It takes maturity, deep fear of God and respect for individual to overcome this temptation. Great men of old have fallen in this area and so who are my to resist the call of nature. I am just but human. Anyway there is a way out, as the bible says as a man thinketh in his heart so is his ways. If you tune your heart to things of the flesh like porn movies, fantasing about women then I can assure you nothing can save you from this modern day chikala they are designed to tempt you to death common. How can you resist with all there dressing and bewitching movement. Its not easy except you dont have blood flowing in your vain but with God all things are possible you can close your eyes to the world if you cant plug out your eyes. By and by its not easy I will tell you even if you survive it for two weeks your body must urge you to take action. Just remain steadfast in serious prayers and surround yourself with real born again not the whatsup type of born again o. I mean you know them now.

contended,just contented ,with your wife or your lover.

I have read through virtually all the posts in this thread and I must say that all the inputs're fantastic. I have a problem and it's the issues of not been able to get my eyes off the kitty. Imagine I went to church yesterday, prayed my heart out to God, I received a new inner strength to carry me through the week but guess what? I called my sex-partner to come fix semovita for me later in the evening and that was the end of the story.  The issue is, I cannot resist her sight, I'll always feel the need to eat some cherry and that goes for other women I get my fangs into.

Man, from time immemorial have this issues with their JT and it is only the almighty God that can save us even if we try all our possible best to abstain from all appearances of evil. I don't really have any advice because I don't see myself as practicing what I'll preach. All we need is self control of the JT and if it were possible to have our women as handbags every hour of the day, that might solve the problem to a large extent, sikena!

All men are, by virtue of their genetic make up, Polygamus! So deal with it. No need to pray to God, because he made us that way. Its like a woman praying to God to stop her from having her monthly period. This has been scientifically research  and is a behaviour evident in most mamalian male species. Accept the way you were made, embrace who you are and live your lives. Just hooked up with this fine swedish babe last nite, and it was "worth it" I have no regrets what so ever. The day women can give up their insatiable want for wordly things, thats the day Ill become a one woman man.

Mo r'ogo!!! (I am in trouble) Grin

Chairman, abeg carry your holy fire dey go, I am not interested. You can continue with your mental laziness and disillusion by allocating any challenge in life to a higher being! Goodluck! Grin

God will bless me as much and as equally as he has blessed you even without religion. You can pray and pay tithe from now till the donkeys come home and your life will not get any real superior benefit. So, Oga, ride on! Grin

Bros take it or leave Prayer is the most powerful tool in life. You can try it, Look for anything you want no matter how impossible prayer for it without ceasing and you will get it. Trust me on this I'm a living witness to the power of prayers. beside I'm no saint

Womanising is naturally configured in men system only those blessed with the ability to resist is free from promiscuity.The holly Rod for Every damn whole

chines4:

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Bros take it or leave Prayer is the most powerful tool in life. You can try it, Look for anything you want no matter how impossible prayer for it without ceasing and you will get it. Trust me on this I'm a living witness to the power of prayers. beside I'm no saint

Delusion!!!

I repeat, there is nothing your prayer gets you that a non-prayer can not get.

The most powerful tool in life is to use your gaddam brain, if you have a good one that is, otherwise follow the instructions/wisdom/advice of those that do.

^^^^ she reading it now, I sent her an email Grin

@Queeneve,

U can't do that to me. I'm in a talking mode and i don't want silent treatment at home. My kids are too young for any meaningful chat

hilli666:

All men are, by virtue of their genetic make up, Polygamus! So deal with it. No need to pray to God, because he made us that way. Its like a woman praying to God to stop her from having her monthly period. This has been scientifically research  and is a behaviour evident in most mamalian male species. Accept the way you were made, embrace who you are and live your lives. Just hooked up with this fine swedish babe last nite, and it was "worth it" I have no regrets what so ever. The day women can give up their insatiable want for wordly things, thats the day Ill become a one woman man.

WOW I feel so much better . . . now i have an excuse

there's always the option of sex rehab,y'all can ask tiger woods

mecury_f:

there's always the option of sex rehab,y'all can ask tiger woods

What if your sex therapist turns out to be a woman?

The help of God is Required and u need to make up ur mind.

The hindu religion approve sex once a month for those that are married,and no sex for those not married,this helps a man to control himself when he know he is going against his faith and believe,a man can only stay with one woman if he is sincere to his GOD and faith.


@Hinduuuu

Sex once a month is proposrerous for a single guy not to talk of married,dont you know Onion is sweet

What if your sex therapist turns out to be a woman?

@sagamite

A female sex therapist would be the best to cure a man who lusts after women.

AS FOR ME MY ADVICE IS DAT EVERY YOUNG GUY SHOUL D HAVE WHO HE DIE FOR AS A BABE THEY TRY TO RESPSCT UR RELATIONSHIP
BY NOT GOING FOR ANOTHER GIRL.
SMOOTHCBLAST SAY SO.

I repeat, there is nothingyour prayer gets you that a non-prayer can not get.

Just try it first

As 4 me  the way to  overcome  it ,if you are  a married man just try to be arroaroundh your wife always , and make a promise to your self  that you will never date any other woman, so any time you want to think of other woman that sperispirit remind you  your promise , and try to avoid friends that womanize.If  you are single and u are dating only one girl   just try to put it into practice that you will not cheat on her and you will be addict to that , always  surport yourself with the world from the bible thou shall not commit aldutry .

Its in built in every man but its good for one 2 be moderate, Women are swit! lol!

women should know how to sue to get everything including the children, CS, Alimony. by the time the africa woman esp (cuz white women dont joke with this) knows how to do such, i think africa man will know how to curb their appetite

very simple. discipline, let your yes be and no be no

chines4:

Just try it first

Try something I have seen million others try without any results?

No, thank you!

I would rather you prove it first.

*Hauwa*:

women should know how to sue to get everything including the children, CS, Alimony. by the time the africa woman esp (cuz white women dont joke with this) knows how to do such, i think africa man will know how to curb their appetite

Avoid this woman like a plague.

We want prenup.

i don't care
let's say it as it is and should be

Sagamite:

Avoid this woman like a plague.

We want prenup.

u need serious deliverance.there is a spirit behind that.womanizing is a serious problem.u might be enjoying but how to stop is a problem.in doing this, ur money,time and every thing is at stake.

*Hauwa*:

i don't care
let's say it as it is and should be 

Say it as you want to say it. My prenup with your type would be as big as the Titanic, only difference is that it would be water tight. 

You will leave what you came with and earned. 

,  after so many runs across various age ranges, i have come to realise that womanizing is just a fruitless exercise in se.xual adventure. whether you admit to it or not, the heavenly feeling (Darn this nairaland bot. it is pour-pour or cum) will always remain for a few fleetin seconds and you will hate the reason why you did  it and worse, how much it cost you in cash and emotional baggage. The bush is always the same in the end, with your eyes clothes you cannot tell the difference between a boxum-yanshed babe and king-kong in a skirt 

let's wait and see
you know i laugh in ebonic when men talk abt prenup but just cant take care of small johnny.

Sagamite:

Say it as you want to say it. My prenup with your type would be as big as the Titanic, only difference is that it would be water tight.  

You will leave what you came with and earned.  

lagerwhenindoubt:

, after so many runs across various age ranges, i have come to realise that womanizing is just a fruitless exercise in se.xual adventure. whether you admit to it or not, the heavenly feeling (Darn this nairaland bot. it is pour-pour or come) will always remain for a few fleetin seconds and you will hate the reason why you did it and worse, how much it cost you in cash and emotional baggage. The bush is always the same in the end, with your eyes clothes you cannot tell the difference between a boxum-yanshed babe and king-kong in a skirt

bless you

*Hauwa*:

let's wait and see
you know i laugh in ebonic when men talk abt prenup but just cant take care of small johnny.

So when a woman cheats, will the courts also pass her wealth to the guy?

Who would want any other woman if he has this to come home to

or this?

Or this;