most guy do wrong thing to their girl friend, and at the end of the day they will be expecting the girl to say i am sorry, instead of them say that i am sorry, WHY

Thank God u say most, cos my fiance tells me he is sorry when he is wrong, only that I also have to say sorry when I am wrond

Most guys is untrue, some guys who are arrogant may be doing that. But in most cases girls think their men are in error when they are not. women want men to say they are sorry even when the women are the ones in error, this is very rampant in relationships.

Answer this simple question, are you with a guy who does not like to admit his mistakes?

lizzayo:

most guy do wrong thing to their girl friend, and at the end of the day they will be expecting the girl to say i am sorry, instead of them say that i am sorry, WHY

Same goes for the Ladies. Its vice-versa.

true

But no need of telling me sorry when you are not

my ex can sing sorry like hell but b4 you turn, he dos it again and again and again!!!! and still say sorry it will not happen again. but

While it seems a common behavior among both genders. It is important to know this simple fact. When two people are on the defensive, the result is disagreement and quarrels with that there is no room for sorry, One must fall even if the matter is never settled.

Take for instance, the boy-friend is late for a date (typically by at least 2hrs) the girl is already fuming and at her tail-end of patience. when the guy finally shows up she waits for him to settle down then flares up
1: "Are you planning to cancel the date, you should at least have called me to tell me so" OR
2: "Why are you so inconsiderate, this is not the first time." she goes on to recount other occasions
3: "I am not speaking with you, please take me home. I am tired"

The guy will either flare up babbling incomprehensibly or simply walkout on you   and probably be holding a grudge for at least 2-3 days

It is always important to give the guy the benefit of the doubt, try to simmer down and ask
1: "I hope there's no problem, you took long i was beginning to get worried, what happened"

That is all you need to ask and he will either say, "I am sorry, this and that happened, we might need to cancel" or "Here I bought you this on the way"

Problem solved

When I saw the topic, I thought another uncalled for generalization. But I'm glad you said "most" and not all.

Men do not play that dumb AZZ Victim game.

If U want someone telling you sorry all the time go have a child that apoligizes for doing stuff wrong to you.

i can say sorry dont see any big deal

Trust me if in the first place he noes that in the end you're always the one saying it first even when he's wrong, he'll forever keep doing it

It is not demeaning saying sorry to a gf.Will sure do if i need to;but wouldn't when i don't mean it.

If 'sorry' is the answer, kindly repeat the question.

Says who?
I dont know where y'all get your statistics from, as kids you tend to do that, but once you are matured the game change, It takes abosolutely nothing from you to say Sorry and all the guys I know do apologise to their wives or girlfriends, So if you are still on that puppy love ish i can understand

@Poster
DO U MEAN why gurlz can't say i'm sory to thier B/F or
why men do'nt say i'm sory to thier wives?
of which many men even say it on their kneels!
i really dread the source of ur statistics.