I have this friend who told me wonderful things about his girlfriend, how she is well behaved, cooks very well, vry social, religious n the list goes on n on. All this while (they've been dating for sum months now) he told me he had not touched her cos he respects, loves and admires her 4 who n wat she is.

The problem now is that he told me he wants 2 leave her n i asked him why? His answer was dat he had made luv 2 her (jus once) and discovered dat her body is filled wit stretch marks and he is not convenient wit it. Am surprised cos this is a girl he admires so much. I have tried talking to him n his response was dat unless she succeeds in removing the stretch marks the relationship cannot continue.

Wat do i do, needs reasonable response pls.
tnks.

Hmmn, are the stretch marks that much? Anyway, there is a cream that is used 4 stretchmarks, he shuld try n get it 4 her

Omolola, have u got idea of any creams let me inform him cos i deeply bliv its a gud idea for my frnd.

I really do not know of any cos i dont use it. I believe it would be available in any beauty shop

your frnd is jst lost in lust. if he so admires her n loves her den he shud tel her n help her remove it. she wud even aprecia8 him d mor.

Tell dat ya friend 2 go back to class n never LUST again. What has striae got 2 do wit d luv he has for his partner, Lame excuse 2 dump her after sippin her juices, right?

stretch marks are as natural as the skin they are on, they dont make her less human or uglier

true there are creams err'where that are claimed to be helpful but are they 100% guaranteed ?

if he cant accept her natural faults and flaws he bet' leave her then and find his miss perfect-no-pimples elsewhere

Striae, otherwise known as stretch mark is a cool turn on when found around ya thighs/ass only. _{I don't care whether 091 likes it or not.}

Moralistii, i totali agree wit u men. everytin u jst said is a fact.

I think NO! If I truly luv her. After all, I should be the only one that sees it.

Rabbizhh, Its cos u havent met someone who is like a zebra, stretch marks grow all over the place like weeds, i know u would manage anything u see Moralipstick

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Moralistli:

Heeeeeey, 189. wanna see me on my YIM cam? i'm always surrounded by d most beautiful ladies here on planet earth, D carribean qeens! Even when in 9ja, never short of classic chics wit succulent juices, paparazzi?

Clap ya self.

I will Neva leave a chick with adorable qualities cus of stretch marks,
my ex has em on her bum,shes not happy with it but i didnt complain,i help her massage em sef when she brings her cream.
But i ve learnt it doesnt clear totaly.tell him to not make matters worse for her he should support her seek solutions or just accept it,n if he refuses n leaves her abeg send me her details.
I need her oooooo

So what if she get pregnant and developes stretch marks? You going to leave her?

Disgusting!!

Stupid person every Body is going to have stretch marks whether fat or skinny as long as ur muscle or body expands even as skinny as i am i have stretch marks so deal with it, geez to think at my age am more matured than most so claimed Grown up guys, dumping a girl with good qualities for stretch marks,

Unbelievable!!! Some guys never cease to amaze me. That poor girl should run from his shallow azz and find someone who loves her inside and out. I assume he is perfect in every way!!! Geez, years down the track he will be complaining that he cant find a good wife, he doesnt deserve her!! Scumbag!!

Viciyke:

I have this friend who told me wonderful things about his girlfriend, how she is well behaved, cooks very well, vry social, religious n the list goes  on n on. All this while (they've been dating for sum months now) he told me he had not touched her cos he respects, loves and admires her 4 who n wat she is.

The problem now is that he told me he wants 2 leave her n i asked  him why? His answer was dat [b]he had made luv 2 her (jus once) and discovered dat her body is filled wit stretch marks and he is not convenient wit it. [/b]Am surprised cos this is a girl he admires so much. I have tried talking to him n  his response was  dat unless she succeeds in removing the stretch marks the relationship cannot continue.

Wat do i do, needs reasonable response pls.
tnks.

That's just being shallow. leaving a gud fine babe just cuz she's got stretch marks? lie. he didnt enjoy havin sex with her that's why he's running. jerk.

The guy should just help the girl out by looking for medications which might cover up the marks to the bearest minimum,and i think i've seen a few links on this thread which might be useful for her. On the flip side,everyone is as prone to stretch marks as eating everyday,so there is ample chance that if he leaves her cuz of her stretch marks (which i wont blame him for),he should also realise that his new catch would also be as susceptible to stretch marks as his last girl,especially when she is preggers. So the cycle begins again and he'll be back to square one.  

Looking for an excuse to leave

bad excuse is better than none

Some folks just do not know the meaning of love they just speak of it. What if she meet with an accident (God forbid) tommorrow and
lose her legs will he still love her?


Tell your friend to leave the poor girl alone let her find someone who loves her I beg.