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Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by desoul2004(m): 7:22am On Jul 20, 2018 |
dopemama: You're a prophet. 5 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Yhelay(m): 7:26am On Jul 20, 2018 |
this op is very on point some of the issues our parents raise about girls of some tribes and towns Ogun girls: They are diabolical Mbaise girls: Wickedness is their other name Ibadan girls: They are dirty and flirt Imo girls: they are too materialistic Ebira girls: they are slowpoke Ikwere/Ogoni: They are too troublesome Igbo & Ibibio: They are "expensive" to marry I just weak 2 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by donbachi(m): 7:26am On Jul 20, 2018 |
Tribal unforgiveness.a particular tribe feels conquered,and as such sees the other tribes as an everlasting enemies.yes!you all know that very story,how they used economic policies like starvation to send that very tribe into extinction. another tribe feels they are more superior to others,and as such.wouldn't marry another tribe,some parent will tell their child"dont marry that very tribe,they cook with too much palm oil and peppe".so imagine how some reasons .Religious factors everywhere.muslims not allowed to marry christians.even in christiandom,a jehovah withness cant marry a catholic,etc.also,the confused parents that will always want to dictate how their children live their lives,who to marry and who not to marry.finally.foolish lovers that cant listen to their own hearts,but listens to that of their parents...marry your heart desire and the heart desires of your parents.as for me,the heart is mine and i chose whom to love with it,and the di**k is also mine,i also chose where to put it...bye. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by nazablossom(f): 7:27am On Jul 20, 2018 |
I'm a living witness, don't ask me to narrate, it's so painful. Up till now, I still ask my self, what if? 1 Like |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Billygee2u: 7:32am On Jul 20, 2018 |
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Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by hismerhill(m): 7:33am On Jul 20, 2018 |
derrydinny: Brother I don't know u but I say God bless u. No be child's play matter walahi 4 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by baddosky1: 7:34am On Jul 20, 2018 |
chillychill: You lie! |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Chikicaka(f): 7:36am On Jul 20, 2018 |
Not only family, opinions of total strangers...you see them on NL asking ridiculous questions Should i marry a single mom Should i marry this guy that hit me once Should i marry this girl that is greedy and materialistic Should i marry this muslim guy yadayadayada, sorting opinions is good but we forget that most times the onus is on us to decide our future 7 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Divay22(f): 7:41am On Jul 20, 2018 |
dopemama:And mostly if they ain't in support of it and something bad gets to happen to him. Be ready to face the music.. Na last born of the family i like marry o or middle one. But elder brother or son, my power no catch am o 3 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by ruthgiftonjeh98(m): 7:41am On Jul 20, 2018 |
donstan18:CORRECT BRO |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by sheettle(m): 7:44am On Jul 20, 2018 |
b0rn2fuck:LOL! The difference between what you were told and what mum tells me is that she includes Lagos girls to her own list. 1 Like |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by sabi99(m): 7:46am On Jul 20, 2018 |
deepwater:
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Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by sexdoll: 7:49am On Jul 20, 2018 |
this is what happens when people allow stereotypical mentality to control their lives. unfortunately, so many people are guilty of this. even those complaining here on this thread. why would someone i consider quite intelligent tell me never to marry a nurse because nurses are known to be super flirts? i asked him, "guy is it the nurse that makes someone a flirt or the flirt that makes someone a nurse?" the idiot hasn't replied me with a sensible answer ever since. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Hisduchess(f): 7:49am On Jul 20, 2018 |
derrydinny:God bless you for this.the role of a family in marriages can never be underestimated. if they hate u I mean real hatred my dear its completely finished for the person cos they will make sure the person sees hell on earth,cos they can go to any extent.no matter how good a man or woman is, at a time they kinda starts listening to other people's opinion about their spouse and the r/ship will start having problems. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by delishpot: 7:50am On Jul 20, 2018 |
post=69539374: Its the same God but not the same mode of worship. One church would forbid one thing while the other would not mind it. One church has programe 3 times a week while the other is a sunday sunday thing. Such differences can cause marital problems if care is not taken unless they both are sunday sunday christians in their respective churches. There need to be understanding on this one. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:51am On Jul 20, 2018 |
delishpot:True. True. True. Good points raised by you here sir/ma. We are just seeing this from another angle. Thank you. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Welcomme: 7:53am On Jul 20, 2018 |
eluquenson:Ebira people don suffer. .Almost every parent don't want their children to marry Ebira. The truth is, Ebira people are unnecessarily violent and always angry. You will hardly see them laugh but they mske it up with intelligence. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by luminouz(m): 7:54am On Jul 20, 2018 |
nazablossom:Tell me babe!!! I wanna know |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by SenorFax(m): 7:54am On Jul 20, 2018 |
BabbanBura:You just busted my brain bro..... Kudos |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Hisduchess(f): 7:55am On Jul 20, 2018 |
dopemama: this is so ooo true.the war no be here |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 20, 2018 |
SPOT-ON!... irrespective of all the barriers, I go for who I want. #ITS MY LIFE! 1 Like |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Grupo(m): 7:56am On Jul 20, 2018 |
derrydinny: All you listed will only happen if you live in your family house with your wife. As a man, endeavor to move away from your family house before getting married. Else, you will face some problems in your marriage, irrespective of where you married from. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by BestDude: 8:14am On Jul 20, 2018 |
Tflex01:lol. Only people who are not educated will allow such. By educated I don't mean just knowing how to read and write. If your thought process are not well co-ordinated, sorry you are not educated. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by neonly: 8:16am On Jul 20, 2018 |
Ukalejohn: Marry a Muslim at yur own risk if u are a Christian 6 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by JamesIkosong(m): 8:18am On Jul 20, 2018 |
If you have written a book, don't just rush to publish it. Contact an editor.
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Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 20, 2018 |
post=69538593: Good morning You missed the biggest issue regarding tribalism The biggest elephant in Nigeria- We do not all believe in One Nigeria Some of us believe in freedom and self determination- with the same passion you have about Nigeria, some breathe and pray and dream for/of Biafra So you see? General statements like your last one are erroneous That said, with different nations, it would be perfectly beautiful for Ronke to marry Uche Cos they are free beings who find love And not puppets of a white man's uncaring experiment Tied to dissimilar peoples and doomed to never amount to anything much that can compete on the global stage, well, read "In Biafra Africa died" I digress shaa, this thread is about marriage sef. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Realhommie(m): 8:23am On Jul 20, 2018 |
tiredoflife:Very true.. When i posted that Reno Omokri's tweet on a guy not obligated to cater to his girlfriend's needs on my whatsapp status, many of my female friends all said same thing, na poor man or person wey no get money dey think like that. Lol Two even went full throttle, omo come see para na.. It's sad really.. And the Op is so on point. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by BabbanBura(m): 8:23am On Jul 20, 2018 |
chillychill: He never jam pikin like me. By the way i like the message on your DP |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by omooba969(m): 8:29am On Jul 20, 2018 |
nazablossom: Wetin happen na? Biko, share ya story. 1 Like |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Realhommie(m): 8:30am On Jul 20, 2018 |
nazablossom:You could try to just give a little insight please, share your experience... Let's learn a thing or two, thanks |
Re: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by omooba969(m): 8:34am On Jul 20, 2018 |
Divay22: What sort of music? Families wey don jam craze-man will tell you otherwise. |
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