Hello peeps let me just give you guys a brief synopsis of my predicament, i am a facebook user and had built up my profile for almost 6 years so when i woke up one morning to log in i got a message that my account had being deactivated,after trying all i could to no avail i had to register another profile and started adding friends including my girlfriend, when she saw my invite she called and asked me why i deleted her and i told her i did not delete her that my account was disabled by the fb team she hung up and sent me this message


You are rude and stupid, you r such a fool.Who the hell do you think you are?i hate your ways,u can go to blazes, oponu,u don't know how to treat a lady,i can never pray 2 have you 4 a hubby foolish idiot,

That was the most rude message i ever received from a girlfriend in my life,and coming from a girl i really had plans of settling down with i was shocked to say the least now she is on her knees begging for forgiveness please if you were in my shoes what would you do?

^^^^^that what you get for dealing/messing with immature people. its not your fault and there is not much you can do but laugh and move on.

you are spot on,i already made up my mind to move on and forget about her,just need to know if i am making the right decision, imagine what would happen if one marries her and she begins to exhibit more of her hidden characters

You should be thanking fb team, .
Anyways the choice is up to you, will you 4give her or move on?

Wait when it happened at first did u tell her?
Are u guys in d same state?
Me thinks she was hurt, 4give her.

Facebook wahala sef dat one pass me sha.

O boy you should be jumping up and down to rejoice the fact that your girlfriend reaveled her true color to you before you settled down with her. Thats a warning of more madness to come. You better walk away with immediate effect.

No i did not tell her cos i opened the new profile immediately the old one was deactivated but she was the first one i added,
no we don't live in the same state, what amazed me was that we did not have any outstanding issues and i still sent her a message late night which she replied ending it with the traditional "i love you", i also wondered why i would delete someone and then add the person back all under 8 hours, i guess she was to quick to judge, she just called me now and said "why are you acting like a baby"

So facebook still dey cause kasala, anyway i fink u should let her go, or is she 13yrs old?
sorry man no offense but thats just how she behaved

She is 23 years old and about to go for national service so i really dont think she is a baby, i guess that was a divine revelation.

leboss6:

Hello peeps let me just give you guys a brief synopsis of my predicament, i am a facebook user and had built up my profile for almost 6 years so when i woke up one morning to log in i got a message that my account had being deactivated,after trying all i could to no avail i had to register another profile and started adding friends including my girlfriend, when she saw my invite she called and asked me why i deleted her and i told her i did not delete her that my account was disabled by the fb team she hung up and sent me this message


You are rude and silly, you r such a fool.Who the hell do you think you are?i hate your ways,u can go to blazes, oponu,u don't know how to treat a lady,i can never pray 2 have you 4 a hubby foolish ,

That was the most rude message i ever received from a girlfriend in my life,and coming from a girl i really had plans of settling down with i was shocked to say the least now she is on her knees begging for forgiveness please if you were in my shoes what would you do?

Wow, She acted rather in an immature way, however, that is not enough to throw a relationship you built up away. I think you should forgive her but keep on a very short leash and watch her very carefully from now on.

The way to know if your potential wifey is good wife material is to watch the way she treat others she consider below her, e.g waiters, cooks, gate-men etc. That will help you judge her real character. If she show no respect to folks like that, then you know she is not reveling to you who she really is, then you can make your decision.

Goodluck.

^^^^shouldnt he take how she treats HIM as a tool to judge her?!

Brov, such an act is absurd and i would'nt take that level of disrespect from a woman i'm seriously considering to settle down with.

@OP: You've just found the easiest escape route. Take it.

I've been a similar situation before, but in my case I'd seen the signs ahead of time and was thinking of how to end it.
She did what your gf did, and that was it. She called and texted severally but I never answered or replied.

Why? because such ladies can easily make silly decisions later and they hardly ever change.
I implore you to do so too (if you haven't done so already).

leboss6: No i did not tell her cos i opened the new profile immediately the old one was deactivated but she was the first one i added,
no we don't live in the same state, what amazed me was that we did not have any outstanding issues and i still sent her a message late night which she replied ending it with the traditional "i love you", i also wondered why i would delete someone and then add the person back all under 8 hours, i guess she was to quick to judge, she just called me now and said "why are you acting like a baby"

I h8te it when some1 tells me i'm acting like a baby , so that makes her the matured one, infact i don vex don't listen to whatever she's tryin to say.

Mehn, na wa o. Even if you 4give her now the relationship wouldn't be the same again, it won't be long b4 u guys break-up.
So what are u going to do ?

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^shouldnt he take how she treats HIM as a tool to judge her?!

People tend to fake when they are in a relationships, so I will usually watch how they treat others while putting into consideration of their acts with me.

tolutara:



Wow, She acted rather in an immature way, however, that is not enough to throw a relationship you built up away. I think you should forgive her but keep on a very short leash and watch her very carefully from now on.

The way to know if your potential wifey is good wife material is to watch the way she treat others she consider below her, e.g waiters, cooks, gate-men etc. That will help you judge her real character. If she show no respect to folks like that, then you know she is not reveling to you who she really is, then you can make your decision.

Goodluck.

Thanks a bunch for the advice,point well taken,you really seem to be schooled in matters of the heart cos you have brought a whole new perspective to my predicament now i have to really think deep and make a decision, God help me, thanks again

leboss6:

Thanks a bunch for the advice,point well taken,you really seem to be schooled in matters of the heart cos you have brought a whole new perspective to my predicament now i have to really think deep and make a decision, God help me, thanks again

You are welcome,

Rotfl @ Oponu. What does it mean, please?

that your girl get poison mouth sha but what i'm most worried about is the lack of respect she vagrantly exhibits. . .not healthy for what you'd consider a serious relationship

she called you an oponnu? that's very bad oh.   oponnu meals 'block head', 'fool', 'dunce'  

i think the highest insult i ever thrown at a guy via text is to call him 'oniranu'. and that was because he was played all sorts of sneaky pranks/games that kept me always on my toes and to cap it all, he lied too much. . .

anyways, if she is genuinely sorry, forgive her.
sometimes when we are angry, we say things that we really do not mean.

we all make mistake, i advise you forgive her broda

Nnkan ti facebook ma da sile,agbara facebook o le ka. Pele, fi owo wo nu ko darijii.

Missy B:

Rotfl @ Oponu.  What does it mean, please?

oponu is a Yoruba word and it means a fool,dunce,idiot and other words in that bracket, its the height of insults, mostly used by local people i really don't know where that came from

Mudley313:

that your girl get poison mouth sha but what i'm most worried about is the lack of respect she vagrantly exhibits. . .not healthy for what you'd consider a serious relationship

My brother abi you no see me see wahala, poison is an understatement i think venom should be more like it.

leboss6:

oponu is a Yoruba word and it means a fool,dunce, and other words in that bracket, its the height of insults, mostly used by local people i really don't know where that came from

Thanks!
I've learnt sum'n' new. Lemme go use it on someone.

^u might just get a slap lol.

daylae:

^u might just get a slap lol.

Na Lie!
I'm gonna use it on NL, where noborry can tosh me.

Thanks! The first person I'll use it on, noh go like himself at all. 

I'm sure You'll watch ma back. 
BTW . . . . I don't know what Your siggy means, exactly but I Likey.

^galatia indeed
@missy b that's smart.