Hello my fellow nairalander.please am not good at writing.
So this is about my female best friend I posted a year ago https://www.nairaland.com/3889416/scared-date-longtime-best-female
.my realationship with her went deeper to the extend even though we are from different tribes we have visited each other village and families but still with no intention of dating or sexual . our emotions and feelings speak each times we are together but still we have never been sexual.not untill last week we spent a night out in the club chill in VIP just me and her then we retired to our hotel room as always but this time something strange happen we got drunk and instead to relax at the hotel balcony as always she insisted we go straight to the Room and sleep. She asked for my phone to watch some porn,One thing lead to another all I can remember is we having lousy sex. When I woke up the next morning she took my car keys and was gone(maybe she noticed I was super drunk and probably can't drive the next morning) she packed the car in my store and hand over the keys to my boys then tell them to call me i asked them to give her the phone but she won't answear instead she texted me saying.. picture will be attached below. So my question :why is she acting up: like she has blocked me and unblock me about 3 times since then.also she don't return my charts or calls all she be saying is let's just be casual players ,she is in pains ( tried visiting her she been avoiding me ). Is she just acting up or she mean it? Same person our flights for the past 6 years never lasted 72 hours now is taking almost 2 weeks


Pls pals no insults just 5 to 10 reasonable advice
Am good I believe nairaland is a forum where we share and learn also help each other. God bless us all

Bishop Bishop

Two of you were like cats playing around the pot of soup in the kitchen.Didn't she(and you) realise you are likely to knock each other one day?

Your relationship is unlikely to be the same again. You may decide to actually date or she will just avoid you as she's doing.

Just give her time, she is still going through the guilt phase .she will get over it but if she doesn't brother count your losses and move on ,try not to force you self on her you could lose your respect .I know it won't be easy going with what you both have shared/still sharing but that's life.

*clears throat*...
A wise man once said "a man cannot have a chicken as a pet, one day he must chop it "
back to you, my son.you have done very well by knacking her.u gave her abdominal pain,bro.I'm proud of you, son.
if a girl has pains after sex, that means the guy did it well, hope u took her legs back towards her shoulder ND hit it well well.
6 fvcking years Huh??.. you tried sha.
shey u say u want advice??..
now, 1st things first, you love her,u created a thread for her twice.
and I don't think that she probably loves you sha. cos,she was Hot that night and she used u to cure herself.
and She ran before u woke. and now is avoiding you.
wait first, what is even wrong with girls sef??.. you knack finish, u come run. why??.. and u keep blocking and unblocking d dude.
bro, just stay clear first. don't chat her up or anything. give her time to think. don't bother her. she will come around.. oh and when she does, abeg knack am again. otherwise,she go put you back to friendzone again.
friend zone is not a good place,son.evil things happen there.
so Las Las.. just give her space, she will come around.and on no account should u proclaim your love for her.. just act like nothing happened,and be ur normal self. it will confuse her more,which will give u d chance to knack again.. and again and again and again. and then y'all would now best friends with benefits.

I know you asked for "serious" advice, but... honestly bros, did you have to wunjor her abdomen?? You wicked o!

Seriously though, just relax and give her space - don't worry about it, she'll come around. Some women (and men) need longer to sort stuff like that out.

Noble3264:
Just give her time, she is still going through the guilt phase .she will get over it but if she doesn't brother count your losses and move on ,try not to force you self on her you could lose your respect .I know it won't be easy going with what you both have shared/still sharing but that's life.

Exactly. Guilt phase.

fayded:
*clears throat*...
A wise man once said "a man cannot have a chicken as a pet, one day he must chop it "
back to you, my son.you have done very well by knacking her.u gave her abdominal pain,bro.I'm proud of you, son.
if a girl has pains after sex, that means the guy did it well, hope u took her legs back towards her shoulder ND hit it well well.
6 fvcking years Huh??.. you tried sha.
shey u say u want advice??..
now, 1st things first, you love her,u created a thread for her twice.
and I don't think that she probably loves you sha. cos,she was Hot that night and she used u to cure herself.
and She ran before u woke. and now is avoiding you.
wait first, what is even wrong with girls sef??.. you knack finish, u come run. why??.. and u keep blocking and unblocking d dude.
bro, just stay clear first. don't chat her up or anything. give her time to think. don't bother her. she will come around.. oh and when she does, abeg knack am again. otherwise,she go put you back to friendzone again.
friend zone is not a good place,son.evil things happen there.
so Las Las.. just give her space, she will come around.and on no account should u proclaim your love for her.. just act like nothing happened,and be ur normal self. it will confuse her more,which will give u d chance to knack again.. and again and again and again. and then y'all would now best friends with benefits.

bro I should not lie I love this girl from day one even thought her bf is bigger than me she respect me she might be in pains who know? I tried visiting her 4 days after the incident she avoided me .thing now is she really in pian? how will I know cuz everytime she ignores my call and chat.so i manned up and didn't chat her up to 3 days after and she text me she is in hospital. should I come see her? She swear I should not near the hospital.

Bishopvic:
bro I should not lie I love this girl from day one even thought her bf is bigger than me she respect me she might be in pains who know? I tried visiting her 4 days after the incident she avoided me .thing now is she really in pian? how will I know cuz everytime she ignores my call and chat.so i manned up and didn't chat her up to 3 days after and she text me she is in hospital. should I come see her? She swear I should not near the hospital.

dudeeeeeee... don't let me call u a Bitchhhhhh..
u re d 1 saying.. u wanna see her..
1st rule:dont ask for permission ever.
get ur Ass up and visit her.. and come with sumfn for her.. fruits or sumfn.
and don't let her tell u what to do. u tell her what to do.
for Christ sake,u just knocked her, man.
u knocked her. d tables have changed, u re d 1 with the upper hand. don't let her control you or this. go and see there.

Bishop don finally shine the long awaited Kongo.

Congrats on your new height. Keep pressing on

Besties

These people are.always wonderful.

fayded:


dudeeeeeee... don't let me call u a Bitchhhhhh..
u re d 1 saying.. u wanna see her..
1st rule:dont ask for permission ever.
get ur Ass up and visit her.. and come with sumfn for her.. fruits or sumfn.
and don't let her tell u what to do. u tell her what to do.
for Christ sake,u just knocked her, man.
u knocked her. d tables have changed, u re d 1 with the upper hand. don't let her control you or this. go and see there.

Bro, You over Sabi jare

Oga bishop don go shift person abdomen with im kongo


meanwhile i no blame anybody o but why would she even watch porn while knowing shes drunk and theres an able bodied man in the same room with her



or bishop are you sure you are telling the truth?


No be you give her the porn make she watch without her asking?


You sure say no be set am up with the porn so?

highqueen:
Besties

These people are.always wonderful.

I swear

fayded:


dudeeeeeee... don't let me call u a Bitchhhhhh..
u re d 1 saying.. u wanna see her..
1st rule:dont ask for permission ever.
get ur Ass up and visit her.. and come with sumfn for her.. fruits or sumfn.
and don't let her tell u what to do. u tell her what to do.
for Christ sake,u just knocked her, man.
u knocked her. d tables have changed, u re d 1 with the upper hand. don't let her control you or this. go and see there.

lol read when I said I visited her 4 days after the incident bro she avoided me.let me break it down I go her house after the matter( I didn't call her) she know answer me I bone am days later she tell me say she dey hospital shebe if person dey hospital you go ask am address? So I can't just go there without she don't know

Bishopvic:
lol read when I said I visited her 4 days after the incident bro she avoided me.let me break it down I go her house after the matter( I didn't call her) she know answer me I bone am days later she tell me say she dey hospital shebe if person dey hospital you go ask am address? So I can't just go there without she don't know

okay.. I get it now.
my own point is this.. take charge, don't ask for permission. do what u want to do. u re the man. u re the fvcking man, bro(pun intended)..
if u can find out where d hospital is, then do so and visit her.. buh if not.then ignore her totally. it's either you in OR out.. stop staying on d fence like all ds small small boys.

I advice you to just let her be for now .Dont call her or text her or send her whatsapp message ..She is only trying to mess with your head playing the victim card.
Give her time she will be the one to look for you and call you before one month

Besties ko? this is why I asked my girlfriend to stop talking to one yeye bestie, it got to a stage where I asked her to choose between me and the bestie.. ogbeni, she no think twice now I am single, Girls are scum

She probably couldn’t believe that you could escape from the friendzone prison she kept you before. She is currently trying to lure you back to that prison again and if she succeeds this time, my brother no escape route for you again oo .. Don’t call her nor initiate any form of contact with her again, she will eventually come around and when she does, knack am well again and again.

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Advise don many for you to pick
but congrats
U sabi fūck sha

Y’all see why this bestie thing is a scam?

I created a thread for this before.


It’s like a little kid giving his or her mom money to keep for her, then the kid goes back to ask for the money, the mom will ask her, all the food you have been eating in this house where did the money come from? Lol

First of all, all the guys here should investigate their babe o, Na person babe this guy shift her womb so!

At all guys here, if your babe deh hospital at this moment, grill her to confess waten carry her go there!

Op the womb shifter. chai! this one is a menace to the society.

MilesLamar:
Besties ko? this is why I asked my girlfriend to stop talking to one yeye bestie, it got to a stage where I asked her to choose between me and the bestie.. ogbeni, she no think twice now I am single, Girls are scum

the last line tho"


I havent laughed so hard this week

Thanks y'all I took the risk as let it might not be she was in pains and I didn't care just as my bro @fayded said I drove to
this hot spot she like eating peppered cat fish X bearked corn(agidi) also got her favourite fruits groundnuts and cucumber on the way, got at sunbo hospital asked the whole 3 floors of the building and not close to her name was registered in the last 3 days. Am on my way heading home maybe branch one bar and enjoy my cat fish.

But please let me ask why do ladies behave like this? Like what do their really want? Same person that can do anything not to keep quarrels with me.same person that have fight and slapped her bf cuz of me? is playing me like this? wetin be gain? When she know am a flirt and not ready for realationship.


TO EVERYONE THAT CONTRIBUTED I SAY THANK YOU. (Matured minds)TRUST ME I GO TREAT HER F.U.CK UP AS ALWAYS.

she may be HIV positive

dude no offense buh reading your story and some of your comments I just can't help buh laugh..

nevertheless just give her a little space another thing if you love her and you haven't told try to tell her

Bishopvic:
Thanks y'all I took the risk as let it might not be she was in pains and I didn't care just as my bro @fayded said I drove to
this hot spot she like eating peppered cat fish X bearked corn(agidi) also got her favourite fruits groundnuts and cucumber on the way, got at sunbo hospital asked the whole 3 floors of the building and not close to her name was registered in the last 3 days. Am on my way heading home maybe branch one bar and enjoy my cat fish.

But please let me ask why do ladies behave like this? Like what do their really want? Same person that can do anything not to keep quarrels with me.same person that have fight and slapped her bf cuz of me? is playing me like this? wetin be gain? When she know am a flirt and not ready for realationship.


TO EVERYONE THAT CONTRIBUTED I SAY THANK YOU. (Matured minds)TRUST ME I GO TREAT HER Bleep UP AS ALWAYS.

Oga where your location maybe I fit see one fish

amike99:
she may be HIV positive

Wicked somebody
You wan give bishop wey don nack raw pussy heart attack .
You may be right tho . Who knows

A novice will always be a novice. At your age you no get experience for women matter. Smh.



Turn that girl to your slave stop being a wussy.


Start avoiding her too she will run back to you.

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