MRSoftapples:
Yeah we deserve the best,,, when i see both male and female saying they are fighting for love,,, i just shake my head..

You can't fight for the love of someone who is not fighting for your love..

Relationships are the efforts of two people, not one..

If you find someone you really want to date, boring,,, its because the person is not feeling you, The same person you find boring and snubby, is the same person other guy or Lady finds lively...

A guy or lady that truly cares for you will always make sure not to hurt you emotionally...

You gave him or her ten miss calls and yet she or he is busy picking calls of other people,, my brother or sister move on with your life..

sometimes we look too long at the closed door and we don't see the one which has been opened for us..

BetterKola:



I hate it when people Generalise on Social Media. To be sincere what you posted up there do not define the word Relationship. Do you know that some gullible folks will swallow this your line without any Objection.

Next time try not to Generalize.

Well, I am not a Relationship expert but I have seen a lot of people in peaceful and Enviable relationship and I do not think it was draining.

chiommy123:
Advicing someone in abusive or one sided relationship doesn't always work cos they keep going back until its done on them and they advice themselves

Saff:
I can generalise because it’s my opinion. Thanks.

chiommy123:
Advicing someone in abusive or one sided relationship doesn't always work cos they keep going back until its done on them and they advice themselves

UnclePrincipal:

I used to date a girl like you. she was so selfish with her emotions. i did all the loving and caring but i wasn't really getting back what i was giving. I knew she love me, she's just trying to protect herself from being heartbroken. But i wasn't pleased with that attitude,although she seem happy with what she was doing. I guess she thought her methods were working. In my own mind i was just being patient, believing she will change eventually, maybe when she realized i am not playing with her emotions. But she was too deep in what she was doing that i had no option than to break up with her, not when someone else is showing me the love and care i seek for. The day i was broke up with her, she was still proving that she doesn't really care and telling me that she's happy she's not too deep in love with me but i knew she was just pretending. After the break up, someone that claimed didn't care was stalking my social media, telling my friends and hers that i wasn't good to her.


I just want you to know that this your method will only work for a while. If you still remain selfish, your man will meet someone who will shower him with love and care you have refuse to give.

Colourich:
Gone are those days when I barely think of myself in a relationship, now I'm very selfish in relationship and it feels good to think about virtually only my happiness.

Colourich:
Well I trained myself to be selfish and let my man love more, its working out well.

ordainbuzz:
you are a bitch

Ishilove:

If only people will realize that one man's meat is another man's poison. When you enter into a committed relationship, you close your eyes to everyone else so that you won't cheat. However, if your partner starts taking your love for granted, open your eyes again so that you can see others who will appreciate and return your affection.

BluntBoy:


Colourich, learn from this. Never take your partner's love for granted. Even if he doesn't mind your selfishness, learn to be unselfish. A good man like that deserves better and if you don't treat him well, there are girls out there who will or who already are taking care of him.

Colourich:
You guys are plainly misunderstanding me, I never take his love for granted, I just value my happiness above others.

BluntBoy:


There is no misunderstanding here. Would you still be in the relationship if it was your partner who was valuing his happiness above others? Being selfish, I know you wouldn't. So, you are definitely taking him for granted in a way you wouldn't like him to do to you.

Relationship takes commitment and compromises, among other things, to work. You can be selfish sometimes but the way you described your own sort of selfishness is not fit for a true relationship.

Colourich:
I've been in a relationship where I was as selfless as a saint, guess what? I ended up hurting myself the more. So my dear, I am better for it now, I don't need any lecturing on how I should go about my relationship.

iamJ:
if u like deserve or dont deserve, me no get power for plenty talk, if u dont like the way i treat u, i no lock door biko, show urself out, there are 5 billion women in the world, when fish plenty for river, fisher man no dey rush

[img]https://media./images/b19bd2fa3145aa8489f90c770e1e7d9b/tenor.gif[/img]

BluntBoy:


You yourself said you ended up hurting yourself. Hopefully, your boyfriend won't end up hurting himself.

Ishilove:
You are making sense.

Colourich:
Its not I care anyway.

BluntBoy:


You better care now before it becomes too late. I don't want to read stories about men being scum o.

iamJ:
if u like deserve or dont deserve, me no get power for plenty talk, if u dont like the way i treat u, i no lock door biko, show urself out, there are 5 billion women in the world, when fish plenty for river, fisher man no dey rush

[img]https://media./images/b19bd2fa3145aa8489f90c770e1e7d9b/tenor.gif[/img]

Colourich:
So many fish in the river, you up catching crayfish.

Ishilove:

By one-sided, I mean one person giving all the love and affection in the relationship, without receiving a commensurate measure of the same

ola12:
Ishilove, nice thread

Colourich:
So many fish in the river, you up catching crayfish.

iamJ:
did i mention u? why cant u things see me and ignore, must u mention me? as u have mentioned me nw what have u achieved with your life? we are talking about fish, organism like u dey drop her tots do urself a favor and get lost? ignore me like i ignore


owerri mechanic i see u 2018 women are breaking down barriers, becoming great in their various specialties, ure here, running after me whenever u see me, obsession ure wasting ur time, give it a rest biko, i appreciate the way u seek my attention but like a stray dog, droll after me from afar

till the next time i visit this section, u can both get out as usual

QueenSekxy:

don't mind him, last last he Will still end up with his grand mother.

Ishilove:

It's simple really. Many people are in one-sided relationships. They stay in such unhealthy relationships because of a multiplicity of reasons ranging from naivety, self esteem issues and desperation.

Saff:
I can generalise because it’s my opinion. Thanks.

motherfucker:
I see a future feminist if she isn't one already.