Guys,
I need your honest advice on dis. I had this girl I luvd so much dat i did every thing possible to make her happy. I stopped some of my crazy life styles like smoking, womanizing I mean everything damn thing a young guy do to feel cool . I funded her in every aspect I could infact I was seriously sprung, I even proposed , don't blame me I've never felt anything like that before.
Well, things were rosy until I, suffered a serious set back, I lost my dad the family business crumbed I was in shock and just short of begging . The girl of my dreams couldn't even wait two months after d burial, she told me to my face that she's found out that I am not capable of taking care of her. To cut the long story short, I actually fell sick . Like a man I forged ahead with life, I got a good high pay job with a mulitnational company in PH and by God's special grace I just revived my dad's firm and everything is even far better now than ever. .
My ex got wind of the new status n she really wants back,she is using everytin at her disposal even working on me through my mom , but the point is I still feel dat thing for her and it hurts me like hell that I still feel it , to be honest after that incident I find it very difficult to trust a female. But, guys I need your candid advise on this I'm really confused on dis issue.

please,don't take her back.She's a bad girl .She's after your money.

@googles,
I decided to seek 4 advice on dis b/cos I just couldn't hold it back anymore. I would want to leave her but when I remember d wonderful times we shared together, I just feel weak. Believe me it's not dat easy 4 me .

Please dont try to take her back, If u r rich, U get lots of admirers more will come.

For goodness sakes all diz 'pls i need your advice' thingy is startin to get to me.@Op what kind of advice do you need.You still have a thing for her & you want us to tell you to 'pls forgive & forge,it is human to err' reh,reh,reh.Then you can thank us for our advice and run bak to your runaway lover.

Isn't it as clear as daylight that this is a classic case of a golddigger tryin to warm her way bak until the nxt burst cycle? (which ofcourse we're not prayin for but can't be ruled out).Be wise my bruvas,be wise.

Feeling of love is a crazy thing, It makes man surender his weapon. But TRUE LOVE will not leave her man when he is down. TRUE LOVE will stay.

It's even harder to take away your mind when intimacy has been involved.

Don't think about her, U need somebody after your heart not after your purse. If she got somebody richer than you tomorrow, she will elope with that person. The pressure might be much especially from your Mum.

a girls that left you when you were down does not worth your attention regardless of your love. She is only interested in wat she can get. They called them GOLDDIGGERS

Tell your Mum not to host her, delete her numbers and text from your phone, remove all her pictures, then Get yourself another GF prayerfully.

There is no amount of 'Good time' you have shared that can be compared wit a true love.

My 1 butut
M

barnish her into the past. look ahead to your future and continue working extra hard. The woman of your dream will def show up in the future.
Shez no good to you

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Mr Cork:

bro, u better take her back, where the heck are u suppose to get Womanliness?

where u born to be stupiiid?i wish to recommend psychatric home for u.msshhheeeww

@original poster,

guy, i know its never easy to leave someone u love but u have to do it.please u must do it.a girl dat left u when u needed her most does not deserve anything gud in her life.most girls want to eat their cake and have it.lets be real here.when u are so nice to people,u stand to loose.i`ll advice u pay her back.dat will teach her lesson and make her wiser.is she d only girl in this world?[/size]

cold:

For goodness sakes all diz 'pls i need your advice' thingy is startin to get to me.@Op what kind of advice do you need.You still have a thing for her & you want us to tell you to 'pls forgive & forge,it is human to err' reh,reh,reh.Then you can thank us for our advice and run bak to your runaway lover.

Isn't it as clear as daylight that this is a classic case of a golddigger tryin to warm her way bak until the nxt burst cycle? (which ofcourse we're not prayin for but can't be ruled out).Be wise my bruvas,be wise.

Thank you.

Dude, if you have any sense at all you will stay away from that woman. C'mon did you really need to come to Nairaland for advice, its quite obvious that she's no good for you. If marriage is something you hope for in the future, then this is not the woman for you. She left you once now imagine what will happen when you two are married and you find yourselves in a dire situation? She's only after one thing so please stay away from her. Please don't get involved, I'd hate to see a brother like you back hear on Nairaland later crying about how she sucked your account dry.

I hope you wish to live in peace and live long.you better flee.

[size=15pt]mr cork,where u born to be stupiiid?[/size]

d bigrod:

[size=15pt]mr cork,where u born to be stupiiid?[/size]

Of course he was. He's not making good use of that one computer in his village. Instead of being productive like normal Nigerians, he's here badgering and causing problems.

190.:

poster
I sincerely kant believe u would come here 2 ask us this question
when even a kid born yesterday knows what 2 do,

SLEEP WITH HER AND SEND HER PACKIN
OR SLEEP WITH HER AND USE HER PANTS TO CLEAN YOUR CAR TIRES,

RUBBISH

And what happens when he gets her pregnant and she rightly refuses to terminate the pregnancy?

Just stay away from her. Shez ur past

Mr Cork, I don't want you or you coins. Please save your coins so you can fix the hole in that tin shack you call a house. And stop trying to go off topic from what the poster posted.

This is what you should do; Never tell her no or tell her to go, Still keep her why you plan your wedding with another woman, After then, invite her to your house.Guess she will arrive like a woman of the house, Den introduce your wife to the OLE

dude, this isnt rocket science so i dont see wht u r confused about. she left u when u had nothing and now u have some she wants to come back and u say u r confused!!!

y dont u take her back then, God forbid u have another major setback do u xpect her to remain? Dude u're smater than dat.

scatter her somethin and dump her in d dustbin. . .in case u r contemplating on a Group Intimacy,holla me.

bro, dis 1 no need to talk 2 much bone her na evil do you no weda na she make thins hard for u for the first time. don't even think of her. she is a hopeless some1.