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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by fowlyansh181(m): 11:14pm On Sep 16, 2019
A girl that loves you with all her heart will never ever tell you to get a job for her at your workplace .. once she starts working there trust her to do the best she can to please her boss more than to please you there.. subconsciously doubts and jealousy will creep in on your part and when you confront her, she will tell you , you worry too much and nothing is or will happen.. then it continues again, until she gets tired and tells you, you are disturbing her with your insecurities and cuts it off, because she is fully independent and is in the same place with you were you answer somebody SIR... Confront her and tell her exactly why she shouldn’t work with you and if she remains adamant and stubborn, she either has a mission or she no get sense..

from my girlfriend again, to tell you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Whoeppme(m): 11:15pm On Sep 16, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

Tell her the only vacancy left is in the mortuary section of the company...
grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by JuicyStar: 11:19pm On Sep 16, 2019
Baba stop deceiving yourself. The babe isn’t planning her future with u, her aim from the onset is to use u to get a job in your company. Certainly there’s something juicy in that your company.

My advice is that you try to get her a good job in another company. If she insist that it must be in this your present place of work, then there’s more to her request.

By the way sef, u no get mouth to talk? Tell her all these things u talk here na...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by notoriousbabe: 11:23pm On Sep 16, 2019
Do what you have to do and stop wasting our data
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by ChristieXty(f): 11:31pm On Sep 16, 2019
Do you come here to ask us when you guys wan to do stuffs?,...Young man carry your cross.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Carlyboi(m): 11:31pm On Sep 16, 2019
pocohantas:


I guess the women he described are like his mum. Engage your brain more dear, it needs company. wink
local man cannot Can!apt response tho lol
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by superlanny(m): 11:41pm On Sep 16, 2019
pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking, yet bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard grin
Wtf... Bad girl wink
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Juliearth(f): 11:41pm On Sep 16, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?



You can make that happen and it doesn't have to be in your organization.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by ojonugba2014(m): 11:42pm On Sep 16, 2019
get her a job in d same company u works at ur own risk,a word is enough 4 d wise
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by GROUNDCHALEBOY(m): 11:44pm On Sep 16, 2019
YOUR GIRL WANT TO BE MONITORING UR MOVEMENT OH,SHE IS ONLY UR GF NOT UR WIFE ,IF SHE DISTURB U MUCH,JUST LET HER STAY HER LANE.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Alex09(m): 11:45pm On Sep 16, 2019
Remember samson & delilah oo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by bossrillboss: 12:05am On Sep 17, 2019
op bring ur head make I nack brain abi na sense inside am.Mtchewwwwwww.

Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by friendlyadvice: 12:20am On Sep 17, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?
Abeg which work be that wey you fit find work anytime you like? Them dey pay well? Abeg I go dm you my email epp me out
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by chrish(f): 12:23am On Sep 17, 2019
Katier00:
Please help her get a job if you can. If you truly love her you won't want to see her waste around while you could help. You can maintain a good working relationship at work and do your love things outside your work place. Reverse the case I know she will do that for you

I see you sis cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by slambee555(m): 12:53am On Sep 17, 2019
Ishilove:

Don't start what you can't finish. Tell her there is no vacancy, or the available slots have been given out. You're a grown ass adult. Be creative.
gbam!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by freedomisaac: 12:55am On Sep 17, 2019
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by seanjy4konji: 1:17am On Sep 17, 2019
how is it hard to say i have asked and there is no vacancy where i work...guess she is looking to even compete with you salary wise...

Get some balls.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by immaq8(f): 1:19am On Sep 17, 2019
Rules are made to-be-broken.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Nobody: 1:44am On Sep 17, 2019
condemn:


Best post. Op, make you take this post when I quote seriously oh. Do not lift a woman up. They are all ingrates.

Being an ingrate is not sexist.

Worse experiences await you when you assist a man.

It is even safer assisting a woman.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Damsel6061: 1:47am On Sep 17, 2019
Bros, if job dey give am, if job no dey tell am. I see no reason y she can't work at the same company with u. Are u scared she'll know ur pocket? Do u have anything you're hiding there? The more u deny her the job, the more she gets curious.. U need more than your balls to simply tell her "No job vacancy" for as long as u work there[color=#550000][/color]
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by OROSUNBOLB(m): 1:50am On Sep 17, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

You honestly think this is a problem ? The fear of losing her will eventually push and box you into that corner if you fail to act like a man that you are now. She can't work in your office,shikena ! Tell her that and free your mind ,otherwise sorry is your case!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by ngwababe(f): 2:01am On Sep 17, 2019
Bonatheripper:
You're not man enough if you can't tell her straight up your policies.
[s]What if she starts working in your office and dumps u and start dating your boss?
What if the sole purpose of her dating u was so u could get a job for her?
If you see her everyday you'll easily get tired of her... Likewise her.
You wouldn't like it when the males in your office start making advances or flirting with her.
Your relationship won't even last self if u both start working together[/s]

The cancelled ain't necessary, the guy no be man enough bro.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by frozen70(f): 2:05am On Sep 17, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?

Am issue as simple as this is what you can't handle with out seeking for advice from people ❓

Just be polite and tell her that its not possible because you don't know how and when they employ

ARE you scared of losing her ❓
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Obason22(m): 2:47am On Sep 17, 2019
Resign ur position so that she can take over.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by KingMicky3286: 3:05am On Sep 17, 2019
You have done that already.
cry
sweetonugbu:
If I call the op asshole will I be banned?.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Chibyke009(m): 3:37am On Sep 17, 2019
My guy do what's suits your interest both now and in the future. don't ever dance to ananybodys whims and caprices.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by DeHumbleTboy: 3:41am On Sep 17, 2019
Ishilove:

Don't start what you can't finish. Tell her there is no vacancy, or the available slots have been given out. You're a grown ass adult. Be creative.
grin grin grin why slapping the up join?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by GAZZUZZ(m): 4:08am On Sep 17, 2019
pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking, yet bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard grin

Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by VajanahDischaj(f): 4:26am On Sep 17, 2019
pocohantas:
Why would she even nurse the idea of working in the same organisation with you?

Biko send her the link to Nairaland-Job & Vacancies, Ngcareers, jobberman, LinkedIn...etc
na village girl she be
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by stormborn28(m): 5:01am On Sep 17, 2019
pocohantas:


Biko, pussy is strong- german engineering. E no easy to withstand vigorous knacking, yet bottom plate never fall. OP na prick, can't make up his mind to be soft or hard grin
Oturugbeke .... This Pocohantas no go kill me ooooooo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:13am On Sep 17, 2019
blackjack21:
I will be as simple as possible.

So me and this girl is dating and she needs a job. She's stylishly asking me to help get her a job where I work, the asking is starting to turn into nagging.
I admire and respect that she wants to work and earn, that's one thing I'll always love in any woman. But the idea of working is the Same company as me is just not comfortable with me, because, I don't date colleagues.
It's one rule I cannot scrap in my life.
No office Romance.

The trick here is I've already said 'Yes' because I thought she was joking, now it turns out she's serious, I. Don't like being pushed into a corner.

What to-do?
Your opinion is Nigerian. In the US and most advanced countries, it's not an issue
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Something That's Against My Rules. by Ishilove: 5:16am On Sep 17, 2019
stephenmorris:
lol so this my ukwuani babe still dey this forum
I still dey here kampe! grin

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