People i need advise oh , since i got married my wife has always been checking my phone and picks up a quarrel when she sees that i got a call from an ex or someone girl has called my phone three times in the week , she no do this one before why now, i have told her to stop going thru my phone if it will cause quarrel becos am not dating any of them they call to say hi , must i stop talking to people especially girls becos am now married,

a gal callin u two three times a week, wetin happen
her papa die
wat business has ur ex got calling u so often, anyway
if u dont mind a men calling ur wife three four times a week them cool
and of cos if u dont mind her talking to her exes a couple of times a week then cool

vivaladiva:

a gal callin u two three times a week, wetin happen
her papa die
wat business has your ex got calling u so often, anyway
if u dont mind a men calling your wife three four times a week them cool
and of cos if u dont mind her talking to her exes a couple of times a week then cool

nice one

ashewo-man. Na wah for you.are you 2face idibia?

Put pin code for your phone and always keep your phone close to you. In that way, you avoid quarrels. Also, if you really don't have anything with the girls, ask her to pick your calls.

Tell your ex to stop calling you regularly. if you really don't have any thing going on with her.
And respect the fact that you are now married and reduce the no of girls you talk to WEEKLY.
Imagine your wife doing the same?

fubiluv:

Tell your ex to stop calling you regularly. if you really don't have any thing going on with her.
And respect the fact that you are now married and reduce the no of girls you talk to WEEKLY.
Imagine your wife doing the same?

very well spoken

Spyker:

Put pin code for your phone and always keep your phone close to you. In that way, you avoid quarrels. Also, if you really don't have anything with the girls, ask her to pick your calls.

are you advising him to carry on with his evil did?

QUIT PLAYING GAMES AND FACE YOUR NEW FAMILY. ASHAWO

[size=15pt]guy ,remove the cobweb wey dey your brain cos thats why u are not thinking properly.what do u mean by`must i stop talking to people especially girls becos am now married`.i hope she is also free to call her ex.u need be reminded that marriage is all about sacrifices.if u cant sacrifice your silly calls for her happiness,then u are better off a bachelor than a married man.guy,use your head[/size]

vivaladiva:

a gal callin u two three times a week, wetin happen
her papa die
wat business has your ex got calling u so often, anyway
if u dont mind a men calling your wife three four times a week them cool
and of cos if u dont mind her talking to her exes a couple of times a week then cool

Thanks. u've said it all.

LOVE.4BUG:

are you advising him to carry on with his evil did?

[b]QUIT PLAYING GAMES AND FACE YOUR NEW FAMILY. ASHAWO


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I like this saying that says ''do unto others as you want them to do unto you''. Put yourself in your wife's shoes if some man or an ex is calling her regularly how would feel? If you would feel bad or jealous, that is exactly the same way your wife is feeling right now. I can deduce from your comment that you may still feel something for those girls, cut your calls down with them. Nobody says you shouldn't talk with girls but the manner you handle it goes along way.

Sometimes you can even ask her to pick the call before handing it over to you. Please reduce the calls, your ex or some girl does not have business calling you every day unless they being mischievous.

LOVE.4BUG:

are you advising him to carry on with his evil did?
QUIT PLAYING GAMES AND FACE YOUR NEW FAMILY. ASHAWO

Hope you read where i said he should allow his wife to pick his calls if he has nothing going on with the girls.
@Poster, ask your ex to stop calling you. Simple.

Spyker:

Put pin code for your phone and always keep your phone close to you. In that way, you avoid quarrels. Also, if you really don't have anything with the girls, ask her to pick your calls.

Then its going to be a bigger prolbem, cause I will break the shyt out of that phone. Lock a phone on who? keep his phone close to him how? madness!

Ur wife doenst trust U like she wants to and that myt be cos she doesn't think U should trust her if she were doing what it is U r doing or cos Ur just not giving her enough reason to rest secured in the knowledge that U can be trusted.

What's Ur own sef with hanging onto the past? Is the devil marketing "Insurance" to U gains a failed relationship with Ur wife or are U just being naieve?

The wife sef dey find her own trouble but I noticed that even those of us that think Ur phone is Ur business also know that we'd care what happens on it at some point when we see we really think the person matters in our lives.

takeit2010:

People i need advise oh , since i got married my wife has always been checking my phone and picks up a quarrel when she sees that i got a call from an ex or someone girl has called my phone three times in the week , she no do this one before why now, i have told her to stop going thru my phone if it will cause quarrel becos am not dating any of them they call to say hi , must i stop talking to people especially girls becos am now married,

You are MARRIED, did you get that? Why must she put up with ur ex(s) calling u 3times a wk?

She is suspecting cos of (maybe) ur recent behaviours

@justwise- this guy is a fool. no one shld take him serious. he is a big fool. a real baboon. he shld not be taken serious

ndubuis:

@justwise- this guy is a fool. no one shld take him serious. he is a big fool. a real baboon. he shld not be taken serious

Shamelss criminal, i got the threat you sent to my inbox, i'm waiting for ur dead body to act it out.

she's looking for good reasons to begin,

Change the names of girls that calls you on your phone book to their last names instead of using first name. Delete ur messages and your call records before coming home. In this way she wouldn't know those that called or texted you. Again get a good phone that has numerous inbox. Then do automatic divert to an inbox u think she wouldn't open.

Iceugwa:

Change the names of girls that calls you on your phone book to their last names instead of using first name. Delete your messages and your call records before coming home. In this way she wouldn't know those that called or texted you. Again get a good phone that has numerous inbox. Then do automatic divert to an inbox u think she wouldn't open.

Some-one sounds like a player . All cheaters get caught out eventually, Maybe your girlfriend our wife has learned some of your tricks,

xxcarolxx:

Some-one sounds like a player . All cheaters get caught
out eventually, Maybe your girlfriend our wife has learned some of your tricks,

xxcarolxx:

Some-one sounds like a player . All cheaters get caught out eventually, Maybe your girlfriend our wife has learned some of your tricks,

its not possible i gat lots of tricks can educate you on more. Put hold on i'm not a cheat cos presently i gat no babe.

guy ur a married man, and for u to allow ur phone to cause a quarrel btw u and ur WIFE it means that u re not taking her seriously. ur telling her not to pick ur calls or read ur texts (why would u if u ve got no skeleton in ur cupboard) ll not solve problems but create tension. think its best to sit ur wife down and talk to her assurring her of u love for her, she fells theatened may be u do not do those little things u used to do for her, u do not take note of those qualities that drew u to her in the first place, u do not compliment her cooking and when she puts on that lovely dress any more, pls try and save ur marriage if not it ll hit the rocks. Marriage is 80% communication and 20% , think about ur children,save ur home.

ndubuis:

@justwise- this guy is a fool. no one shld take him serious. he is a big fool. a real baboon. he shld not be taken serious

Mr ndubuis , i think u r one very senseless guy who comes to nairaland to say things without thinking some has asked for advise and u r abusing ur father , i think you should not say anything if u dont have the brains to

Iceugwa:

Change the names of girls that calls you on your phone book to their last names instead of using first name. Delete your messages and your call records before coming home. In this way she wouldn't know those that called or texted you. Again get a good phone that has numerous inbox. Then do automatic divert to an inbox u think she wouldn't open.

Iceugwa i was in similar situation and its what i did and made sure i cleared my phone all the time as women need security and would not want to allow any threat even if its they do not intend to but we are tlking about humans here with motives and different intentions so Mr Poster be wise and dont allow ur wife to see anything that will make her complain,

takeit2010:

People i need advise oh , since i got married my wife has always been checking my phone and picks up a quarrel when she sees that i got a call from an ex or someone girl has called my phone three times in the week , she no do this one before why now, i have told her to stop going thru my phone if it will cause quarrel becos am not dating any of them they call to say hi , must i stop talking to people especially girls becos am now married,

Bros . . . how long d'u want ur marriage to last?

a) 1 month . . . solution: tell ur wife to go fkcu herself & continue ur " harmless" escapade.
b) 5 years. . . . solution: put ur phone on silent and delete all ur received and dialled calls but remember. . .everyday for d thief, d 5th year of ur marriage for d owner
c) forever . . . solution: tell d babes to stop calling u and ensure ur wife believes it has ended.

We'll u just gotta tone it down. .;

Guy go and settle with her oh and send all those stupid girls and xtupid ex's of ur aways so u can have a peaceful life with the one u said "I DO" to