Hello there.
I am really confused and don't know how to react. When we have met with him, he told me that before we met he had some girl and they really liked each other, he knew her short time. but her parents were against him. So as he said they were stayed as a friends and he never touched her again. From the beginning he said that he does not want to marry anymore. And I am not rushing too. We are already together more than 2 years. We still just see each other 3-5 times a week, spending good time together, having good sex. But one day on his cellphone jumped a message: "hey, how are you today?" from this ex girlfriend.  And when I asked him :"Are you still in contact with her?" He felt himself very confused and shy and said "yes". But when I asked what kind of relationships they have he refused to answer and just said: "I don't call anyone and I don't meet anyone". But actually I sow other messages from him to her and from her to him, like " Good morning, have a nice day", or "I am busy call me tonight", "I will call you and we will decide where to meet". He does not want to explain anything and it makes me feeling bad. could it be that all this years he was cheating? What for, just because he likes both of us already for so long time?

so help me God!

Amen

To be honest I think he is just not that into you! Hard, tough, bitter truth.
Looks like his heart is still with his ex.

he is still hoping something will happen with his ex.prolly still hung up on her you were the rebound gal.I think you are enjoying the rship too much otherwise i would advise you to leave.it sounds harsh but y wait for him to leave.sorry this sounds harsh but its just my 2kobo.

Please tell me why you are still with him? He is obviously meeting up with her. What do you think they are doing, playing cards!!! Crazy!!!

But why he is calling me everyday and checking where I am at the nights? And if I am somewhere with my friends and he did not know, he is getting crazy. It's like he cutted me a wings of freedom,

that guy still loves his ex, search 4 a guy that would be TOTALLY YOURS!

lusiana:

But why he is calling me everyday and checking where I am at the nights? And if I am somewhere with my friends and he did not know, he is getting crazy. It's like he cutted me a wings of freedom,

He likes you, but he seems to be still in love with his ex.

@ Poster,

Dump that Idiot, cos the earlier the better. Men don't Love two people at the same time its not possible, We can Love one and like the other.

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so help me God!

fear fear.


yet nobody burst their pantaloons when mobo444 was on rampage.