martyns303:

Ya! Am occupied, i school. Funny enough one of the close times we shared was when i got enrolled and was doing my clearance, she was practically filling all the forms, photocoping and arranging them, she would come 2 school just 2 visit, even when i'll be coming home same day, like she can't go an hour without me, i wonder how she survived 3yrs. Gush!! Hahaha omg!

iice:

My ex is that way. It's been over 14yrs and still

martyns303:

'65'? Hehehehe i read a post where u said the same thing.

Why would i post a different thing? And is something wrong with being 65?

topup:

Find a word similar to ruby and write that instead everytime you want to write 'her name'.

Or just stop writing immediately.

You're not quite over her, I don't believe you can ever be completely over someone you love and still love, you must feel nothing for them, even hatred still means that you have strong feelings towards the person.

I think the relationship obviously affected you a great deal, because you let it really touch the innermost parts of you, this isn't your fault, it's a lovely quality any wife would want in a husband. I believe that you will gradually have to forget about her, since your heart can't hate or become indifferent to her. So over time, hopefully you'll begin to say her name less and less, make it not an issue if you exclaim her name, you can't make forgetting happen by force, make it a no-big-deal thing, and hopefully it will slowly slip away.

If you make it a bigger issue than it is, it will definitely be a hot topic in your mind for months and maybe years to come.

I still remember the name of my ex, though I've forgotten everything else, I certainly don't shout his name out randomly , but there are a teeny few parts left to completely fizzle out, I can't force it to fizz, it'll happen in its own time.

Peace.