AfroKnight:
It’s so stressful to date someone you cannot get married to.

You’ll be planning how to ditch her after contract expiry. That’s when she will start acting like the relationship is going somewhere serious. Then you have to look for creative chances to call it quits. But you won’t find something convincing. Then you’d have to break her heart and everything just spirals out of control.

Stressful.

you guys need to know that not every love affair is with the view to marry. That's why we begin dating at school. Should we then marry while at school? Smh.

You lot tho.

chenzen:
when the going gets tough and u accidentally get her pregnant... please dont run away. if she s good enough for the sex, she should make a good wife. accept ur responsibility.


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when the going gets tough and he proposes to you, that's when u remember he s too old for u or he s too broke to sustain you, or that his mother doesn't like u or that he s too short or too ugly.




DATE WITH SENSE !!!

that's the new #Hashtag #DATEWITHSENSE

One of the best threads of the year

ubunja:
you guys need to know that not every love affair is with the view to marry. That's why we begin dating at school. Should we then marry while at school? Smh.

You lot tho.

When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse becomes inevitable. the core essence and purpose of dating or relationship should be marriage... nothing more, nothing less.

You dont drive a car aimlessly without a destination or direction. Have a clear view + understanding and reason why u should start up that relationship. sexual tensions or societal norms or peer pressure is not a cogent reason to kickstart a love affair.

you dont have to date someone to ascertain how eligible they are to make a good spouse...just become friends cos friendship actually allows everyone to be themselves but when relationship is considered, everyone pretends.


women are always the culprit and losers when a relationship ends. so I encourage them to set the tone so that guys should start taking them seriously.


people should get the right orientation.


#DATEWITHSENSE

chenzen:
When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse becomes inevitable. the core purpose of dating or relationship should be marriage... nothing more, nothing less.

You dont drive a care aimlessly without a destination or direction. Have a clear understanding and reason why u should start up that relationship. sexual tensions or societal norm or peer pressure is not a cogent reason to kickstart a love affair.

you dont have to date someone to ascertain how eligible they are to make a good spouse...just become friends cos friendship actually allow everyone be themselves but when relationship is considered everyone pretends.


women are always the culprit and losers when a relationship ends. so I encourage them to set the tone so that guys should start taking them seriously.


people should get the right orientation.


#DATEWITHSENSE

chenzen a man's first romantic association with a woman must NOT be with his wife. He needs experience as to how women think, act, behave and reason before being tied with a woman for life.

If maybe you guys were talking about no sex before marriage maybe you would be making sense. But love, a man must marry for love? Lmfao I'm laughing. How important is that love that a man must first get a wife to experience it??

chenzen:
When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse becomes inevitable. the core purpose of dating or relationship should be marriage... nothing more, nothing less.

You dont drive a car aimlessly without a destination or direction. Have a clear understanding and reason why u should start up that relationship. sexual tensions or societal norms or peer pressure is not a cogent reason to kickstart a love affair.

you dont have to date someone to ascertain how eligible they are to make a good spouse...just become friends cos friendship actually allows everyone to be themselves but when relationship is considered everyone pretends.


women are always the culprit and losers when a relationship ends. so I encourage them to set the tone so that guys should start taking them seriously.


people should get the right orientation.


#DATEWITHSENSE

the position of woman wrapper you're auditioning for has been taken by millions of asslickers everywhere. You won't get anything being one.

Les:
actions speak louder than words, this is where u know someone based on who the person is and not based on what the person says!

You are right. However, people can change for better. We should not use someone's story to judge them.

ubunja:
chenzen a man's first romantic association with a woman must NOT be with his wife. He needs experience as to how women think, act, behave and reason before being tied with a woman for life.

If maybe you guys were talking about no sex before marriage maybe you would be making sense. But love, a man must marry for love? Lmfao I'm laughing. How important is that love that a man must first get a wife to experience it??

if a man needs a romantic association with a woman to gain experience as to how women act, think, behave and reason then he should first of all try to work on his mindset...he needs to grow up, he need to know what he wants...he needs to discover himself and his purpose. what most persons actually need is intra-personal relationship and not interpersonal relationship... if a person doesn't know who he/she is, it is almost impossible for that person to relate or understand others... u dont need any romantic testing

ubunja:
you guys need to know that not every love affair is with the view to marry. That's why we begin dating at school. Should we then marry while at school? Smh.

You lot tho.

Your values and mine don’t have to align. If you don’t resonate with something, scroll past it.

AfroKnight:


Your values and mine don’t have to align. If you don’t resonate with something, scroll past it.

It's not even a value. You just find it stressful. It's not that you see it as wrong

AfroKnight:
It’s so stressful to date someone you cannot get married to.

You’ll be planning how to ditch her after contract expiry. That’s when she will start acting like the relationship is going somewhere serious. Then you have to look for creative chances to call it quits. But you won’t find something convincing. Then you’d have to break her heart and everything just spirals out of control.

Stressful.

usoroh4luv:
How will I know that we are not compatible when I'm not in a relationship with her?

Be friends. good friends

larryking540:


I tire oo,,,u must go intimate with her first so she can revel the unrevealable, then u fit decide

that's wrong... very wrong !!!

ubunja:
what else are they meant for? Enlighten me

support. you cannot question God for making an eve out of Adam's rib bone.

usoroh4luv:


Sex is not the ultimate brother. But, no doubt, it is close to been ultimate. It depends on how we see it.

To some girls, sex is nothing as long as they are benefitting from you financially. Besides, it takes two to tangle as both of you are participating in the Sexual activity.

there s more

chenzen:
that's wrong... very wrong !!!

no b me talk am o
na how female mind day work, ,,

larryking540:

no b me talk am o na how female mind day work, ,,

hmm

chenzen:
support. you cannot question God for making an eve out of Adam's rib bone.

what kind of support when women want a man already with money and everything??

ubunja:
what kind of support when women want a man already with money and everything??

is that what you think?

chenzen:
is that what you think?

answer

It's a question

ubunja:
what kind of support when women want a man already with money and everything??

how many women have u met that has such cravings... let's be honest... we joke a lot about how women loves guys with money so much... but the reality of that situation is that riches and wealth makes anyone attractive and desirable but it is not the number one standard for ladies who knows what they want... guys are always suggesting the monetary idea to the female folks by building the foundations of friendship or romance upon the grounds of material things.

if ur foundation is built upon the purpose of love. it will crash when you stop loving her.


if u build it upon money... when you go broke, it threatens the relationship.


women wants something more beyond just money, a guy should initially set up the pillar that carries his relationship to the direction he wants it to go.

chenzen:
how many women have u met that has such cravings... let's be honest... we joke a lot about how women loves guys with money so much... but the reality of that situation is that riches and wealth makes anyone attractive and desirable but it is not the number one standard for ladies who knows what they want... guys are always suggesting the monetary idea to the female folks by building the foundations of friendship or romance upon the grounds of material things.

if ur foundation is built upon the purpose of love. it will crash when you stop loving her.


if u build it upon money... when you go broke, it threatens the relationship.


women wants something more beyond just money, a guy should initially set up the pillar that carries his relationship to the direction he wants it to go.

so what's that thing that women want more than money?

ubunja:
so what's that thing that women want more than money?

care, love, attention, respect, protection