I am 21, wouldn't say too young for marriage but i have started meeting guys, not just any guy but guys that want to settle down and most of them are good men. I am a little bit nervous and scared though it feels good they see me as a wife material but is it better to wait and keep meeting people till a certain age or what do I do?

U can get 2 know them first. . .but it depends on ur goals & priorities.

@ poster
we often come across the best people for us when we don't need them but they need us

Today's guys know well enough that dangling marriage is the best way to take advantage of ladies.
Be careful.

femy2010:

Today's guys know well enough that dangling marriage is the best way to take advantage of ladies.
Be careful.

Wise words - Oga I salute - Men will go lengths - what a shame sha.

Pweety4me:

Hmmm

lol - Am i not correct

u better go and marry

It body is still tear rubber now and you are very attractive i guess,but i know very beautiful women that are now 30 something,they were once like you,they must have ignored all the guys then in there 20,s and now nothing is coming up.

continuing meeting people until you turn 23 then and then you can go for your best choice.

U r not too young 2 marry
Apply wisdom and choose 1 from your numerous suitors
Date him for 1 or 2yrs and see if he's a true life partner. .cos. .
most men are not as genuine as they may want u 2 believe. . .
on a final note,u won't regret it,if u pick d right man.

Lacrissa:

but is it better to wait and keep meeting people till a certain age or what do I do?

Not really. You might just let the 'best' pass you by if you do so. But choose wisely.

Cheers.

Lacrissa again?

Have you finished fornicating?

like someone rightly said,your priorities should come to play. We all have aspirations,and marriage is just one of those aspirations for some people;but should not neccesserily be the paramount thing at a time because suitors are coming irrespective of your age. . . unless you believe that's what you want now.

If love is there try to know the guy for more 8 months so that you both will understand each other then go ahead with the marriage. Young marriage is the best at now

The best time to do anything is when you re not ready for it; because, when you will be ready for it, you won't find it. This is experience, try get out of your comfort zone and be on the offensive. About guys taking advantage by dangling marriage, yes it's true; still some don't.

Yes some do not and I would advice you take the risk only when you are ready and marriage is one of or your priority.
Ladies,who would you yeild too.
Man A - baby I love you,lets keep seeing and we would see what the future hold in stock.
Man B - Baby,i do not want a girl,i want a wife and you are all I need in a woman.Marry me?.
Dangling marriage has a way of lowering a lady's guard.
Be wise .

too many bad,insincere,men out there today and they all wnt to marry u immediately they see u.my dear be very,very careful and just take your time.time usually tells everything.

of these many guys that want to marry you, dont you have any special feeling for at least one of them, or are you attracted to all of them equally.

I am sure guys have a way of making black look like white in the eye of an inexperience lady.
This is when you have to make your mum and dad your very best friend.They have seen it all and could probably identity wrongs b4 it manifest.

Lacrissa:

I am 21, wouldn't say too young for marriage but i have started meeting guys, not just any guy but guys that want to settle down and most of them are good men. I am a little bit nervous and scared though it feels good they see me as a wife material but is it better to wait and keep meeting people till a certain age or what do I do?

Be smart and hang on to the best of them till U are ready. In the mean time work on whatever it is that's making them come to U. If it's a character strength, polish it and they won't go away till one of them or someone else has U.

Many girls Ur age usually feel they are too young for marriage. Three to four years later they wonder where the marriable men went to. 7years after they settle for anything in pants.

Be smart. Talk to ur mum about it. Hopefully she wll give U good advice.

u wanna get married at 21, wat in petes effing name have u achieved, this aint the 19th century u know
still its ur perogative, do wiv ur self wat u will,

My friend be wise,b4 u'll come here and begin 2 talk of how wicked men r. . .boyz r not smilling

Make hay while the sun shines, enuf said

They are deceiving you.

vivaladiva:

u wanna get married at 21, wat in petes effing name have u achieved, this aint the 19th century u know
still its your perogative, do wiv your self wat u will,

Na this type thinking pattern dey make some of una expire ontop shelf.
Shey marriage na place where all possible achievments na grave get them?

jennykadry:

Lacrissa again?

Have you finished fornicating?

That is very harsh!

Lmao!

well at 21 u aren't too young, some are married at age 13,so 21 is three good year above the right age of 18 under law.but the problem is they are many who are after u like u said.