it’s over and she begged me non stop for 3days with tears,and because of the love I have for her,I forgave her but didn’t trust,and it’s hard to drop her cos I love her wholeheartedly,and now after another one month,I saw some WhatsApp chat on her phone I found out she still does the same thing and this time with a different guy I saw update of some guys asking her to come over as dey have missed having sex with her.........now I want to drop her and let her go but my heart is not letting it go,I can’t even eat as the thought of her fills up my heart,and I don’t wanna get back into the relationship....I can’t eat and I’m loosing my strength gradually,please advise me |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:29am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by sonsomegrigbo: 4:35am On Jul 12, 2018 |
DEHVEHLOP : Things are going really hard for the southeastern people. Nobody should blame them for anything. When your favorite food is no longer available, the available food becomes a favorite. I really pity them in that region. Please my people from the northern and South Western Nigeria, let's stop typing igbo amaka. That thing use to pain them to the bone marrow Cc. Ipob Biafrans Igbo Fayose FFK NRAMDI KARU 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:40am On Jul 12, 2018 |
greggng: No. I think she was hurt you couldn't make the sacrifice to complete the trip. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by apollo13(m): 4:44am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican:Apparently she's cheating on you no doubt. Better drop her and move on.. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by serenee: 4:49am On Jul 12, 2018 |
bros I swear I have through that lane before. it hurts like crazy. just man up and do what u knw is right cos dey never. change o |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Chinedumsimpero(m): 4:59am On Jul 12, 2018 |
My brother forget that girl She don't worth u Charge your phone and leave you are not d one making her happy |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Slurity(m): 5:21am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican:With this episode. I conclude you are dating a bitch |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Nobody: 5:40am On Jul 12, 2018 |
jaxxy: 2 yrs approximately.... would have let go if this is the first time... I forgave her and tried to talk sense to her Wen something like this happened less than 2 months ago.... now she repeats it again.... what hurts most is her continuous attempts to cover up her tracks with lies... she'll either lie or keep quiet abt something she knows she's done wrong.... she's been texting and calling that I should forgive her that she has nothing with the guys bt I don't want to be burnt a third time. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by talk2percy(m): 5:53am On Jul 12, 2018 |
That's what Most of them are, online whores! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by srclark: 6:02am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican:So ? Thank God you said girlfriend not wife if you want her for yourself do the needful (MARRY HER) I see no reason why a woman would flirt around if you are ready and serious about marrying her so what happens to her if she puts all her hope in you and at the end of the day you dont marry her abeg abeg oga if it is not cool with you move ahead wahala no dey dat one |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by els0nm0rali(m): 6:02am On Jul 12, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: Quite right. As a matter of fact flirting is also a form of cheating. Emotional cheating. I wonder what the op wants from us. To tell him what he already knows or to come and help him flog the girl? |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by mgtow: 6:06am On Jul 12, 2018 |
AreaFada2: Easily because all a woman has to say is YES. She brings nothing else to the table in terms of money, effort, logistics, etc. For a woman, cheating is free and the incentives are juicy. For a man to cheat with multiple women, he must be willing to go through a little/lot of stress, financially, emotionally, physically, etc. This is why when I hear women say men are scum/cheats I just shake my head because I know the reality on ground. You can't trust a woman. We all carry our battle scars. Personally I wish more men were like me but I know that's impossible so it's a lost cause. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by newinsta: 6:08am On Jul 12, 2018 |
propose to her, then you will have right to check her phones and personal stuff, give her about a week to drop other guys, treat her with equal rights, after that if she f up, drop her and move, that is LOVE, RESPECT & PRINCIPLE |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by mgtow: 6:13am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Haykay2014: Is she your first love? Toss that b!tch aside and get you a new hoe or preferably, try being single for a while. It works wonders. If you don't dump her now, she will eventually get tired of your when she has finished chopping enough ogede wey big pass your own, and then she WILL dump you without thinking twice. Trust me you will feel worse then. Dump her and stand your ground. Just try give yourself small prestige bros. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Heineken(m): 6:16am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Girls are bad news seriously. One happened to me during my nysc days. A corper too. She left my place for her ppa and when she cm for the weekend I was helping her to fix her whatsapp. Saw her naked with a guy atop her bed. Omo she say naso dem dey do for lodge. Wey me too na corper o. If you trust girl, omo you try. I told my girl recently that If I catch or hear her cheating that's gon be the end. Na wen them dey with you, them be urs. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by mgtow: 6:19am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican: Dude, are you not even surprised that most of us on here have had the same experience? Dump that bítch now, you have been warned o. Don't be a wuss, cos na all of us you dey represent like this. Show her that you are not stewpid cos right now she definitely thinks that you are. Women are the real scum, an unending abyss of lies, deceptions and manipulations. Your first mistake was taking her so seriously. I hope you learn from this going forward. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Moorish: 6:21am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Heineken: |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by pasydron(m): 6:22am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican: After God... fear "ex"....
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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by madridguy(m): 6:22am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by madridguy(m): 6:24am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Take your ill sermon to politics section and stop follow follow me upanddan resurgent2019: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by b0rn2fuck(m): 6:24am On Jul 12, 2018 |
BlackAfrican:guy, you get problem oo, most of this women are cheat, Bleep ,fuvk until you get tired, the chances of getting a good girl is very slim, Bleep anything fuckable, the more you spend on her, the more. you feel hurt, spend less, hurt less, love with your head, I get one babe too that flirt around but I don nack her toto more than 80 times, if she wan go make she go, no time to check time brother,. I cheat too because I cannot die of faithfulness when my girlfriend is cheating , so I have to balance the equation 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by litaninja(m): 6:25am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Hmm....I would like to ask, are you 100% faithful to her? No flings, side chics, quick hook ups... Etc? BlackAfrican: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by mgtow: 6:25am On Jul 12, 2018 |
newinsta: You're advising him to propose to a proven cheat? To give her time to drop other guys? Where is your pride as a man? How do you even condone the fact that she's seeing other guys? Is her pússy gold? Emancipate yourself from this defeatist mentality bros. You are part of the problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by madridguy(m): 6:25am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Mum, am on vacation here iLegendd: |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Heineken(m): 6:36am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Moorish:lol but bro girls bad. If you trust them, that's the end. They wicked. Even married ones no gree. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by emelda86(f): 6:41am On Jul 12, 2018 |
mimimile93: I was waiting for your reply & you didn't disappoint yen yen yen..... |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by zeus9634: 6:43am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Move on bro it never ends well when you forgive. She’s gonna repeat the same thing |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by jidxin(m): 6:43am On Jul 12, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus:nice one....so you are this intelligent |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by kullozone(m): 6:44am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Hahahaha!!! You never see anything. When you were supporting terrorist Bullhari and his killer herdsmen, you thought you'd go free abi? This one is your love life, The next would be your finance, then your health and other things... Just like that sha |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by emelda86(f): 6:47am On Jul 12, 2018 |
newinsta: Sense will not kee you |
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by emelda86(f): 6:48am On Jul 12, 2018 |
kullozone: Lol... |
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