XhosaNostra:


As you were.

As for the 2nd part, so you'd rather use your penis as testing stick to find out who has them & who doesn't?

Think of it as eating in a restaurant... What are the chances that your food doesn't have feacal residue or any manner of contamination in it? You can't tell but you eat it anyway hoping your momma's prayers will protect you.

Some will foolishly use condom and yet open mouth to suck a woman vagina .

Xinzu:



Think of it as eating in a restaurant... What are the chances that your food doesn't have feacal residue or any manner of contamination in it? You can't tell but you eat it anyway hoping your momma's prayers will protect you.

Speechless.

If you don't change your ways, you'll end up eating regurgitated meals like a baby bird Don't know where this invincibility comes from but wow.

XhosaNostra:


Speechless.

If you don't change your ways, you'll end up eating regurgitated meals like a baby bird Don't know where this invincibility comes from but wow.

Lol, I wouldn't bank on that, punky.

Xinzu:



Lol, I wouldn't bank on that, punky.

I bet that's what everybody, now 6 feet under, initially thought. But hey, do you.

XhosaNostra:


I bet that's what everybody, now 6 feet under, initially thought. But hey, do you.

So everybody died after having unprotected sex? Tell me something!

XhosaNostra:


Are you aware that there're DIFFERENT kinds of condoms? Some of them are designed with a thinner latex, so you wouldn't feel like you're wearing anything at all. Some even look invisible. Yes, they've all been pre-tested, to ensure that the effect is the same. So there's really no excuse for ignorance anymore, when there's an assortment of over-the-counter protective tools at your disposal. Like female birth control, you have to find one that's suitable for you. Otherwise a feeding cube & adult diapers await people who value skin-to-skin intercourse over their own wellbeing.

not all condoms are latex

samtol4:
Some will foolishly use condom and yet open mouth to suck a woman vagina .

true that fam


a friend once said he gave a lady head but still used latex for the main course


dude picked up some creepy mouth infection i had never heard of before.-......,.....yuck!


#spits

Xinzu:



So everybody died after having unprotected sex? Tell me something!

I'm talking about those who led high risk lives sexually & died as the result of it. Every action has consequences & sometimes they're deadly.
Maybe I've seen too much, hence the mere thought of having unprotected sex gives me shingles! I've seen people unable to swallow a yoghurt because their throats either had sores or it was swollen from inside. Trust me, it leaves a lasting impression. Perhaps you need to visit a hospice for the much needed wake up call

Nofav0rs:
not all condoms are latex

Who said they are?

XhosaNostra:


I'm talking about those who led high risk lives sexually & died as the result of it. Every action has consequences & sometimes they're deadly.
Maybe I've seen too much, hence the mere thought of having unprotected sex gives me shingles! I've seen people unable to swallow a yoghurt because their throats either had sores or it was swollen from inside. Trust me, it leaves a lasting impression. Perhaps you need to visit a hospice for the much needed wake up call

I think I understand you better now. Initially, I was wondering why you were being so negative but hey, our environment shapes our outlook to life so its cool. In my side of the world, STI's are not as rampant. I think Nigerians are more concerned about making fast money than sex. I'm not saying that I don't use condoms, I use every time I'm with a new partner. I'm not saying we don't have cases of STD's, we do but its not severe.


PS, I work in a hospital.

Colourich:
Skin to skin is very sweet, if you know, you know .


Just stick to one trusted partner.

ur head dey there

Tallesty1:
Same reason some people swallow rice and chew eba

Lol. For some reasons, I don't swallow foods... It's either I chew it or it's going right out of my mouth

Xinzu:



I think I understand you better now. Initially, I was wondering why you were being so negative but hey, our environment shapes our outlook to life so its cool. In my side of the world, STI's are not as rampant. I think Nigerians are more concerned about making fast money than sex. I'm not saying that I don't use condoms, I use every time I'm with a new partner. I'm not saying we don't have cases of STD's, we do but its not severe.


PS, I work in a hospital.

Lol, once upon a time in South Africa, HIV was also "not severe". Nonchalance, ignorance & a devil-may-care attitude is what led us to where we are today. Thankfully, now South Africans are more educated on the matter & cases of new infections are steadily decreasing. All it takes is one careless mistake & rest be assured, you'll have a crisis in your hands. Most Nigerians, IMO, are ignorant about the dangers of unprotected sex (even though they're one of the most promiscuous people I've ever seen), hence they end up on the ARV queues at our hospitals. Many, if not all, have GFs here & wives back home or if their wives are here, they will still sleep around like there's no tomorrow.

I have these two friends & they don't really like each other. Reason: girl A has a friend that dated girl B's husband. Girl B's husband is a Nigerian. So anyway, Girl A's friend became pregnant & at the same also found out that she has HIV. There's a possibility that Girl B & her husband also have HIV but they don't know. The husband has already moved on to a number of different side chicks. One time Girl B had an infection on her gums & I almost told her to go for an HIV test but I held myself back because I didn't wanna cause a fight. She'll find out eventually that her husband is an HIV spreading dog. I pity her.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, once upon a time in South Africa, HIV was also "not severe". Nonchalance, ignorance & a devil-may-care attitude is what led us to where we are today. Thankfully, now South Africans are more educated on the matter & cases of new infections are steadily decreasing. All it takes is one careless mistake & rest be assured, you'll have a crisis in your hands. Most Nigerians, IMO, are ignorant about the dangers of unprotected sex (even though they're one of the most promiscuous people I've ever seen), hence they end up on the ARV queues at our hospitals. Many, if not all, have GFs here & wives back home or if their wives are here, they will still sleep around like there's no tomorrow.

I have these two friends & they don't really like each other. Reason: girl A has a friend that dated girl B's husband. Girl B's husband is a Nigerian. So anyway, Girl A's friend became pregnant & at the same also found out that she has HIV. There's a possibility that Girl B & her husband also have HIV but they don't know. The husband has already moved on to a number of different side chicks. One time Girl B had an infection on her gums & I almost told her to go for an HIV test but I held myself back because I didn't wanna cause a fight. She'll find out eventually that her husband is an HIV spreading dog. I pity her.

Ignorance you say? Msanzi's and care-free sex are like 5&6, Nigerians IN NIGERIA are not about that life. Yes we fúck like there's no tomorrow but either by some means of providence or by preemptive measures taken by my govt, we haven't had any major pandemic that we haven't been able to subdue. Call it hubris or whatever, some things are not just peculiar to Nigeria. The Nigerians in ARV queues in your country were put there by YOUR country men and women. There are Nigerians (in Nigeria) living with HIV too but majority of them are not evil or ignorant enough to go about spreading the virus deliberately. The inability of your people to heed to advice was your undoing. They need your lessons more than we do, hun.

Xinzu:



Ignorance you say? Msanzi's and care-free sex are like 5&6, Nigerians IN NIGERIA are not about that life. Yes we fúck like there's no tomorrow but either by some means of providence or by preemptive measures taken by my govt, we haven't had any major pandemic that we haven't been able to subdue. Call it hubris or whatever, some things are not just peculiar to Nigeria. The Nigerians in ARV queues in your country were put there by YOUR country men and women. There are Nigerians (in Nigeria) living with HIV too but majority of them are not evil or ignorant enough to go about spreading the virus deliberately. The inability of your people to heed to advice was your undoing. They need your lessons more than we do, hun.

All peachy then.

On the bolded part, apparently not, because I didn't create this thread on awareness, I'm simply chiming in but oh well.

zicoraads:
I don't joke with protection. If you and I are not on a very long and trustworthy relationship, I'd rather the sex doesn't happen. I've stopped myself once, when we were even both naked. And this was this sexy mama I was eyeing for long. I buy some that are more expensive than the one everyone gets on the counter type. It has studs and it's very thin. Lovely stuff.

What's the name?

Peachess:
So I actually created this thread because of what I observed. Most people (males and females) don't like using condoms even when there are several STIs around. They look for flimsy excuses (like raw is better, bla bla bla) not use it. I can't say lack of awareness cos there are so many awareness programmes. Why do they hate using it? Is it because they're not scared of the consequences of unprotected sex or the pleasure (though there's no big difference between going raw and using protection) is just to strong for them to be thinking straight.

Is this your personal opinion or based on a scientific study?

XhosaNostra:


Who said they are?

You indirectly did

Nofav0rs:
You indirectly did

No, I didn't. YOU read what you wanted to read from my post, while you neglected the part that said ASSORTMENT. Read to understand.

This scares me.

XhosaNostra:


No, I didn't. YOU read what you wanted to read from my post, while you neglected the part that said ASSORTMENT. Read to understand.

Voilence!!! That's their way. They don't like corrections. They go violent. FEMINISTS

Nofav0rs:
Voilence!!! That's their way. They don't like corrections. The go violent. FEMINISTS

You have a problem with comprehension, as well as throwing about words I'm not sure you even understand. Where is the violence in what I said?

XhosaNostra:


You have a problem with comprehension, as well as throwing about words I'm not sure you even understand. Where is the violence in what I said?

Shame! You said you was gonna break my head with latex (check your previous post) just because I said not all condoms are latex. Too bad. Women shouldn't be aggressive or violent

Nofav0rs:
Shame! You said you was gonna break my head with latex (check your previous post) just because I said not all condoms are latex. Too bad. Women shouldn't be aggressive or violent

Doesn't that even make sense to you? Scratch what I said earlier, you have much bigger issues than just comprehension. I think you're hallucinating. Out of touch.

XhosaNostra:


Doesn't that even make sense to you? Scratch what I said earlier, you have much bigger issues than just comprehension. I think you're hallucinating. Out of touch.

Doesn't what? Breaking my head with latex?

I'll rather not have sex than use condom tbh. Even though my fellow advocate of raw sex is currently pregnant.

We'll do test and stuff and we're good.

Una too like fvck for here

But truth be told raw is sweeter with the Right person that will make you orgasm

Xinzu:
Have u ever licked a candy with the wrap on? That's exactly how it feels.

hmmm guy

If you don't use birth control, it is very risky.

makydebbie:
I'll rather not have sex than use condom tbh. Even though my fellow advocate of raw sex is currently pregnant.

We'll do test and stuff and we're good.

makydebbie:
I'll rather not have sex than use condom tbh. Even though my fellow advocate of raw sex is currently pregnant.

We'll do test and stuff and we're good.

Hmmm it can't feel that bad compared to skin on skin nah?

Xinzu:
Have u ever licked a candy with the wrap on? That's exactly how it feels.

Well why would you lick condom on dick