Nothing wrong in either male or female bestie. Some people are currently enjoining such friendship. However, the girl on the isn't really your bestie(you might argue this)
But its obvious she doesn't really respect and value you enough

Don't you have self-respect ? Why stressing yourself over someone who doesn't give a toss about you?

excessmon:
When I read people’s comments I marvel
However in 300level I can’t actually differentiate that the discussions between male and female at certain age isn’t really progressional

At a certain stage in life u have to pick a same sex as u bestie so that u can be challenged to achieve ur desired goals.

Funny when men share secrets with ladies and expect to be advised by people that look up to u for same

Tufia oga learn to become a man fully

how does having a female bestie equate to unmanliness?

Back your assertion with credible evidence otherwise don't bother replying at all.

DateMynd44:
u started developing feelings and u ran?
why u no ask am out ni

She bin get guy.
The guy huge, come get money on top.
I am a lover not a fighter.

tidalstorm:


She bin get guy.
The guy huge, come get money on top.
I am a lover not a fighter.

there's this bestie I have and we've been bestie since 100 level, I've always told her that I'll wanna marry her after I grad. now we're in our 300 and she at times gets angry if I don't call her as I always form busy and anytime I asked to see her she doesn't hesitates even during odd hours.
now she has never dated before according to her and she told me that guys have started asking her out and now I have also developed feelings for her so should I ask her for a relationship/girlfriend?
I'm scared of being turned down cos she respects me a lot and sees me as a child of God.

luvyaself95 Tpiander excessmon

DateMynd44:
guy u are too raw

But na so e be.
No sugarcoating!

oscarmoney:
Am a student currently in 300L..i have one close female dat we are so tight,we both call ourselves Bestie..i tell her everything about m n she does likewise..buh we started having issues when her boyfriend started threaten m dat I should leave her girlfriend alone n I told him m not dating her
later on d girl even started begging dat she doesnt know who to listen to BTW me n d guy,,
last month d guy started to send abusive words to m cuz of d girl that make m vex n I stop chatting with both of them...afterwards d girl just block m on facebook n whatsapp,,n dt really pissed me off cuz we had both b friends for like 5years n we had massive trust in each others
Does Male n female bestie exist nowadays

pls can i ask a question,im in same situation wit my babe,i dont trust her male bestie...ok d tin do u press her butt or breest or do u guys kiss or romance?

DateMynd44:
there's this bestie I have and we've been bestie since 100 level, I've always told her that I'll wanna marry her after I grad. now we're in our 300 and she at times gets angry if I don't call her as I always form busy and anytime I asked to see her she doesn't hesitates even during odd hours.
now she has never dated before according to her and she told me that guys have started asking her out and now I have also developed feelings for her so should I ask her for a relationship/girlfriend?
I'm scared of being turned down cos she respects me a lot and sees me as a child of God.

luvyaself95 Tpiander excessmon

she never date before ke
is she nun ?
you can ask her since you have once told her you want to marry her.
you don wet ground e don dey sure sey you go walk soft ground.

oscarmoney:
Am a student currently in 300L..i have one close female dat we are so tight,we both call ourselves Bestie..i tell her everything about m n she does likewise..buh we started having issues when her boyfriend started threaten m dat I should leave her girlfriend alone n I told him m not dating her
later on d girl even started begging dat she doesnt know who to listen to BTW me n d guy,,
last month d guy started to send abusive words to m cuz of d girl that make m vex n I stop chatting with both of them...afterwards d girl just block m on facebook n whatsapp,,n dt really pissed me off cuz we had both b friends for like 5years n we had massive trust in each others
Does Male n female bestie exist nowadays

You will eventually fuçk your bestie

oscarmoney:
Am a student currently in 300L..i have one close female dat we are so tight,we both call ourselves Bestie..i tell her everything about m n she does likewise..buh we started having issues when her boyfriend started threaten m dat I should leave her girlfriend alone n I told him m not dating her
later on d girl even started begging dat she doesnt know who to listen to BTW me n d guy,,
last month d guy started to send abusive words to m cuz of d girl that make m vex n I stop chatting with both of them...afterwards d girl just block m on facebook n whatsapp,,n dt really pissed me off cuz we had both b friends for like 5years n we had massive trust in each others
Does Male n female bestie exist nowadays

My best friend fell in love with me... In most cases besties with the opposite sex doesn't work...

Lamanii22:




My best friend fell in love with me... In most cases besties with the opposite sex doesn't work...

In all cases rather

DateMynd44:
there's this bestie I have and we've been bestie since 100 level, I've always told her that I'll wanna marry her after I grad. now we're in our 300 and she at times gets angry if I don't call her as I always form busy and anytime I asked to see her she doesn't hesitates even during odd hours.
now she has never dated before according to her and she told me that guys have started asking her out and now I have also developed feelings for her so should I ask her for a relationship/girlfriend?
I'm scared of being turned down cos she respects me a lot and sees me as a child of God.

luvyaself95 Tpiander excessmon

Ask her out if you'll feel jealous seeing her date another guy. It feels she likes you since she likes your attention and also she gives you hers.
It's better to get it off your chest.
Hope for the best but also expect the worst.

And don't expect it to end in marriage, it's still a long way till you guys finish school and settle down.

DateMynd44:
there's this bestie I have and we've been bestie since 100 level, I've always told her that I'll wanna marry her after I grad. now we're in our 300 and she at times gets angry if I don't call her as I always form busy and anytime I asked to see her she doesn't hesitates even during odd hours.
now she has never dated before according to her and she told me that guys have started asking her out and now I have also developed feelings for her so should I ask her for a relationship/girlfriend?
I'm scared of being turned down cos she respects me a lot and sees me as a child of God.

luvyaself95 Tpiander excessmon

There's nothing wrong in asking her out provided your intentions are genuine.. She already know the type of person you are so go ahead and express your feelings to her.

On the other hand, in the event that she turn you down, don't take it too personal, continue being the good friend Youve always been.

you're not fully a man if you're unable to handle and deal with rejection maturely .

Soulmender:


There's nothing wrong in asking her out provided your intentions are genuine.. She already know the type of person you are so go ahead and express your feelings to her.

@ on the other hand, in the event that she turn you down, don't take it too personal, continue being the good friend Youve always been.

you're not fully a man if you're unable to handle and deal with rejection maturely .

thanks alot for the emboldened and me I was like planning to delete her number and block her off if she turns me down.
okay when I once told her I have plans of marrying her after school, her response was like "okay may God have His way"
don't know what that means

Who is a true bestie really?

A true bestie is someone you have some attraction to but who "all things being equal" u will not date.....maybe they are not pretty enough tall enough or rich enough.....

But one thing is there.....you are quite attracted to the person or you wont spend so much time trying to be around that person "for nothing!!!!"

That attraction that makes u guys besties is enough to ignite a romantic fire when all things are no longer equal

karo93:
Who is a true bestie really?

A true bestie is someone you have some attraction to but who "all things being equal" u will not date.....maybe they are not pretty enough tall enough or rich enough.....

But one thing is there.....you are quite attracted to the person or you wont spend so much time trying to be around that person "for nothing!!!!"

That attraction that makes u guys besties is enough to ignite a romantic fire when all things are no longer equal

Gbam u said it all.
too much sense in ur brain

DateMynd44:
thanks alot for the emboldened and me I was like planning to delete her number and block her off if she turns me down.
okay when I once told her I have plans of marrying her after school, her response was like "okay may God have His way"
don't know what that means

It means you stand 90% chance ,but the other 10% is a huge percentage and can be critical if you're not careful. Good luck bro.