^^^mumu, how many years did you spend in nigeria? Less than 6months i guess? I'm sure one of your parents accompany you down to nigeria and probably your dad or mum is the financing all your need here but i'll advice you to come down all alone to nigeria just to spend 5yrs so that you can have some nigerian experience cos eating pizza every night will make you reason so low and your problem ppl who eat 3square meal in a day will be think thats how everybody is eating it.

"abeg comot 4 here make i see better 9ja ppl o jare"

hehehe

@topic,
nothing is really wrong but in Nigeria it is not too common.

to the young men dating the older women i say "enjoy yourselves." to the older women dating the younger men i say, "get ready for heartache". well if your lucky, it just might work out but the odds are really not stacked in your favor if you ask me

Inked_Nerd

I can see your hidden post, hope u dont want to start another Pastor Jones saga on NL. (keeps quiet)

I remember when i was in my early twenties and fantasized about dating older ladies (lol ). For a casual fling, it's okay but for long term? Nah. . .it just wouldn't work. Remember that a woman's beauty is peak in her youthful years. When a man takes that relationship to another level and after several years of being together. . .whilst he's looking fresh and vibrant, she's looking like a pirated version of Whoopie Goldberg (now, that is not cool).

When the lust/love emotions fade away, what happens? Hmmm? The guy now starts looking for one excuse or the other to bail out of the relationship. . .lol

Inked_Nerd:


Hmmm, what do you mean?

Never mind, i was just hailing

harakiri:

I remember when i was in my early twenties and fantasized about dating older ladies (lol ). For a casual fling, it's okay but for long term? Nah. . .it just wouldn't work. Remember that a woman's beauty is peak in her youthful years. When a man takes that relationship to another level and after several years of being together. . .whilst he's looking fresh and vibrant, she's looking like a pirated version of Whoopie Goldberg (now, that is not cool).

When the lust/love emotions fade away, what happens? Hmmm? The guy now starts looking for one excuse or the other to bail out of the relationship. . .lol

I do not think Physical attribute keeps bond in relationship, unless you are telling us something new.

My take?, 

Considering the speed to which women folks depreciate as a fixed asset even when you are older than them, I wonder what will become of an older wife in the nearest future. (some bitter truth)

, though it could be as a result of some economic factors, but preferably it is better for husbands to be older.

I meant no harm, after all i love the women folks.

Nenum:


I do not think Physical attribute keeps bond in relationship, unless you are telling us something new.

Emm***clears throat***

In all NORMAL relationships, the first attraction is the physical. Later on, when all the luvey duvey feelings start to fade in a NORMAL relationship, it's the physical attraction that helps keep things together.

If this isn't true, how many beautiful goddesses have you seen falling in love with a cripple (except in the movies or the son of extremely rich folks) ? How many guys have you seen marry ladies who are victims of acid/chemical defacement?

Get real dude! ! ! Attraction is the alpha and omega ingredient in all NORMAL relationships and not all that Hollywood make believe that has help crash too many relationships due to fact that the couples expect too much from each other.

Inked_Nerd:


LMAO, I just caught on to what you mean.

(Laughs silently) However you are on your own on this one my sister.

harakiri:

Emm***clears throat***

In all NORMAL relationships, the first attraction is the physical. Later on, when all the luvey duvey feelings start to fade in a NORMAL relationship, it's the physical attraction that helps keep things together.

If this isn't true, how many beautiful goddesses have you seen falling in love with a cripple (except in the movies or the son of extremely rich folks) ? How many guys have you seen marry ladies who are victims of acid/chemical defacement?

Get real dude! ! ! Attraction is the alpha and omega ingredient in all NORMAL relationships and not all that Hollywood make believe that has help crash too many relationships due to fact that the couples expect too much from each other.

Thank goodness i do not live the hollywood dream (me self for don dey for wahala)

However let me put it down to 2 phrases.

1. Normal relationship starts and strive till it breaks on physical attributes.
2. Relationship that would last must not strive on physical attribute, regardless of if it started with it or not.

darkman200:
the older the juicier, and beside age ain't nothing but number

Trully older toto is much sweeter

A40:

Its funny i used to be just like you. That a woman is younger than you does not necessarily mean she would be submissive especially not girls of nowadays

These are the set of people that are supposed to be S-mods but no kids that log in 2009 to 2013 are super mods.Nonsense

ZINIIBANKS:

These are the set of people that are supposed to be S-mods but no kids that log in 2009 to 2013 are super mods.Nonsense

Hahahaha. This is hilarious. Thanks man