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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by simplesearch: 11:42am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Two object are said to resonate when they are in same or nearly equal frequency, but vibration must occur for this to take place. Synchronising on the other hand means you are connected and in line with all the other body with which you intend to share your information. Going by this submission, how then can someone synchronize his/her life with another with whom he/she is not in love, it's like erecting a building without windows and expecting interrupted airflow. Love is the foundation or basis of all Human relationship; the true nature of such love can however be ascertained when exposed to the test time: which may come in the guise of delay childbirth, momentary financial difficulty or setback, occasional misunderstanding or even prolonged health challenges but not extra-marital affair(s). Therefore marrying on the basis of understanding alone without Love which is the literal interpretation of Reno's post, is like asking to be held by someone without hand, even if the request is well understood the fellow can't do it. It therefore means that understanding alone is not sufficient to start ordinary friendship not talk of sustaining a relationship. In a Nutshell marry someone you truly Love first, and also understand second, & vice versa. 3 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:50am On Jan 14, 2019 |
WaffenSS:Sir, you can totally be in sync with those you don't love. But for ladies, most of the guys they are in sync with they friend zone and fall in love with those that are totally out of sync with them. Being in sync simply means complementing each other in life in other to improve each others life and achieve the maximum you can both achieve And believe, the feeling of love can be generated without two people being in sync. A few right worded text message, a few phone calls at the right time and viola, you are in love. Are you telling me you have not seen couples whose dreams and aspirations died the moment they get married? They did marry for love no doubt, but since they are not in sync or complementing each other, they die little by little each day. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 12:01pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Omeizadean: Stupidity at it's peak. Stupidity that is like Z world, extraordinary every day. Being in love before being in sync is putting the cart before the horse. You are not supposed to get compatible or in sync after you fall in love but before you fall in love. Most marriage trouble arise because incompatible people fall in love. There was this two AS people that fell in love before knowing their blood group but still decided to go ahead and get married. When the trouble of the sick children came, it tore them apart to pieces. That is just a physical example of couples marrying in love but out of sync. The mental and creative examples are even more prevalent. You see mentally creative people falling in love with people that will kill their creativity everyday. They become a shadow of regret and resignation and many at times wish they were never married. I have seen the look of resignation on the faces of many people (especially ladies) when they see other single ladies going for their dream and more than enough times heard the phrase "it wasn't worth it". But most of them kept the guys best for them in the friend zone and followed love. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by WORLDPEACE(m): 12:10pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: This one na women sentimental reasoning. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 12:38pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
simplesearch: Sir, I beg to disagree with you, synchronization happens based on two people being compatible first with each other. Take your phone for example, an android OS can never work in an IPhone and Vice versa. Falling in love before trying to be in sync is like downloading an android apk in an iPhone. You can download it alright but it will not install no matter how hard you try. It will only end up being a waste of space, mb and time. Bro, as a man or woman, you should know the type of woman that is compatible to you and ensure you fall in love with that person. On the issue of understanding, in life you don't love something until you have tasted it first, understood it first. Take your favorite subject for example, you either loved it because you understood it easiest or naturally understood it. You don't love what you don't understand. Many at times we also become It is also more probable for a marriage found with understanding to grow to love than for a marriage found on love to grow to understanding. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by mhizbel(f): 12:41pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Jeromejnr:Excellent answer! This is the best definition of love I've ever read/heard in recent times. You ask young people what love is, they will either be unable to answer or they give you the definition of lust. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Zubbyemodi(m): 1:12pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
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Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by criuze(m): 1:12pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
castro316: Well sorry for stressing you But I think you actually synchronise with what you love in a person. May be someone value fairness。 for me I value brain, so definitely my love must sync with my brain. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Kingjames: If this happen to person in real life na to faint remain 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Kingjames(m): 2:33pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Tundexxy:testing the mic... soon start the much awaited story on this platform 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by gwama: 2:52pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
So for you, we have to resume arranged marriages as before? Even in arranged marriages, there are failures. A marriage that works well is the only grace of God. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Sarang(f): 8:54pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Rubbish! |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by sweetilicious(f): 12:39am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:I thought the same thing.i can't marry someone I don't smile while the memory pops up. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:45am On Jan 15, 2019 |
gwama: In no way did he say or insinuate that. Arranged marriages also don't consider people you are in sync with. In life, you have to know your purpose, your goals and your vision and know the type of spouse needed to achieve that them. Many people marry contrary to their purpose and goal in the name of love. And they end up shriveling and resigning through out life. 2 Sundays ago I met a man who was complaining bitterly that he should have been balanced if not for his wife. He wanted to start a business and build a house but he married a girl that he was training through secondary school till masters level. A girl that has never one day worked to bring in extra money to the house. When I asked him why he married that kind of woman, he just said two words, "na love". As I said before and will say again, it is easier for you to love something or someone after understanding it or them than it is to understand them after loving them. Above all, more kingdoms grew from arranged marriages than they did from marriages of love. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by dominusgai(m): 11:49am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Actually it doesn't. You can love something that is totally out of sync with you. That is why you have drunkards. They know by drinking they are destroying their lives but they love drinking so much they can't let it go. It is easier for love to be a by product of understanding than for understanding to be a by product of love. |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Zeedarh(f): 11:37am On Jan 17, 2019 |
Muzikluva: I really appreciate this. Thanks a bunch. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Someone You're In Love With - Reno Omokri Advises by Muzikluva(m): 7:19am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Zeedarh:Amen. God bless you too. 1 Like |
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