whytepawn1:

*she said*...and what's your take?

mhizbel:

That you got a direct revelation from God will not make your marriage work or keep you married.
There are cases of people who got a clear revelation from God about their spouse(s) but because of one mistake, they missed out entirely.
The cause of the alarming rate of divorce we have among Christians can be summed up in one word, negligence.

jasonguru:
This kind of rushed marriage, I smell fish one of them has an ulterior motive.

But what does a 17year old boy know about marriage

grayht:

Well said...
I hope our ladies would borrow a leaf from her!!!!






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ValCon888:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

UNCL3:

He's/she's making a grave mistake that would cost alot in the long run

No dating, no courtship

I personally know someone who met a lady n just within three months they got married

A year after marriage the lady unleashed the beast in her

The man is now frustrated

QUICK ADVICE
Never get married because of innitial love
Try your fiance, try your fiancee
They might not be who you consider them to be.

gypsey:
Good luck to you! i say!!

Itzurboi:
And if they were logical enough, negligence wouldn't have gotten a role to play because their mind would be more focus on building and maintaining a healthy marriage life as against living on the preview of the unknown(future)...

Ire2:
Only in Nigeria that marriage is a big achievement to a woman.

emmaodet:


To a largd extent you are right, the average guy out there is all abot sex sex sexand believe me even the ladies now is all about money money money.
Before when i chat with ladies, we use the medium to get to kniw each other better like her hobby, favourite food, pant and bra size (which i do note down in case of getting her a gift and the color type), her dream and aspirations, where she will be in the next 5, 10 yrs and a concrete plan on how to achieve that, e.t.c beleive me, alot of questions and also hiw to make impacts in each others life like training her to swim or a driving test which she will never forget who taught her that in her life even if the relationship didn't work out, just look at the other patner's weakness and see how you can come in and improve it and the sex will come naturally like an icing on the cake.
But today!!!!!! iyaaaaaaa!!!! I don't have time for jamb questions, pls no waec ooo, go straight to the point, this are the common things you hear and for guys na Bleep Bleep Bleep, what a generation

Rozaytee:
if she decides to get married at d age she likes una go use pressure kill am

Dinho20:
STRICTLY FOR MEN;

IF A WOMAN HAS THESE 7 QUALITIES, NEVER LET HER GO:
(1) SHE IS SMARTER THAN YOU.
(2) SHE IS HONEST.
(3) SHE HAS A POSITIVE OUTLOOK.
(4) SHE COMPROMISES.
(5) SHE LAUGHS AT YOUR JOKES.
(6) SHE HAS AN OPEN HEART.
(7) SHE SUPPORTS YOUR GOALS AND PURSUES HER OWN.
IF YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND WITH THESE QUALITIES, MARRY HER.

Rozaytee:
infact there is nothing sweet like wen things happen naturally... Like u get to know yourselves better talk about everything in life ur dreams aspirations and help each other achieve it... Den d sex comes naturally... Not forced... But some guys dis days are just useless... Some will meet u today and ask u to be their babe tomorrow... Simply looking for sex immediately and wen dey are Don.. Dey run.. Dats y most relationships don't last well.. Even marriages...dey Marry today... Cheating saga begins 2morow... Too badd

Ire2:


Shut your dirty mouth up, who asked for your opinion? The likes of you should not even quote me. LovePeddler

faithfull18:
True. A man who truly wants to marry you and sees you in his future wouldn't waste your time.

Enemyofpeace:
see as you dey moan, the thing don enter?

chris31:
And na today u no that one abi?

MichaelBukamzy:
My girlfriend posess all those qualities and more.she is a virgin too.we have dated for 3 years but am still skeptical about marrying her because she is a year older than me.advice me

faithfull18:

You didn't know she was older until you dated her for 3years??

MichaelBukamzy:
We have been family friends since 2005(we were kids then)we met again 2016 and became friends again but i didnt plan to take it to the romance level because of that age stuff.she became madly inlove with me and i do too but i never wanted us to date.after waiting for my proposal to no avail,she fired the shot and i was reluctant to accept because even though she is a bit older than me i still love her.after many explanations and advises from friends,i was convinced and it began.now we are talking about future,we are mad for each other,she is one of a kind and she said that i am too.we want each other but at the back of my mind i am having a double mind about it.i am scared things might change after marriage based on many stories we read here.

marvin906:





dude if what you said is true..
my advice don't do anything stupid..
cause am tired of seeing guy's not valuing the gems they have..
dude love transcends beyond age,tribe, religion..
if what you really feel for her is love then that thought is not suppose to be in your head

MichaelBukamzy:
the girl is rare mahn.i love her and she do more than i do.i always wanted my woman to be younger than me shaa.

marvin906:



like I said love transcends beyond age and all that..
as far she's genuinely loving and respectful I don't see what the problem is

midehi2:

As you talk am now, the thing don dey hungry me

Enemyofpeace:
chei you be real bad girl

honestly, at the sound of 'marriage' they abandon the guy with who they've been.