All those saying she should give the poster chance and more time to be ready for marriage, what marriage? Marriage is off the table after she slept with the first guy that cameafter her. And if she keeps her mouth shut, she is entering marriage with a false pretence.


Prayer - God save me from dating women like the poster and viva. Viva esp Amen.

u didnt like this new guy enuf to go out wit him until u slept with him. isnt it obvious that that is
wat's missing from your old relationship? sex is not the same thing as love.

vivaladiva:

who cares if a bunch of inbred, puritanical, morons dont fink am their cup of tea--- if u most know i find most of u nauseatingly boring tooo---so d feeling is mutual special ref to daviddylan,girl448 and all d other dimwits that claim to be the epitome of righteousness and morality-----if only u arse wipes wld take the time to read my comment---instead of jumping into unecessary conclusions---but then again the perogative is urs, u can call me wat u like, its just water off a ducks back

Haba, Vivaladiva, it hasnt reached that level now! Cool down! in as much as i dont agree wit everything u said, i do believe that
evry one is entitled to their opinion. i also agree that we hav passed the ages in which it was a must to get married. a woman must not be married to be happy altho she wil hav the society's nod of approval to hav sex and bear children but if u think that's not for u then so be it, live your life the way tu want to,,,the way u think it suits u best. just remember tat one day u will look bak at ur life and wonder if it was really worth it. i hate having to live with regrets.

sexylogan, if u noticed i explored a few possible outcomes in my first two comments, only for these arse hole rash to come here shouting nonsense
she asked for an opinion---surely not every one will come here in their holier than thou robes calling her a LovePeddler---- i mean come on she had one slip up, and now shes getting all excited---its just human----men do it all the effing time----dey meet a new chick---its like getting a new car or a ps3 or somin---u forget how loyal the old car used to be---u get all carried away wiv the new car or ps3--------it might be a poor analogy, but u get my point------cheating or no cheating---if u fink ur ready for an upgrade then 4 fu-ck sake go for one---u only bloody live once---am not advocating u do it alll d time but wat d hell--- for once in ur life cant u just do somin diff---must it b all boring and predictable

if ur body,soul,and spirit is crying to trysoming else---by all means give it a shot---notice i never at any point said there wont b consequence ---whether she stays or goes

at denyior----u lack the mental complexity to deal with anything other than the mundane boring conversations u have with ur equally boring friends and family---uve spent ur whole life threading in the footsteps that others have left behind and at no point have u felt it necessary to unplug ur head from ur arse and do a lil thinking for ur own damn self

^^
na wa oo, na fight!

vivaladiva:


at denyior----u lack the mental complexity to deal with anything other than the mundane boring conversations u have with your equally boring friends and family---uve spent your whole life threading in the footsteps that others have left behind and at no point have u felt it necessary to unplug your head from your arse and do a lil thinking for your own damn self

Srry I find this very funny. If you had called me a rebel leader you will hv been closer to the truth. well we are all faceless individuals here so you wouldn`t know anything abt me. But I know from your posts are a slut.  Maybe if you come over here, we can hv a quickie  .

Everyone will say a guy will cheat etc but I tell anyone never to stand a cheating partner. If the OP willing to confess and her bf is willing to go ahead (a sign of weakness to me), then anything is possible. Doesn`t change the fact  that she is a ho tho.

PS I will demonstrate my head up my arse soon by opening my own thread that says Viva is a ho, who agrees?
*** Back to my song*** she (VIva) is a ho ho ho ho ho hooo

I want every sexy babe to cheat on her boyfriend with me,
I will bitterly condemn any babe who confesses to cheating on her boyfriend( with someone other than me),
I am the Average Guy

Guys ease up and stop hitting on viva

why do most pips here have a holier than thou attitude,stop being so selfrighteous just cos someone is bold enough to say this is what i am doing does not mean we should crucify her.

deniyor:



PS I will demonstrate my head up my arse soon by opening my own thread that says Viva is a ho, who agrees?
*** Back to my song*** she (VIva) is a ho ho ho ho ho hooo

Neither the Poster or Vivaladiva is a ho,so stop sayin that. she's entitled to her own opinion. Or wil u say that u've never had sex wit sumone
while u wer stil going out with  another girl? just because she's open about her sex life doesnt make her a ho. and i'm sure u spend half of your income paying real ashawos every weekend just to get laid. i hate hypocrisy.

^^^^^ Just like I'm entitled to my opinion and defence. Say what you will, I'm sticking to my guns.

I bet your story will be different if you were the bf of the OP.

Logan, you think I have a holier than thou attitude? This is a no brainer. When you enter a relationship contract with another person, if you want smth and you are not getting it, quit the relationship and go for sm1 else you think can give it to you. You don't breach your contract. This has nothing to do with religion, morality or your sex. just common sense. And this applies to guys like you and me.

Go thru my posts and you will see it where many times I hv admitted to cheating. But as much as I was man enof to cheat, I was man enough to confess it and be forgiven. I knew I would do it again and I broke off the relationship nevertheless. And I did not plan going into marriage with such an opinion. Viva comes here telling the OP to go out and fck everybody available in the name of adventure.

You talk the talk, but can you walk the walk?  My most defining relationship - I hv dated a girl that is by all standards considered a slut, and I wanted to settle down with her as long as she is willing to stop f, ing around or jump on the next emotional wagon. But as they say, you can't make a ho a wife. With all your talk, you can't  even handle such a girl. so shut the f, k up!

This is a place I am entitled to my opinion and zings as much as you or the next person. Go back to the first page of this thread and you will realise that Viva was the first to throw the punch.  You attack me, I go out guns blazing.

Now I want you to answer the question in my earlier post, how would you want the girl to react if you were the bf of the OP. Would you want to know?


Every wknd I go  pick an ashewo up to satisfy my sexual urges. How did you know that. I have a regular I pick up and guess what? She is your wife to be. I guess that is how U know my big secret.

The poster is not a ho - That's a little harsh.
As in, she majorly slipped up once - no one is perfect. Its not like sleeping around/cheating is her habit or lifestlye.
But if she continues on this path then, 

As for viva,
though I disagree with many of your principles, you are free to have your opinions are live your life the way you want to!
I am sorry for being judgmental towards you, but I just really dislike the way you associate good morals with being old-fashioned, puritanical or holier than thou.
The fact that we are not perfect beings does not mean that we should continue in our flawed ways, but rather, we should try and improve because whether you like it or not, deep down inside we all ultimately know the right things to do!

deniyor am still waiting for the viva is a ho topic and if u dont start it, u and the father that ferterlised ur mother's egg are imbeciles

Of all the dimwits on Nairaland, deniyor tops the list as the biggest of them all. Go and put ur head up a donkey's A-S-S and after that take a chainsaw, switch it on and use it to f-u.c-k urself. Bit-ch a.-s-s mother-f. U-ckr.

sexylogan u def gat a sexy brain n i love how u sexily but dat donkey cum in his place

deniyor i can tell ur a fu-cking miserable fu-cker and prob an ugly one at dat----i wldnt date u evn if ur cum was liquid gold---dats how much ur holier than thou personality irritates me-i wld rather marry a half wit donkey than marry a bomboclat rasclat like u----ya pri-ck
am still waiting for ur topic, infact i will do it on ur behalf to save u the stress

@ Viva: deniyor the 'donkey come', LMAO, Lol, can't stop laughin', but the dumb she-goat bi-tc.h deserves it, lol

Abeg see yab o!!!

I can see my jibes got to logan and viva real good. . Don't give it if you can't take it.

Logan, I hope by now your woman can feed you with the payment for ashewo services rendered. Next time I will brand my initials on your girl so you always have a reminder where your daily bread is coming from.
Viva, it doesn't matter what you can marry or not. Afterall you don't believe in marriage, except of course you only stopped believing in it cos no man found you good enof to even ask for ur hand in marriage. I bet you dance on a dik well enof that I will extend to you the chance of a quickie. Come teach me some tricks.

@ deniyor: u'r nuthing but smelly, slimy, bacteria-infested fluid from a donkey's dik, donkey-cum,donkey-cum, LOLLL,

sexylogan:

@ deniyor: u'r nuthing but smelly, slimy, bacteria-infested fluid from a donkey's dik, donkey-come,donkey-come, LOLLL,

Ok I found the other yabs funny and with some sense.This one - nah, not at all. You either don't know how to yab, or you are out of words,. Maybe you no sabi yab pass the first one wey u throw at me. Anyways try again.

PS abeg u fit help me tell ya lady to wear that sexy red gown with no undies when she dey make our wknd tryst this wknd. As a side note, help me thank am o. she talk say she no go dey charge me again as per say na only me sabi do am well well. I need to teach u some tricks, call me.

just wanna say thanks to u all, for d good, bad and d ugly advice,

i have decided to stick to my old bf i found out i love him bcs after i confessed he forgave and accepted me back

d one i slept with still wants me but im not down with dat anymore

bcs i noticed i started off on a wrong plate.

for d insults and name calling, i can say it was way out of line.


like i said b4 i made a mistake and i have corrected it, thank God im still loved

first of all my dear you have been messing around. secondly you are greedy. only you loves two guys. what about the other girls out there who are still looking for some one to love? please mend your ways and be faithful to one guy at a time until you are married.

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A girl came to me and said she is seriously in love with another dude and that we should be just friends, i said alright and next moment we are on the bed doin our thing. Tell me should i trust such a girl as a lover wont she do same with another. How do girls reason

funny enough i love dem both,

anyway i have made my pick

^^^^^ you are a lucky girl. please focus on your OLD guy and stay faithful. some men like what they cant entirely have, maybe that is why that new guy wants you. just stick with your decision and things would work out fine for you. Good luck!

thanks

you have to check yourself very well and know why your old b/f keeps shifting grounds.as for loving him i don't think you do cos if you have you would not have cheated on him so easily.so follow the rythm of your heart,cos only know what you want in a guy.cheers.

Hmmmm, I laugh in spanish once again, My maaxim has always been ''Nothing Happens For Nothing'', Most probably d old b/f pays with double hand whilst the new suitor knows how to dig better, period!

@poster,face it, u are not in luv at all.

^^^^ she is not the type that loves. She is the type that tries to survive and also mortgage her toto for her well being. If you watch the HBO show Hung, she will fit the Ray's wife, Jessica (I think).

Gold digger and LovePeddler she is.

Some Things You Must Do
You are obviously in a state of dilemma.What you should do in this instance is that you should ask yourself a soul-searching question such as:"What do i want in my dream man?";"Does the man i am in a relationship with love me?"; "Do my values and beliefs agree with the man presently in my life?", and so on. When you have given these questions honest replies, you will know the right decision to make.
What you must understand is that you CANNOT love two people at the same time.You will only love one genuinely and like the other!
So, take your time and follow these steps and you will be relieved!



, be rightly informed!